Brehs with Young Daughters and Sisters

[prime]

I have one daughter and another on the way and my Answer is HELL NO and honestly I talk to my female cousins who are between the ages of 17 to 25 and all of them don’t want no old azz man And plus I don’t see how a 40 year old man could seriously Date a 18 year old I feel like the only dudes that do are the ones that have the Peter Pan syndrome or dudes who has a good career but was lame as hell in high school and early 20s

 

[5n0man]

at the bolded. Y'all can't be interacting with women in real life.

Married for 7 years, speak for yourself.

 

[010101]

tell her do better..........*

 

[OliviaTwist]

Why play dumb? The average younger man isn't as established as the average older man.

I’ve dated men my age and never struggled. We’re peers, same education level, same financial status.

So basically you’re okay with young women being gold diggers using and seeing older men as nothing but a “resource?”

 

[Still Benefited]

Man what are you talking about? do these men have their own businesses that bring in money? I’m sure most women would prefer to work at a family company than outside companies but most men don’t have the means to offer their wives that luxury.

Preparing your womb,having kids,taking care of the home,teaching the kids our cirriculum and good character,chores,errands,reading,honing your sex skills,developing and knowing yourself. Unless of course you have something better to do



When your righteously attached,family is a corperation. Worry more about cooperation than a corporation, and we as a community will have more righteous unions. This goes for both men and women.

 

[number21]

I’ve dated men my age and never struggled. We’re peers, same education level, same financial status.

So basically you’re okay with young women being gold diggers using and seeing older men as nothing but a “resource?”

You cats love playing dumb.

And all relationships are transactional. Especially, in this society.

 

[Scaaar]

That might be what she wants

If that is and I've given her the game then she's gotta accept what consequences come on that back end. I'm tired of hearing the victim stories when we've had yrs of the same thing happening and what the results are going to be. I already have it set that I can save my daughter from certain things only once after that, you gotta live with what you wanted to do. I stumbled and got the bumps and bruises in life so you don't have to. You gotta uphold the standards even if it's my own blood.

 

[Numpsay]

Married for 7 years, speak for yourself.

What age did you meet your wife and what is the age difference between the two of you? Also you being married lends to my point. You ain't out here dealing with womEn.

 

[5n0man]

I’ve dated men my age and never struggled. We’re peers, same education level, same financial status.

So basically you’re okay with young women being gold diggers using and seeing older men as nothing but a “resource?”

Ain't it crazy how dudes encourage the type of behavior we supposedly hate in women?

This is what happens when you watch too many Andrew Tate videos.

 

[The ADD]

If that is and I've given her the game then she's gotta accept what consequences come on that back end. I'm tired of hearing the victim stories when we've had yrs of the same thing happening and what the results are going to be. I already have it set that I can save my daughter from certain things only once after that, you gotta live with what you wanted to do. I stumbled and got the bumps and bruises in life so you don't have to. You gotta uphold the standards even if it's my own blood.

Might not be any consequences.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Perfectly said,there was a time Im sure where women werent protected by the govt. But as long as Ive been alive? Women have white supremacy at their beck in call to remove an abusive man. Who will also gladly support them financially. The only reason women stay in abusive relationship is love and stupidity. Which can work hand in hand obviously.

She knows this but want to play that it's money and these women will end up homeless, so that's why they are staying in these fuk'd up ass relationships.

Who she think she's replying to, boo the fool Oh it's money that's keeping women in the relationship, get all the way out of here with that nonsense.

Like I said, mind is straight out of BET, la la land.

Grown ass adult women have jobs, these women take more vacations than most men with their girlfriends, these women pay for $100 dollar dinners, these women keep the weave and their nails and toes stay on point but you want me to believe that they can't get leave a man because they will end up homeless smh.

Stop living on TV

 

[5n0man]

What age did you meet your wife and what is the age difference between the two of you?

She's a year younger than me, and we met at 24.


But you ain't gotta take my word for it.


"The brain finishes developing and maturing in the mid-to-late 20s. The part of the brain behind the forehead, called the prefrontal cortex, is one of the last parts to mature. This area is responsible for skills like planning, prioritizing, and making good decisions."

 

[OliviaTwist]

That's the same question I ask? What exactly is struggle love? Now if you're in your late 30s and dating a bum I understand and you gotta eat that because that's what you qualify for. But in your 20s everyone is broke and figuring it out unless you come from money and that's a rare exception. statistically most people don't make a comfortable income until their 30s.

Exactly. How is it struggle when we’re all the same?

On one hand they say all women want are surrogate daddies to take care of them, then on the other hand actively encourage older men to seek out this same uneven dynamic where the men are only seen as ATMs. But any women that DO take the offer of an old man is a money hungry gold digger but any man that does is living the life. Yell GMB any chance they get but any woman that isn’t married by 27 is “leftover”.

It’s not adding up

 

[The ADD]

I have one daughter and another on the way and my Answer is HELL NO and honestly I talk to my female cousins who are between the ages of 17 to 25 and all of them don’t want no old azz man And plus I don’t see how a 40 year old man could seriously Date a 18 year old I feel like the only dudes that do are the ones that have the Peter Pan syndrome or dudes who has a good career but was lame as hell in high school and early 20s

They probably are just running through them.

 

[mag357]

This has been a good topic lol

Yall can't see how your own words don't make sense tho.

Your daughter is 20 and y'all say she doesn't have the mental capacity to make decision and can be manipulated.

But you will hand her over to a nikka the same age as her to be her MAN. He's supposed to have the mental capacity to guide her and do right by her lol
He's probably less mature than she is smh

Bruh... I must be from another planet.

I be seeing y'all getting your teenaged daughters all dressed up and sexy'd up, just to put her in the hands of a teen aged boy for a night at prom.
Like just handing your daughters over to get used up.

Some of us value our women more than others.

If my daughter likes a young man and he comes to the table fully prepared to treat my daughter they way I can in my home, then he can be her man. That is a very tough thing for a young man to do tho.
I'd tell him to go find success and come back when he's ready.
Not only is this about my daughter but that young man needs guidance too.
Focus on success first, then worry about a woman later.
Cause I'm not sending my daughter off so she has to work hard, just so some nikka can get a house, cars, and vacations.

If my daughter likes an older dude, who am I to tell her who she can and cant be attracted to. But I definitely will give my opinion on his character and I'm not letting anyone ruin or damage something I helped cultivate, which is my daughter.

So if my daughter brings Idris elba's old ass in my house.. respectfully, fully prepared to lead. And a game plan to sustain a nice future for himself, my daughter and any offspring. Then me and him will be watching football on Sundays in our wheelchairs together.