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Deception is a light word, but i hear youAgain, i would be dissapointed by the deception part of it and the insecurities it will trigger (i.e where do i stand moving forward). But if i knew this was a woman that is dedicated to our union as a family but just wants to fukk around... i THINK i could deal with it. I would probably do the same thing too
You are right. Feel free to suggest another wrd for it. But the key thing im trying to get across is me fukking another chick doesnt mean i dont love my wifeDeception is a light word, but i hear you