bytches just getting pregnant to keep u, why?

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Its not that easy if you know what ur doing, nikkas just make it look easy cause they dont know how to fight that sht. My bm has taken me to court 3 times over this shyt and i beat her each time lol. Its gotten to the point where she outright tries to coerce me like, "why not just give me your rights? you dont even care much about the kid anyway.. just hand over the rights and see her when shes 18." Cause she knows there's no way she'll win in court.
What do you do to fight it, we in different states?
 

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He was. My bm told me the same shyt. which is why I don't tell her shyt about women.

I've been there everyday of his life the first two years. Like lived together

We split when I moved for a better job. She didn't want to move from her family. Cool. fukk her

I still pay her electric plus extra money. Little thing we worked out so we don't have to do courts. Meet halfway every week to exchange him


"Hey what would you do if I got another girl"

"Put you on child support"

"Ummmm what the fukk. That wasn't even why I was asking for one. And what the hell she gotta do with my son"

"Just to make sure you didn't get a new girl and forget about him"


Not, wait till you miss money. Not, wait till you stopped seeing him. Not, wait till you change up. No indication I would ever do that. Not in the 5 years of his life. Been an excellent father in every way.

And that's the first response she had. CS is a bitter woman's trump card

fukked up thing is got you in check homie. All she gotta do is catch you lacking and boom - she hitting you with child support AND.... back payments. Dud you will be fukked. I seen this happen twice. Breh think he got the shyt hooked up until he piss her off and next thing he knows, he's checks i getting garnished.

I got a homegirl right now in the same situation. She got a kid by home boy and he don't pay child support. But he's always giving her money and shyt to keep her quite. She said as soon as this nikka act up, his bank account is getting ran through.

How you gonna let a woman dictate how you live your life breh? :francis:
 

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Money is money. Even if he make 1000 a month, they can still hand her 300/500 of it. When all you doing is breastfeeding and getting help from your family. That's all profit


Let's not forget love. Why does it have to be gold digging. What if she always wanted a family. Or a baby. And now she sees her chance to keep one cause this guy she knows. And knows he's a good man. And knows he'll be a good dad. So fukk it

Where if he was some piece of shyt deadbeat crackhead, she'd be at the clinic in record time
Hows that profit?
 

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fukked up thing is got you in check homie. All she gotta do is catch you lacking and boom - she hitting you with child support AND.... back payments. Dud you will be fukked. I seen this happen twice. Breh think he got the shyt hooked up until he piss her off and next thing he knows, he's checks i getting garnished.

I got a homegirl right now in the same situation. She got a kid by home boy and he don't pay child support. But he's always giving her money and shyt to keep her quite. She said as soon as this nikka act up, his bank account is getting ran through.

How you gonna let a woman dictate how you live your life breh? :francis:

By voluntarily giving her the power to when you impregnate her.
 

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Part time help desk at a trucking company. Very thing there is. She gets it all. She's good for working to get free stuff but shyt at working to get better in life

Wow. I say turn her ass into the state. No way she's reporting all that income.

I'm sorry that you have to deal with that.
It's a plenty of ain't shyt egg donors and sperms donors out here.

I truly hope that even under these circumstances you are able to love and cherish your child and get their love and respect back in return.
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You never know till your pregnant, you never know. My cousin was like you. Masters from Emory, smart girl, shy, you would not know she knew what sex was much like pregnancy. She was dating this kid for years. He was smart and went to Tech. They talked about kids, family and she said they wore protection then the condom broke. She got pregnant, he left, then became Atlanta biggest man whore with 5 more kids. Crazy as they were each other first.

She's a good girl too. :mjcry:
But my point is good girl or not, precautions or not, you know what ur getting into when u consent to lay down with someone. There is always a possibility. So if these "good girls" or "good men" fukk and they know sex is an act of reproduction they are responsible. No if ands or buts.

And in this thread we talking bout nikkas not wanting to take ANY precautions. No rubbers just raw doggin, and then getting irrationally angry at the natural progression of biology.

Ya'll can't be serious. This shyt needs to end. If u fukk, wrap it up. If u don't and u get burned AND u a lil bytch about ur responsibilities, ur a piece of shyt and these a$$holes need to be sterilized and exiled from our community. Point blank.
 

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Yeah but they cant just up and put you on child support unless she can prove that you dont take care of the kid. Thats why im saying u need to be active from day one to make that alot harder. What they do is they try to change their number/address for a while so u cant get in touch with the kid THEN they take u to court. If you take THEM to court the moment u smell bs and u make it clear to the judge u intend to be in the kids life and want joint custody then its nearly impossible for them to get cs. Thing is, alot of dudes really dont want to lose their life being a single dad so they just take the L without a real fight.

Um, no. That is just wrong. The courts will mandate that you pay child support. You can be active all day long, but you still have to provide a means of food clothing and shelter to the child. That's where C/S comes into play. Just because you pick his ass up from you BM, don't mean the courts will not grant your BM child support. The child is ENTITLED to child support, there's no grey line in between. If she is the prime custodial parent, she will receive child support.
 

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What do you do to fight it, we in different states?

Do you have a court ordered cs order?
Call the family Court where you live or go down there. Explain you live here in state x and want to have your cs custody visitation reviewed. Ask them if you need to do it through your former state or not.
 

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Wow. I say turn her ass into the state. No way she's reporting all that income.

I'm sorry that you have to deal with that.
It's a plenty of ain't shyt egg donors and sperms donors out here.

I truly hope that even under these circumstances you are able to love and cherish your child and get their love and respect back in return.
:hug:
I was trying to get her locked up for like ten different things but women ain't so recessive to BM who aren't cursing at them. I call all respectful and they treat me like shyt
 

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I was trying to get her locked up for like ten different things but women ain't so recessive to BM who aren't cursing at them. I call all respectful and they treat me like shyt

Document document document. Keep calling. Eventually you'll get some hard charger at the state office that feels like it's their personal money that's being paid out.
If nothing else this is good shyt for you to have to bring up to your lawyer if you decide to go back to court.
 
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