Brehs who split bills 50/50 but expect submission, why?

[ShackZilla89]

Another coli myth debunked in real time. This is far from the truth.

When you taking care of the bills, most women are able to feel secure enough to let their submissive side out. A lot of women have had to witness their mothers be the man of the house. That forces them to suppress their submissive ways.

When she feels physically and financially protected she’ll submit.

Simps thinking their "providing" will unlock some secret submission...Its all fun and games until the divorce comes, and she got you in submission from running your pockets and legally taking your assets...

 

[Spectre]

Simps thinking their "providing" will unlock some secret submission...Its all fun and games until the divorce comes, and she got you in submission from running your pockets and legally taking your assets...

Thank you.

Some damn sense in this thread.

You know how many rich providers have been cheated on and divorced from?

Submission my ass

 

[AAKing23]

Simps thinking their "providing" will unlock some secret submission...Its all fun and games until the divorce comes, and she got you in submission from running your pockets and legally taking your assets...

Thank you.

Some damn sense in this thread.

You know how many rich providers have been cheated on and divorced from?

Submission my ass

Exactly that submissive shyt in 2022 is a setup, nikkas let these women pump their head up with all this “I’m submissive “ ego stroking nonsense only to get beasted once she decides to move on and take half your shyt since you were providing such a wonderful lifestyle to her.

Only thing I care about hoes submitting to is my dikk.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

That submissive thing is kind of gay. I just want a girl I can get along with.

 

[Commish]

🗣 for self, I am not king for a submissive woman. I do require that a woman I deal with is respectful & cooperative.

As far as finances go, it will depend on a host of factors, but it is very difficult for one person during the Covid era to support a whole family comfortably off of one income, especially in a HCOL state.

No grown adult woman is gonna sharecrop me! I am no person's slave! Too old to be Kunta Kente'd! A woman on that Jim Crow shyt can take that bs to somebody else...

My current lady doesn't place ANY demands on me. She understands how life is and she does things for me voluntarily w/o me asking with the kindness of her ..

Every man is different and has different standards and expectations.

 

[SupaDupaFresh]

people don't realize that these talking points aren't organically happening. There's a larger American project to get women out of the workplace and back into housekeeper roles. Brehs do a lot of talking about the old days when grandmothers were subservient and submitted to their husbands all while ignoring that on one hand, the unemployment rates for Black men have been above recession levels for more than 50 years now AND women of the time didn't have the opportunities and freedoms they have today.

of the top 15 most popular Black Facebook groups, something like 10 were troll farms, I can't really impress upon you how disturbing it is. This means that people pretending to be Black are steering discussions in Black spaces.

Troll farms reached 140 million Americans a month on Facebook before 2020 election, internal report shows

“This is not normal. This is not healthy.”

www.technologyreview.com

Sad part is coli niccas be the types that be all up in the troll farms picking up militant bullshyt about obtaining "submissive wives", "bothsides" and not voting, and believe they're in a more authentic space. Than they'll call legitimate, intelligent black publications like Essence and the Root "DNC shill c00ns".

Yes motherfukkers who frequent the internet and cannot think for themselves really are being politically manipulated.

 

[Gloxina]

I don't use the word submission. My ex was trying to be on this type of time.

This is after her value went down. She's a single mother of 2. She tried to develope an ego after becoming a baby mama.

I said so you think I should pay for everything and treat you like a wife before marriage. Then you aren't doing anything like a wife out of your own mouth. I said so you want me to buy your respect. If I don't have it then there isn't any respect for me.

I asked what are you bringing to the table and what are you doing with your .
She was unable to answer. I said you're supposed to auditioning to become a wife. You're supposed to show me what I would want in you and lock you down. Her dumb ass said I didn't think about it like that. I'm supposed to wife you up then you're magically start acting like a wife after marriage.

I left her alone before this and she was trying to get back with me. She kept saying I'm not waiting. I said okay go do your thing. She got with a old guy who pays for everything and is miserable because he got her stupid ass stuck at his crib. He don't have the money like he portrayed. She got an expensive car through him.

Dude feel like he can come and go as he pleases because he pay for everything. She gone say I don't want this and I know you're happy in going through it

She was silly

Now, “single mother” of two? Or divorcée with two kids from wedlock?

 

[Son Goku]

This topic is new and interesting!

 

[Gloxina]

1. Because some black men have seen some black women have no problem looking after, funding and housing the bums and worst type of men of our community in exchange for d.

So if that type of breh is getting full cooperation and doesn’t have to provide anything other than his dikk another breh will see that and think “I shouldn’t have to pay all the bills for your cooperation”.

2. Because “50/50” is only a dirty word for one group of women… black women. Cac women and Asian women have no problem sharing the bills and still following their men at the same time if they know their money is being pooled to acquire eventual wealth.

Black women call it “struggle love” or “being a roommate” etc other women call it “getting up the ladder and acquiring wealth faster”

This is accurate.

I think the issue is a lot of people haven’t witnessed couples actually doing this successfully.

A lot of people witnessed mothers do it all alone, so some women don’t know how to pick a man who can lead in that type of situation, and some men don’t want to really carry the load because they think women can do it all like their moms.

And while you’re saying this, there are men who are railing against women who are educated, women who own homes, women who come with money, and saying that those women aren’t bringing anything special to the table and women shouldn’t feel like they are doing something when they accomplished good things. So the women who ARE down to build with men are told that they are too masculine because they have achieved academic/financial success.

So…? We have things that need to be figured out man.

But yea, pooling together is ideal for most couples because only like 10-15% of men in America can really afford to have SAHWs.
And I say this coming from a family with multiple SAHWs. The men in my family who can afford it make bank.

 

[Koli_Kat]

Black woman ain't doing no fukking submission for the most part so how is this even a debate unless you date interacially

ProTip: Most black woman rather be alone if you trying to go 50/50

 

[Phitz]

Another coli myth debunked in real time. This is far from the truth.

When you taking care of the bills, most women are able to feel secure enough to let their submissive side out. A lot of women have had to witness their mothers be the man of the house. That forces them to suppress their submissive ways.

When she feels physically and financially protected she’ll submit.

This rule is only for you

The rest of us can make a living picking tomatos, selling vacuum cleaners, or construction and STILL get submission. It's not conditional for the rest of us.

I've seen women be the bread winner and still submit.

If it's conditional then she's a controling low life female dog

 

[Evil genius Jay]

Black woman ain't doing no fukking submission for the most part so how is this even a debate unless you date interacially

ProTip: Most black woman rather be alone if you trying to go 50/50

I know some Latina woman rather be alone before trying to go 50/50. I told them good luck, this is different world now.

 

[Koli_Kat]

I know some Latina woman rather be alone before trying to go 50/50. I told them good luck, this is different world now.

Yea black and Latina women in a lot of major cities been on that wave.

Social media tells women any man that wants 50/50 is a roommate and not to bother

With the cost of living nowdays all that shyt is doing is further splitting up families

 

[humminbird]

what is she doing with her full adult salary though?

 

[3rd Ward Swangin]

She was silly

Now, “single mother” of two? Or divorcée with two kids from wedlock?

Baby mama with 2 kid's. She's been married a few time's. But not to the kid's father.