BW complaining because the BM she WANTS do not see her as exotic

[O.Red]

Here in lies the issue.

OF COURSE if you are GORGEOUS, regardless of complexion you will have your choice of men. But most women aren’t beautiful.

What happens to the women who are average (which is most women/people)?

LS women who are average have it easier than DS who are average. THAT is the point. And ppl say “oh well get over it”, but the difference is women can’t override that with money/status like a less attractive man, because we are more harshly judged based on aesthetics. So, yea, women are talking about it because it’s a real experience.

People talk all sorts of shyt about desiring a good person with a good heart, etc, but most ppl end up chasing aesthetics. Same reason dudes talk about who women “really choose”; because they realize there are men who don’t need the money, cars, etc to pull attractive, agreeable women. Those men just happen to look a certain way and women fall in their lap.

The beauty/attractive market really sucks for those who aren’t in it, and/or those who are too influenced by it.

This is not exactly accurate, and leaves out certain key factors

This is a case of women taking something that applies to everyone, and presenting the argument like it only applies to them. It comes off like average women not wanting to admit that they're average and being upset that above average men don't desire them as they would above average women

To contrast, when a boy is about 13 he knows where he falls with women. Insecurities and all. A nikka knows if he has a funny looking nose or big ass ears, accepts it, and gets in where he fits. Does he want the dimes? Of course he does, but he's gonna make most of his shots at women he perceives to be on his level. Women did this for generations as well but social media has inflated women's egos to where average and below women feel entitled to above average men and are shattered when reality tells them the truth

Overall tho average men and average women link up all the time. I see happy average -ugly couples all the time. I have a post from a few years ago mentioning that I see more fat women in happy relationships than anyone else these days

Your point about women being unable to override looks like men with money borders on disingenuous because plenty of women can and do override their looks. There are 4-6s that are in very happy relationships because they're a pleasure to be around. A lot of women have problems accepting the fact that they're not as attractive as they think they are and/or they're insufferable Also if we're keeping it 100, there are plenty of women overriding their looks with money as well. Whole lot of fat/below average managers out here funding their man's lifestyle

The woman in the op sounds like she drains every room she's in and most likely blames colorism for her trash personality. There are worse looking women than her with their feet kicked up watching movies and playfighting with their man. She's the problem and has to poke and prod for every possible reason why she's not

Let's also not forget that although there are obvious cases, for the most part beauty is relative in everyday life. A Pittsburgh 8 is a likely a Houston 6, and so on

 

[BigMan]

Here in lies the issue.

OF COURSE if you are GORGEOUS, regardless of complexion you will have your choice of men. But most women aren’t beautiful.

What happens to the women who are average (which is most women/people)?

LS women who are average have it easier than DS who are average. THAT is the point. And ppl say “oh well get over it”, but the difference is women can’t override that with money/status like a less attractive man, because we are more harshly judged based on aesthetics. So, yea, women are talking about it because it’s a real experience.

People talk all sorts of shyt about desiring a good person with a good heart, etc, but most ppl end up chasing aesthetics. Same reason dudes talk about who women “really choose”; because they realize there are men who don’t need the money, cars, etc to pull attractive, agreeable women. Those men just happen to look a certain way and women fall in their lap.

The beauty/attractive market really sucks for those who aren’t in it, and/or those who are too influenced by it.

I agree with everything you said except women can’t get over it

You can by 1) improving your aesthetics (fitness, makeup, fashion, surgery), and improving your personality / non tangible skills

Both are things both men and women can do but women have a higher ceiling as far as approving aesthetics go than men

 

[Ski Mask]

Peep her profile

I get dark skin women are fukked over by beauty standards, but man some of these social media women really fukk up this discussion when they go ahead and start propping up men of other races, and choosing to view them by their best but view black men by their worst.

It makes me feel stupid for caring when you realize their intentions were never pure

EDIT: oh yeah, and they NEVER return the same energy they want you to have if you as a black man talk about your own dating experiences

Yep colorism discussions would be considered incel babble if it was just affecting the men. Thats why i stopped caring.

At the end of the day preferences are preferences. even those that got the short end of the stick exclude people

 

[Apollo Creed]

More of this "black boys don't like dark skin women" propaganda?

