Brehs who split bills 50/50 but expect submission, why?

[3rd Ward Swangin]

I don't use the word submission. My ex was trying to be on this type of time.

This is after her value went down. She's a single mother of 2. She tried to develope an ego after becoming a baby mama.

I said so you think I should pay for everything and treat you like a wife before marriage. Then you aren't doing anything like a wife out of your own mouth. I said so you want me to buy your respect. If I don't have it then there isn't any respect for me.

I asked what are you bringing to the table and what are you doing with your .
She was unable to answer. I said you're supposed to auditioning to become a wife. You're supposed to show me what I would want in you and lock you down. Her dumb ass said I didn't think about it like that. I'm supposed to wife you up then you're magically start acting like a wife after marriage.

I left her alone before this and she was trying to get back with me. She kept saying I'm not waiting. I said okay go do your thing. She got with a old guy who pays for everything and is miserable because he got her stupid ass stuck at his crib. He don't have the money like he portrayed. She got an expensive car through him.

Dude feel like he can come and go as he pleases because he pay for everything. She gone say I don't want this and I know you're happy in going through it

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

people don't realize that these talking points aren't organically happening. There's a larger American project to get women out of the workplace and back into housekeeper roles. Brehs do a lot of talking about the old days when grandmothers were subservient and submitted to their husbands all while ignoring that on one hand, the unemployment rates for Black men have been above recession levels for more than 50 years now AND women of the time didn't have the opportunities and freedoms they have today.

of the top 15 most popular Black Facebook groups, something like 10 were troll farms, I can't really impress upon you how disturbing it is. This means that people pretending to be Black are steering discussions in Black spaces.

Troll farms reached 140 million Americans a month on Facebook before 2020 election, internal report shows

“This is not normal. This is not healthy.”

www.technologyreview.com

Wow. I knew they were active during election seasons trying to steer the black vote. But it never occurred to me that they'd be in a thread like this.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

If you have her soul women will submit to a bum.

 

[dangerranger]

Bruh straight up ignored all the red incorrect spelling lines and straight up hit post.

 

[dangerranger]

people don't realize that these talking points aren't organically happening. There's a larger American project to get women out of the workplace and back into housekeeper roles. Brehs do a lot of talking about the old days when grandmothers were subservient and submitted to their husbands all while ignoring that on one hand, the unemployment rates for Black men have been above recession levels for more than 50 years now AND women of the time didn't have the opportunities and freedoms they have today.

of the top 15 most popular Black Facebook groups, something like 10 were troll farms, I can't really impress upon you how disturbing it is. This means that people pretending to be Black are steering discussions in Black spaces.

Troll farms reached 140 million Americans a month on Facebook before 2020 election, internal report shows

“This is not normal. This is not healthy.”

www.technologyreview.com

Thank you. You see it. It’s happening all over tik tok and IG. It’s like who is pushing this and we are falling for it over and over again because that’s people’s way of trying to get on or everyone has an opinion on this topic. It’s sad but some people know us better than many of us know ourselves.

 

[MasterOfAllHeSurveyz]

Who gives a fukk?

 

[Pillmattic]

Shes either submissive or not. A non submissive female won't suddenly become submissive with 100% of the bills paid.

And a lot of ppl don’t figure that out tell there already in love with the person and it’s too late then there stuck fighting over control constantly

 

[Diondon]

Deposit that pay check in the joint account
I can do my share of cleaning just fine
Now if you're talking about your woman openly disrespecting
You just might be a cake ass nikka

 

[Miss Lewcee1]

Another coli myth debunked in real time. This is far from the truth.

When you taking care of the bills, most women are able to feel secure enough to let their submissive side out. A lot of women have had to witness their mothers be the man of the house. That forces them to suppress their submissive ways.

When she feels physically and financially protected she’ll submit.

This is exactly correct. I'm not about to submit to a fukking roommate. Because at 50/50, that's what we are. I don't need a man to take care of me, but if you're asking for half the rent, you'll be getting half of me. I was raised by a father who made sure our home was taken care of so that's all I know. My mom was never a housewife, she had her own, but when my dad put his foot down, there were no complaints because we never wanted for shyt and that was because of him.

 

[I'm Blackman]

Shes either submissive or not. A non submissive female won't suddenly become submissive with 100% of the bills paid.

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[Ezekiel 25:17]

What exactly is the problem?

Feminists wanted to work. So now the bills gotta be split 50/50. You expect them to keep their money while using yours? What kinda of dumb premise is that?

 

[Joe Budden]

What exactly is the problem?

Feminists wanted to work. So now the bills gotta be split 50/50. You expect them to keep their money while using yours? What kinda of dumb premise is that?

I expect men who wanted a submissive woman to bear the responsibility of all finances.

 

[Joe Budden]

This is exactly correct. I'm not about to submit to a fukking roommate. Because at 50/50, that's what we are. I don't need a man to take care of me, but if you're asking for half the rent, you'll be getting half of me. I was raised by a father who made sure our home was taken care of so that's all I know. My mom was never a housewife, she had her own, but when my dad put his foot down, there were no complaints because we never wanted for shyt and that was because of him.

I don’t know why men have a hard time understanding this. It’s really that simple. Your dad sounds like an old school man’s man.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I expect men who wanted a submissive woman to bear the responsibility of all finances.

Why would a man bear the responsibility of all finances if the woman makes near his salary? That doesn't make sense.

 

[Joe Budden]

Why would a man bear the responsibility of all finances if the woman makes near his salary? That doesn't make sense.

If he wants submission from that woman it makes perfect sense.