Yeah and beautiful women don't always come into your life saying "I'm going to make your dikk burn" either.
Handing out STDs also happens over time. A woman could be with you and eventually you can trust her enough to not use condoms and trust her on BC, and by the time your dikk starts burning you're left wondering where you went wrong and In some cases are stuck with said STD for the rest of your life.
You underestimate the power a woman has over a man, sexually, emotionally, romantically and psychologically? A man in love sometimes has no way of defending himself from a cheating woman either.
As a man, I know what's it's like to go through abuse, but I went through child abuse, and the difference is I didn't bring that person in my life, those women make the choice to bring those men in their lives though.
You need to go fall in love and trust a woman 100%, and see what happens when you go to the doctor and he tells you you're sick after you left yourself vulnerable around a woman you thought that you loved you
So you enjoy being the victim?
You enjoy comparing yourself and using that as your base of analysis against women who are in abusive relationships?
Your a fukking man. We always get the shyt end of the stick. But then we triumph and become better men.
Men are warriors. That's something often forgotten in modern society. Not a warrior in the sense of we go out and kill everything, but we are supposed to be the authority, the living totems of our communities.
We are the standard, the rules, and the definition. We make things happens and control our reactions. Its our responsibility to keep our guard up always. It's our duty to protect the family.
Women test men's vulnerability. If you failed a test, you weren't prepared and failed yourself. That I know cause I've been there too.
There are certain rules to the game of being a man. And I'll say it's harder to be a man than it is to be a woman, because we do the hard things. And I mean there's a code of honor to protect oneself from the weak, the parasites.
When you value and embody masculinity as a spiritual role, you will see your path as well as which others to avoid. It's a learning process brought about through pain. But it's well worth the journey.
A large part of masculinity is what you do for others. Give more than you take or receive and you will receive what is to be given to you when it is time to receive it.
I know it seems contradictory to what we were raised to believe but it's the truth in the Spirit of the Tribe, the land, etc. Your brain may fight what I'm saying but your balls agree.
Modern society teaches us to be greedy and to take as much as we can. Making us needy and parasitic. You catch more goes with honey. Native spirituality teaches us to contribute to the community, the tribe, the land.
Adjust your self accordingly. Become a source of love while protecting yourself from anything that isn't exactly what you want and reap the benefits.
I can also give you a big psychological breakdown of what happened to you and how you need to press forward despite what's happened. But I'll spare you the lecture.