I know far more wealthy people than you. My client list had numerous billionaires on it, and those billionaires wives didn't work unless they worked in the family business (ie Shari Redstone - Viacom or Abigail Johnson - Fidelity). This talk about doctors marrying lawyers is middles-class babble. Rich people push their children to marry within wealthy social circles solely to maintain their wealth or out of pure elitism. I worked with rich people of different wealth groups. A dude worth $50 Million isn't in the same social circles as a man worth $5 Billion. Those two groups rarely act the same or even think alike.
I assume you are not married. Regardless of income, your wife's availability to you is crucial to the strength of the relationship. If the bulk of your free time with your wife is spent with her complaining about her job, that pretty secretary at your job, who keeps giving you choosing signs, becomes that much more tempting. Imagine living with a wife who has to put on a smile all day, and doesn't have the energy for it at home. The husband feels cheated and sees her job as getting the best side of his wife. This isn't hypothetical. These are real life scenarios, breh. As I wrote in another post in this tread, Dual Incomes are awesome and indispensable to wealth building, but parsing over what type of job a woman has or how much she makes plays a much smaller role, if at all, in what a man wants out of his potential wife.