Bolded is key, man. People talk about the ideal of being the sole provider, but forget that that shyt has real world effects on the provider. For a lot of folks, it leads to getting overwhelmed like you mentioned. For others, they stop seeing them as their wife, and another responsibility or obligation. shyt isn't conducive to creating long term healthy relationships as a guaranteed result.
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Bolded is key, man. People talk about the ideal of being the sole provider, but forget that that shyt has real world effects on the provider. For a lot of folks, it leads to getting overwhelmed like you mentioned. For others, they stop seeing them as their wife, and another responsibility or obligation. shyt isn't conducive to creating long term healthy relationships as a guaranteed result.
lol nikkas be ready to simp in the name of being "traditional" when aint shyt traditional in 2024. These whores hitting licks on these nikkas.
In the age of Uber Eats, House Cleaners, and cheap p*ssy the case for a home maker becomes less logical especially when these hoes are dumb as shyt so they can't even home school the kid lol.
Lotta dudes would prob be happy being able to have kids through surrogacy so they have 100% control over the kids and just have a rotation of girlfriends
I think people let hate blind them to the fact that she was doing this and got semi famous off it before she ever rapped
Sounds all well and good unless you understand how quick women will flip. And just how much the court system works in their favor.
Marry a woman and go half on a house? You already know who probably getting the kids and the house. Its important that you know the common law marriage rules in your state. As well as sign a bullet proof prenup if there is such a thing. With that said if shes your woman you shouldnt have her working imo. But if yall are building towards a goal and she is working? Never give her authority over the finances. In terms of shes the one paying bills,handling obligations etc. Control over the money will subconsciously put them in the leadership authority role. Even if its not her money your giving her a taste of power,and power corrupts
70/30 or 80/20 is the best.
Enough to keep the woman feminine and feel "provided for" and enough for you to be in authority and not feel "used" with no returns.
y'all really dealing with hoes who say they gotta turn on being feminine? lmfao
I saw them and none of them are countering what she said in the video
All I saw was I don't like this bish so I'mma shyt on her
You aint getting a feminine woman if she feels like the man or mother
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And that’s why you marry a chic like her… don’t let that stripper shyt and grimy bytch shyt fool you.. Been telling folk She a ride or die and loyal just treat her good and with respect.. she would jump in front of a bullet for you
aiight since u want me 2 take hoes seriously and direct their Byrd brains I'll bite....only cause u a sensible poster.
I'll remove my Gz up hoes down sense and talk logic just for u.
in the first like 20 seconds of the video she discounted housewives and told them "they don't contribute anything to the house"
Thats bulllshyt. straight up. Women are traditionally supposed to be that. Holding the house hold down and taking care of the kids. It worked for eons.
so she wrong already. That is a tremendous contribution.
Second; nobody in a relationship makes the same amount of money. That shyt does not happen in the real world.
She wanna talk about the internet and real reality....said it out her own mouth.
Women to this day ARE STILL paid less then men. I'm not a stats guy; but if u can refute that show me.
All this dumb bytch said was she's down to open the wallet. WTF is the think peace?
She had the nerve to call herself old school.
What was oldschool about any of those takes ?
This bytch prolly has a full staff to do all the "contributions that mean nothing."
IE...raising kids...cooking...cleaning etc.
Thats with me not including my bias for THE MESSENGER IN THE MESSAGE matters.
ATLANTA was the ultimate perspective.
You aint getting a feminine woman if she feels like the man or mother
more like these hoes think y'all some bytches.
I've never had a woman in my fukking life hit me with that bullshyt
the fact a woman thinks she can make a demand to you is a fukking issue.
The 50/50 talk comes from women who are single and bitter.
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That no 50/50 shyt is some online fantasy shyt. America ain’t set up for the vast majority of couples to be living off one income. Facts and figures tell the truth here, not tweets and likes
more like these hoes think y'all some bytches.
I've never had a woman in my fukking life hit me with that bullshyt
the fact a woman thinks she can make a demand to you is a fukking issue.
Hit with you what?
Women don't say it outright, you will instead see it in their actions towards you.
A woman paying half will not view you as her superior and a woman naturally cannot be feminine to man who she doesn't view as is.
That's how you end up with this