Sis, just get you a Latino/white man like you want.

Black men don't like Ugly hoes and lames lol

I've never seen a pretty woman cry about this shyt unless she is a former whore nobody wants or her brain got fried practicing witch craft

 

[Apollo Creed]

I agree with everything you said except women can’t get over it

You can by 1) improving your aesthetics (fitness, makeup, fashion, surgery), and improving your personality / non tangible skills

Both are things both men and women can do but women have a higher ceiling as far as approving aesthetics go than men

the issue is Black men are the slaves of earth hence how dare a Black man not want the slave master who has picked him (in this context Black Woman but you even see the entitlement with non black women).

Black men are not allowed to have agency because to the world we are not men we are genderless slaves who serve the purpose of utility (sexual or work).

The same hoes crying about not being picked will roast men all day about short comings the men have outside of their control yet these bum ass bytches won't even fix their diets and hit the gym and get a new wardrobe

fukk all these duck ass hoes

 

[richbosszar]

tragic bedwench that is never satisfied

 

[Canon]

black women complaining bout colorism while lusting after white dudes will always be funny

 

[Apollo Creed]

black women complaining bout colorism while lusting after white dudes will always be funny

the funny thing is wench's get knocked up on ONS after having gutter slave sex with white/non black latino/asian men and then bring the b*stard baby back into "black society" and the b*stard baby grows up to be everything the wench mother hates (the "exotical") then the b*stard child grows up mentally disturbed, starts beefing with the mom in their teens and grows up to be a parody like hyper militant "pro black" or a super form white supremacist.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Shes the same as the 'nice guy' brehs that complain about thots not wanting them - She is lame. We really should be labeling them lames like they are

She aint even that bad, and can get attention from most guys

THIS

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I ain’t listening to no female of any race complain about men. These dumbass never want to put in any work to get the men they want at all just sit around waiting and waiting for him to show up I’m glad he never does. Women have all these options then complain about men

 

[V Skyye]

the funny thing is wench's get knocked up on ONS after having gutter slave sex with white/non black latino/asian men and then bring the b*stard baby back into "black society" and the b*stard baby grows up to be everything the wench mother hates (the "exotical") then the b*stard child grows up mentally disturbed, starts beefing with the mom in their teens and grows up to be a parody like hyper militant "pro black" or a super form white supremacist.

Honestly, a lot of dark men and women like to have kids with lighter skinned people with the hopes that their kids won’t go through what they did. A lot of men and women suffer from the effects of colorism so I won’t downplay it, although I find the way both genders cope to be annoying.

 

[Jazzy B.]

She’s an attractive women but has a nasty spirit and personality and deep insecurities and self hate

*sigh* I hate seeing black people like this

Why doesn’t she just date men who like dark skin women? Problem solved

Naw this chick ain’t turning heads at a function.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Honestly, a lot of dark men and women like to have kids with lighter skinned people with the hopes that their kids won’t go through what they did. A lot of men and women suffer from the effects of colorism so I won’t downplay it, although I find the way both genders cope to be annoying.

to be honest I can't relate to any of this, my dad was dark skin and had kids with dark or brown skin women.

I have never seen good looking dark skin person have it hard in dating. You can may be argue that a below avg light skin person may get 1-2 more "points" but in reality them folks aint ending up in any situation of quality so who fukking cares. Women are selfish as shyt and most of their complaints stem from why isn't the person I`m not qualified for trying to sweep me off my feet

 

[BigMan]

Naw this chick ain’t turning heads at a function.

She’s my type physically

So many black women have this victim mentality tho it’s so unattractive

Ironically they hate their dark black skin but want someone else to love it lol

 

[Budda]

Yep you are 100% correct.


It reminds me of how goofy Black women on the internet were saying that Black men were not checking for Serena Williams.


Knowing damn well if you lineup up 10 white men and 10 random Black men and asked them if they found Serena attractive at least 7/10 Black men would say yes and maybe 4/10 white males would say yes.



It's bullshyt, Black women want that White male validation.

Ultimately White supremacy is at fault for this though.

Why can’t everyone just admit Serena Williams ain’t all too attractive? It’s crazy asl people(black women especially) trying to convince everyone that she is.