Chelsea, it is so easy to say but life isn't always a box of chocolates. Like my man wave said, if you having sex period, you are in no position to talk than the next man or woman. It's the truth. It could happen to any of us. Any of us.
I've never had raw sex. I don't do casual sex. I agree that even with my precautions there is still a risk. My partner and I have already discussed no abortions and marriage b/c we genuinely love each other. If I get pregnant I make enuff to take care of my child w/o help and if I get into my phd program next year, it will be ideal b/c I will still be making money, and my schedule will be flexible enuff for pregnancy while working at the university.
But those are contigency plans. I'm on birth control and I've only been with one partner my entire life AND we use condoms.
My point is even with all these precautions, I could still end up pregnant but I take responsibility for that possibility. EVERYBODY has to. We gotta grow the fukk up.
Stop bussin nuts w/o thinking ur life through and getting mad at the consequences.