Can't Get A Man, Brehettes? Try Dating Bisexual Men

[William F. Russell]

Let this had been a black MAN who suggested this in a public forum

 

[Aphrodite]

Mines would be kissing him knowing he probably sucked dikk before. I could not get pass that mentally. I'd prefer you just not tell me you dated men before. You can test for aids at home now so if you can get pass the mental part of it, you can std check at home every 6 months. However if you are dating this bisexual man, can he date a woman and man at the same time? If you are exclusive then the at home test works but if he will still be dating men how do you deal with that? Its sounds very complicated for the woman who puts herself in this situation.

lol exactly what I just said. A lot of information haunts people in particular and it's better if they don't know I guess. For me if I know too much about a past relationship or a body count is too high, it's a deal breaker for me. However if I don't know, I'm good.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Is the shortage of good black men really this bad?

 

[Lady.Libra.]

The Star Joneses & Terry McMillanes of the world can feast. Oh, boy.

Now, as for the rest of us and dating, the working on-going narrative is:

Our features are more desired/beautiful on other race women.

Wealthy black men marry 'others' once they have made it.

We are only loyal to black men because we have no other choice as we are undesirable to other races of men.

We are only sexual fetishes to other races of men.

We (AFAM) women are the least desirable in the entire black diaspora.

We should pursue Asian men, who are also the least desirable.

We are fat, angry, gold-digging, loud, aggressive, uneducated, attitudinal, unloveable, masculine, disloyal, unmarriageble, babymamas, undesirable, darkbutts, etc.

So, now in addition, we should pursue a serious relationship with bisexual men...well because most likely we were also bisexual.

I just love being a black woman

 

[phobos:\\]

That's very debatable. I can think of things that aren't right but acceptable in society because it's "normal". Normal just means more people do it than don't.

Reality isn't debatable. Normal or actual sex has always been between a man and woman. Steve down the street won't be bringing about a child engaging in carnal behaviour with his bud.

Humans naturally reject whats goes against their reality. Of course this reality can be confusing in some aspects, especially by deceitful people wishing to promote a backwards or regressive value system.

 

[AZBeauty]

The absurdity of the level of "fukk it" you have to be at in order to just give up on straight men, go straight past dating women, and start fukking dudes that fukk dudes.

Makes no sense to me unless you are desperate to have a kid and are getting up there in age. This would be so mentally draining for me. I could imagine the man being naked and me just starting at his butt hole trying to figure out if its bigger that mines. smh. This would take so much for me to be comfortable.

 

[Aphrodite]

Reality isn't debatable. Normal or actual sex has always been between a man and woman. Steve down the street won't be bringing about a child engaging in carnal behaviour with his bud.

Humans naturally reject whats goes against their reality. Of course this reality can be confusing in some aspects, especially by deceitful people wishing to promote a backwards or regressive value system.

You're saying this to someone who literally doesn't believe 1 thing you just mentioned lol wrong person to quote.

 

[Aphrodite]

Makes no sense to me unless you are desperate to have a kid and are getting up there in age. This would be so mentally draining for me.

I could imagine the man being naked and me just starting at his butt hole trying to figure out if its bigger that mines. smh. This would take a f

 

[phobos:\\]

You're saying this to someone who literally doesn't believe 1 thing you just mentioned lol wrong person to quote.

So, men can have children?

 

[Aphrodite]

So, men can have children?

Your whole logic doesn't align with mine. No offense.
You're free to your beliefs though. Don't concern me.

 

[ajnapoleon]

Is the shortage of good black men really this bad?

Between us being sent to jail with way longer sentences

The mass incarceration of the 80's and 90's


The divorce and child support laws (and no one wanting to take that L)

All the side relationships


Good black men are damn near gone

Plus the " you have to be 6 feet 6 certa already have a house and 200k plus for me to even look at you" stuff


The pickings are super slim

 

[Hope]

Makes perfect sense to me. Nobody is fully straight or gay anymore. We need to drop labels and getting concerned over past behavior.

Plus she looks like she knows what shes talking about.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Makes perfect sense to me. Nobody is fully straight or gay anymore. We need to drop labels and getting concerned over past behavior.

Plus she looks like she knows what shes talking about.

Please speak for yourself

 

[phobos:\\]

Your whole logic doesn't align with mine. No offense.
You're free to your beliefs though. Don't concern me.

What you said made zero sense.

But, alright. You can live in a bubble where facts are merely statements and opinions to be accepted or not.

Crazy times we live in.

 

[richaveli83]

Complete nonsense. There are plenty of good, loyal, responsible, hardworking, STRAIGHT black men available. Yes the population is smaller due to mass incarceration, homosexuality, etc but plenty of good straight black men are available for black women.