bytches just getting pregnant to keep u, why?

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Not referring to you, OP, but it's funny how dudes rant and rave that females are trying to "trap" them...especially when they really have nothing of worth to offer or take. I can understand maybe a Kanye or Chris Brown getting "trapped" but a regular ass average joe making 10 an hour working a Popeyes? Nah...
Trapping isn't about the rich. It's about trying to lockin someone who likely would be unavailable for you and due to despair moments, she lies to trap a man. This LSA niggess talk has to stop. Women aren't just out here trying to trap celebrities, those are groupies. If a woman is struggling in life or she wants a better life with an individual who seems to have the ability but likely isn't to commit to her, a baby is a potential hustle.

You ever seen Trading Places when Louis lost his job, his house, his girl and everything even his family, the prostitute took him in even though he was broke, depressed and lost everything, she knew he had the talent, the ability and potential to get it all back and brought low. Real life is not like a movie, those same women will now trap you in 2010s just to get a piece of the pie and government checks for being a single mom. This is a demonic hustle.
 

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This is what happens when you don't seek clarity on the status of the relationship, you think just because it's casual for you that she feels the same way, I hope she puts you on child support so you can finally understand how much of a fukking idiot you were by making assumptions based on confirmation bias.

This story should serve as a lesson to the other people here who dread being asked "what are we" by the women they're having sex with because "i dont want to mess up a good thing".

minus well make a thread in the Salon asking for help with baby names nikka.


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Is this a case of rape by deception?:lupe:
 

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I've never had raw sex. I don't do casual sex. I agree that even with my precautions there is still a risk. My partner and I have already discussed no abortions and marriage b/c we genuinely love each other. If I get pregnant I make enuff to take care of my child w/o help and if I get into my phd program next year, it will be ideal b/c I will still be making money, and my schedule will be flexible enuff for pregnancy while working at the university.

But those are contigency plans. I'm on birth control and I've only been with one partner my entire life AND we use condoms.

My point is even with all these precautions, I could still end up pregnant but I take responsibility for that possibility. EVERYBODY has to. We gotta grow the fukk up.

Stop bussin nuts w/o thinking ur life through and getting mad at the consequences.
You never know till your pregnant, you never know. My cousin was like you. Masters from Emory, smart girl, shy, you would not know she knew what sex was much like pregnancy. She was dating this kid for years. He was smart and went to Tech. They talked about kids, family and she said they wore protection then the condom broke. She got pregnant, he left, then became Atlanta biggest man whore with 5 more kids. Crazy as they were each other first.

She's a good girl too. :mjcry:
 

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Actually, your wrong. Both can be involuntary. You are assuming it is one way all the time when it's not. Not all rapes happen just due to involuntary actions.

Are you suggesting that a man can involuntarily agree to having sex?

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Trapping isn't about the rich. It's about trying to lockin someone who likely would be unavailable for you and due to despair moments, she lies to trap a man. This LSA niggess talk has to stop. Women aren't just out here trying to trap celebrities, those are groupies. If a woman is struggling in life or she wants a better life with an individual who seems to have the ability but likely isn't to commit to her, a baby is a potential hustle.

You ever seen Trading Places when Louis lost his job, his house, his girl and everything even his family, the prostitute took him in even though he was broke, depressed and lost everything, she knew he had the talent, the ability and potential to get it all back and brought low. Real life is not like a movie, those same women will now trap you in 2010s just to get a piece of the pie and government checks for being a single mom. This is a demonic hustle.

:sadcam: Yall need to invest in pocket pussies and call it a day.
 

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You never know till your pregnant, you never know. My cousin was like you. Masters from Emory, smart girl, shy, you would not know she knew what sex was much like pregnancy. She was dating this kid for years. He was smart and went to Tech. They talked about kids, family and she said they wore protection then the condom broke. She got pregnant, he left, then became Atlanta biggest man whore with 5 more kids. Crazy as they were each other first.

She's a good girl too. :mjcry:
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For state assistance yes you do in most states. And before anyone starts ranting about "uncle sugar" and "bytches gettin so paid off welfare" this includes just medical assistance. You don't have to get any form of cash assistance for the govt to want to know who else they can possibly recoup these benefits from.

They will definitely ask who the non-custodial parent is on forms like Medicaid, Cash Benefits, even Section 8 assistance.
 

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nikka you beat the game TWICE before this and still not taking precautions? Shiiiiiiiit nikka, you must subconsciously WANT to be a daddy.

I had a single close call; was just a late period scare and that shyt put me on the road to latex righteousness immediately.
 

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nikka you beat the game TWICE before this and still not taking precautions? Shiiiiiiiit nikka, you must subconsciously WANT to be a daddy.

I had a single close call; was just a late period scare and that shyt put me on the road to latex righteousness immediately.
Reality talk, 2 times, I don't know, do you value women? That's killing a child at the end of the day. I am all v. Being trapped but getting women to kill for you and having no issue with it is just as demonic as anything else.
 

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They will definitely ask who the non-custodial parent is on forms like Medicaid, Cash Benefits, even Section 8 assistance.

Yes, that's what I was saying. Just wanted to exclude wic. Actually section 8 is a little different depending on where the voucher originates. It's based on the person's income and will count cs as income ofcourse, but they can't demand you name another parent (unless things have changed vastly with that program over the years since I was married to a federal section 8 inspector.- definitely possible)
But any other benefits you're gonna have to name a father or agree to help them determine who the legal father is.
 
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