Brehs with daughters..

[Gimini00]

My daughter is 4 years old, she's very quiet and always in her bubble playing by herself, when she's mad she stares at me like and then begins to cry after a few minutes.....She probably say to herself "I'm mad but I can't do anything"

 

[FSP]

I can't have a daughter. This thread is crazy.

Girls in their teens are a different story. Daughters in their early years are real life angels.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Y'all really spanking little girls in 2016 for respect

It's a little girl you don't got to lay a hand on them for them to listen. Step you're fatherhood game up

CAC for sure

 

[Pure Water]

You don't need to beat her has tbh... Just pay attention to what she likes the most. And if she doesn't listen take it from her and let her know why you did it.

Or walk out of her life, shyt, idk. I don't have kids.

 

[Originalman]

Consequences when she grows up will be ten times worse if she doesn't learn the importance of listening at a young age. Get it out the way when they're fairly young (before 5) and from there you should be able to govern with the threat of fear rather than actual fear or physical punishment. Basically let them know that the parent's word is not to be fukked with at an age that's before they can learn to think that violence is possibly a viable solution to problems. This worked great for me at least, ymmv.

Well said

 

[Standing on business]

If you have to beat a child at such a young age, then it's the parents fault. A child is gonna child, it's up to the parents to nip certain behaviors in the bud and be CONSISTENT in doing so. Use tactical ways to change behaviors, you're supposed to be smarter than them. Remember, they've only been on earth for a couple of years and you've been here much longer. Beating a child this young?

Naw, when my two year old threw her iPad down and told me no she got that butt tapped





It wasn't that hard though

 

[FSP]

Naw, when my two year old threw her iPad down and told me no she got that butt tapped





It wasn't that hard though

2 year olds

 

[Originalman]

shyt all fun and games as a parent not spanking...until them kids become teenagers and talk back and try to swing on their parents.

Believe that......I will never forget a white kat I was cool with parents never spanked dude. He never feared his parents and talked to them any type of way.

As a teenager I was over his house eating dinner. When all of a sudden him and his dad got into a argument. Then all of a sudden the dude I was cool with threw his table down and swung on his father. Next thing dude and his dad swinging on each other like heavy weight fight.

I ran up out the house and went home. Later that evening old boy called me and was like sorry about that man. Me and my dad always get into fights at dinner....

Dude said as a kid he never got spankings and he didn't appreciate his parents trying to discipline him now since he was a teenager.

 

[Gimini00]

There's a big difference between beating your child and just spanking, the latter is not that bad and depend on the situation, some child need to be spank because their behavior are too extreme and they need some punishment. I never spank my children but i understand why some parents are doing it because some childs are just impossible to live it.

 

[FSP]

shyt all fun and games as a parent not spanking...until them kids become teenagers and talk back and try to swing on their parents.

Believe that......I will never forget a white kat I was cool with parents never spanked dude. He never feared his parents and talked to them any type of way.

As a teenager I was over his house eating dinner. When all of a sudden him and his dad got into a argument. Then all of a sudden I was cool with threw his table down and swung on his father. Next thing dude and his dad swinging on each other like heavy weight fight.

I ran up out the house and went home. Later that evening old boy called me and was like sorry about that man. Me and my dad always get into fights at dinner....

Dude said as a kid he never got spankings and he didn't appreciate his parents trying to discipline him now since he was a teenager.

I've gotten into fights with my dad and I've been spanked plenty.

Think about it this way. People who are physically abused are more likely to act out of violence because they believe the behavior is okay. Extremes are just not good. You don't need to be hit to understand discipline. Some of the baddest kids I knew in school got straight whopped by their parents sometimes right in front of me.

 

[Stir Fry]

I've gotten into fights with my dad and I've been spanked plenty.

Think about it this way. People who are physically abused are more likely to act out of violence because they believe the behavior is okay. Extremes are just not good. You don't need to be hit to understand discipline. Some of the baddest kids I knew in school got straight whopped by their parents sometimes right in front of me.

Yeah, my mom spanked, but my dad beat...

I ended up choking him out a couple years ago for telling me that i was imagining what he put me through as a kid. It was actually a very cathartic moment for me. Later on we were able to have a healthy dialog about it thanks to my wife's mediation. He passed away not too long afterwards and I'm glad i was able to close the wounds that he had left on me before he died.

 

[pawdalaw]

Your not reading clearly breh. Don't be defensive, spanking is beating, you can still get your child taken away for it. It's unfair but it is what it is.

2 of those quotes came after your post and one of them said spanking not beating. I was beat as a child and will not beat my kids. I will spank, and so far my children are head and shoulders above their peers in behavior and academics.

*edit, 1 of those quotes came after. And the breh who mentioned the belt. Didn't specificly say beating. I don't use belts on my kids. But I understand it. Sometimes it's the sound and not pain that gets them.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

I don't have kids, but see nothing wrong with spanking. Matter of fact I'd smack the shyt out of the lil jit if he/she was being disrespectful.

 

[Fade Runner 2049]

CAC for sure

fukk outta here with that stereotype that not spanking is white people shyt. It's 2016

 

[Stir Fry]

I don't have kids, but see nothing wrong with spanking. Matter of fact I'd smack the shyt out of the lil jit if he/she was being disrespectful.

That jitright will make em get right