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If you have to beat a child at such a young age, then it's the parents fault. A child is gonna child, it's up to the parents to nip certain behaviors in the bud and be CONSISTENT in doing so. Use tactical ways to change behaviors, you're supposed to be smarter than them. Remember, they've only been on earth for a couple of years and you've been here much longer. Beating a child this young?:what:
 

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Threads like these don't want me having kids, let alone daughters

:to: I could be the father mine never was though
 

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:mjlol: Some of y'all act like there is no middle ground between not spanking and beating a child.

:hhh: Have no nuance brehs

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

Y'all out here thinking they tantrums are cute at this age and are about to raise kids like this:

Instead of kids who think before they act


:hubie:But what do I know... I ain't got no kids
 

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Y'all really spanking little girls in 2016 for respect :dahell:

It's a little girl you don't got to lay a hand on them for them to listen. Step you're fatherhood game up
My friend a lot of fathers out here wondering where they went wrong. A lot of girls and women out here lost as all hell too. I use everything at my disposal. So far all indications are that my game is top notch.
 

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:mjlol: Some of y'all act like there is no middle ground between not spanking and beating a child.

:hhh: Have no nuance brehs

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

Y'all out here thinking they tantrums are cute at this age and are about to raise kids like this:

Instead of kids who think before they act


:hubie:But what do I know... I ain't got no kids


Lol I only skimmed this vid, but this isn't bad. She's just mad her car isn't working. I wouldn't even yell at her for that. I don't know if I'll spank my kids, but I'm not ruling it out. Hopefully I can think of other ways to discipline them. I don't have any kids though, what do I know :yeshrug:
 

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How do yall discipline your daughters and get them to listen?
:mjcry:


mine is 3 1/2 bad as shyt and don't listen when I tell her not to do shyt. I get no respect
:mjcry:


her mom say she take advantage of me cause I don't whoop her ass, but I just can't do it its my babygirl. :mjcry:

I have 3 girls
My youngest is 4 and I still give her that pop like :ufdup: when she gets out of hand and put her ass in timeout
She be like :mjcry: I be like :whistle:
I pop her hand tho
My other daughters I don't touch cuz of age reason 8,9
What I do tho is yank the shyt out of their ear tho :mjgrin: when they act up and ground them
If they need a ass whopping they have their mom even tho I think she is softer than a marshmallow but she will do it if I tell her too
I show no mercy to my kids
I want them to have respect for themselves and their elders
 

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My daughter just turned 10, she got her first spanking around 3, but now I really only whoop her ass for lying or being scandalous lol The key is to make those ass whooping count. I put the fear of God into her this way I can just use threats most of the time. In 10 years I've only had to spank her like 7 or 8 times. 2 were in the last year though because shes starting to feel herself alittle.
 

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If you have to beat a child at such a young age, then it's the parents fault. A child is gonna child, it's up to the parents to nip certain behaviors in the bud and be CONSISTENT in doing so. Use tactical ways to change behaviors, you're supposed to be smarter than them. Remember, they've only been on earth for a couple of years and you've been here much longer. Beating a child this young?:what:
Quote the post where someone said they beat a child. So far all I've read a about is a slap on the butt.
 
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Haha, I don't actually spank my daughters. What I do is hit my hand instead and they think it's a spanking. Seems to work but my oldest is 2 1/2 and she still has problems following instructions. Terrible 2's I guess. I don't want my daughters growing up ever thinking being hit is okay. But at the same time I really will spank them if they do something that endangers their life or the life or their health, like putting their hand on the stove or running out in the street
 

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Quote the post where someone said they beat a child. So far all I've read a about is a slap on the butt.
I feel your pain breh. It's hard to discipline the princess and not feel bad about it. My daughter has even told people all she has to do is give me the puppy dog eyes

She's right :mjcry:

I've spanked her a couple times but immediately would feel bad and apologize. What works best for me is to take something away and be firm with it. Luckily she's a goody goody and rarely does anything wrong but her mouth is smart as shyt

They say if a child does 10 things wrong, ignore 9. That said I'm a big proponent of the belt. Mine is 4 and that's my baby but I'll put that leather on her behind if need be. Just had to the other day for acting a fool with her mother out in public throwing tantrums and shyt.

Ironically I have no trouble out of her ever. Her mother has to deal with her acting out when I ain't around and that's because she's slow with the strap cuttin deals and shyt

My daughter just turned 10, she got her first spanking around 3, but now I really only whoop her ass for lying or being scandalous lol The key is to make those ass whooping count. I put the fear of God into her this way I can just use threats most of the time. In 10 years I've only had to spank her like 7 or 8 times. 2 were in the last year though because shes starting to feel herself alittle.

Your not reading clearly breh. Don't be defensive, spanking is beating, you can still get your child taken away for it. It's unfair but it is what it is.
 
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