Bu bu bu the divestor movement is just online

[Weaver31]

There people need to get a life they seem jealous and insecure as ND they don't look good to any race of people they are a big nuances like they are stopping bm from datimg who they want it seems they are mad alot of people domt view them as dateble

I totally agree with u on the bold part. Divestors and c00n dudes look bad to non blacks with shyt like this. I seen a post online from a wm who is open to bw and says stay away from bw who hates or not open to her own men.

 

[GoAggieGo.]

So much hate in our community. Hate for each other. Seeing that little black boys were being targeted by everyone, not just white folks, was a huge eye opener. Mess with whoever messes with you.

Pro-black, and pro-black community when it’s beneficial.

When it’s not beneficial, they calling you militant

 

[Gloxina]

Well to be fair, the black man's image has been utterly destroyed for awhile now.

We are looked at as a complete joke collectively..so it was only a matter of time before a certain segment of OUR OWN WOMEN fell for the propaganda.

Just look at how rap music makes black men look to the world.. we look like overgrown children. We look like the LEAST Responsible when it comes to protecting and providing for a family compared to other groups of men.

Ultimately this is all by design and let's not pretend like this is a one way street. Some of you dudes have as much animosity & venom towards BW as they do for us.

Matter of fact, I could make the argument that it mostly started with US black men and now the women are simply reacting.

I mean look at what we've called our women on the most public of platforms for decades now.....bytches & hoez.

Hiphop destroyed the image of Black men for the financial benefit of a few, and helped destroy the image of Black women because we accepted our men referring to us as “Bs” and “Hs” and danced to the music saying “Well they aren’t talking about me”. And we were the “video girls”. Then when women finally stood up and had enough, they started putting more white and Hispanic women in the videos, then the “exotic”, “foreign” chicks became the wave.

But we fell for it. So the onus is on us as a people.

We all have to look in the mirror and fix ourselves, and then fix the community.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Man I was foot racing my youngest cousins and we were talking trash back n forth.. After I beat her, she said black men are not good for anything and are nothing but ATMs and Wallets. I was SO SHOCKED. I never really heard those terms as slang but knew they were some internet type lingo, my ears perked up.. She peeped my change in tone but it was too late, so I started asking her about it.. Next thing she saying oh black men dont like dark skin girls and all this BS. Im like, yooooo.. Your dad is with your mom who is dark skin, your uncle is with your aunt who is dark skin, your grandparents are both darkskin, I had to explain what people say online you have to press it up against real life.. That is not true, My mind was blown for a second. I try not to talk down on these kids because they will tune you out after awhile .. But this was something that caught me off guard..


Anyway, I get home and talk to ol lady and it was still on my mind, I let her know and she was like maybe she got it on tiktok, I was like HELL YEA.. She been on it since it was musically or whatever, she was first person I knew who was on it heavy since she was little. She only 13 talking like this.. People living online ALOT more and women Consume social media more than anyone, this stuff and ideas are sticky as hell and people are going to look for answers to their problems, its only going to get worse. Sad times ahead.

Yup

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

That is underlying stuff for some of these guys.

No
Stop trolling

 

[High Art]

There are a lot of messed up Black men walking around the same way. Look at Clarence Thomas and some of these c00n police officers walking around. They actually do exert control over you and they are just as bad.

So you are not going to change no grown ass people. The focus should be internal on what can be changed, stuff like how you react or constructively deal with negative bitter external forces. In other words don't become what you hate.

This is why we're concerned about this. c00ns of any gender are dangerous. The problem is that when it is a male c00n, everyone reacts as they should (mostly) but when it is a female c00n, a significant portion of people downplay their actions and leave them unscathed, letting those people continue their terrible actions and even more, spreading their horrible ideology. Even more so, they may attack you for calling the c00ns out. If people went at female c00ns the same way they went at male c00ns, there would be little problem because we as a community would recognize the problem and act. Cancel the person, get the person fired, and all that.

 

[AStrangeName]

Damn....any reason why? She has poor to negative experiences with black men? Was she not well received? Does she listen to too much Cynthia G and the likes?

You would be amaze how most of those divestors had little to no bad experience with black men.

 

[bigdawg40]

You would be amaze how most of those divestors had little to no bad experience with black men.

 

[Jazzy B.]

The confused women who can’t attract or keep a guy.

And I’m not saying that on some “ha ha you don’t have a man” because I’m single myself! But these are the women whose actual problem is attracting men. The same way we say that if a man has issues attracting women of a certain class, look, etc he needs to improve? Well, it seems like a lot of the women spouting this rhetoric don’t actually hold the mirror up to themselves. That’s my main issue with these ladies. You can’t be big, loud, argumentative, have an attitude and talk about the collective of brehs…

Women who focus on the traits that men find attractive do NOT have issues with men, because it’s the unspoken social contract. You have what they want, they have to bring you what you need. Lock in and make it work.

Every sis I know who wants/wanted to be married IS married.

I just don’t see the women who “get it” talking about this stuff. Just like I don’t see the men who have no issues with women making posts/videos, etc about women.

Nothing but Facts

They would call you a “pick me”

Meanwhile NO other group of women attack women for being “pick me’s”.

These women have no idea how to be feminine when with men which is why they can’t keep a man or only attract trash men who will put up with that nonsense.

Why would any black man with something going for himself put up with someone who is combative or wants to compete with him and see’s him as some quasi rival? .

That does not work in relationships. The same way if a man tries to be sexist control freak, women will just leave him if they have an ounce of self esteem.

Feminine black women get picked and married all the time by black men and actually make functional black family units. These other women just stay bitter, single or end up getting impregnated by a trash man

 

[AStrangeName]

Have u met one before why would they hate black men without a bunch of bad experience I hear of wo en who bet kidnapped and women whos family members went missing other horrible things have not heard hatred against men specifically black men from them so how do they have all this smoke nothing adds up seems abnormal

A lot of the divestors was getting exposed or exposed themselves two years for making up lies about their bad experiences and were more so mad at the world not being desired by non black men or certain black men. Plus, I remember a tweet one time this year that a link to Reddit about how one breh was trying to figure out why his teenage sister was saying fukked up thing about black men, him and their father in her burner account (she used his iPad, never logged off, so he seen notification popping up of people calling her a ). He ask the subreddit he was on to figure out a way to confront her (which he did) without hurting feeling which will lead her deeper into the rabbit hole and not having to get their parents involved.

Come to find out, the way she was acting out because of not having any friends, not seen as desirable and due to his ex (who is white) said something mean to her, even though he checked his ex for that and later broke up with her, his sister held that against him despite him defending her.

EDIT:
Forgot to add that she ended up making friends, working on her self esteem and not be so quick to throw black men under the bus for validation.

 

[Thanos]

is this Deja vu, cause we had this thread already with almost the same exact title.

 

[AStrangeName]

That's the one I was talking about and since that exposure a lot at this point are basically method acting and anyone knows how method acting goes, it doesn't always turn out well.

 

[NobodyReally]

Some of these people on both sides, men and women, who claim to lust after whites while degrading Black folks are really white folks in digital black face trying to sow division. I still think half of the pawgers on the Coli aren't really Black men. Same goes for these so-called divestors. People who are really out here dating like that aren't obsessing online about hating their own race.

 

[Gloxina]

S

So it seems they are social outcast

Ding ding ding

Too many under-achieving guys and big girls boo’d up and finding love. Folks don’t want to acknowledge that there may be something off with them.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Good post. I almost ignored @Hoodoo Child child because I thought he was just going to complain and not commit any actions. Once I saw he got her suspended I became all ears.

For the record I don’t pay any attention to black men that just complain.