Child Support card that can only be spent on the child; Women are against it

[Rawtid]

A man definitely came up with this. "The child's size must be reported every time they grow". If you're a single mother and struggling, this isn't ideal as child support is sometimes used to pay bills and that benefits the child's overall well-being.I don't see anything wrong with that providing the child is taken care off.

I don't think some men realize how easy they have it. Just being responsible financially is the easiest part of parenting, imo.

 

[wet landscapes]

He was talking about me, but not in an accurate way.

I didn't wish death to his type because "he doesn't support lazy mothers". I wished that the earth be cleansed of people who would be useless in building a productive nation.

would I get cleansed too? I'm a shut in

 

[prince_peoples]

I truthfully don't think any woman that knows me would ever do this, because id take that shyt to the next level .

bytch would wake up tied up in a basement naked somewhere in mexico.

While we at it,

I remember hearing a female talking to someone on the phone and the part of the convo that caught my attention "fukk that! he trying to goto court to get the payments reduced. I need's my money, you hear me?" But I'm a <insert insult> because I don't want to be taken advantage of.

I know females who dangle their child's time of hanging with their father based on how much support they do or don't get for the month. so those type's of women don't give 2 shyt's about their child, they only care about them. but I'm the Bad Breh. all you caping ass nikkas and all you want to be caped ass females.

 

[BrothaZay]

A man definitely came up with this. "The child's size must be reported every time they grow". If you're a single mother and struggling, this isn't ideal as child support is sometimes used to pay bills and that benefits the child's overall well-being.I don't see anything wrong with that providing the child is taken care off.

I don't think some men realize how easy they have it. Just being responsible financially is the easiest part of parenting, imo.

Whats easy about having 1/3 of your check taken away? Especially as a black man in america. You do realize its nikkas paying hundreds of dollars a month in child support who are "poor" by defintion, right?
But I guess being dead ass broke and not being able to afford to do shyt is "having it easy".

 

[T'Challa Trillmonger]

jumpman jumpman Shoa Li and Ping Chow on production wow

cost 10 bucks to make but sell for hundreds wow

 

[prince_peoples]

I would fight for custody. esp if i had a son.

nikkas don't want custody

 

[Apollo Creed]

Do pre nups account for child support? Like can you include a what if amount you would pay if it ever happened and the mother would be legally held to that? Or can they still go back and hit the courts for more money?

 

[At30wecashout]

Everybody need to choose better. Count me in as one of the dudes who will fight for FULL custody to the end, even if I gotta destroy the woman I once loved

in court. I want to be there every step of my kids life, and im not gonna have some mouthy gatekeeper preventing that.

 

[Lo-Co]

I don't feel like her water, light,phone, and gas bills arent his responsibility. Its the baby's mother s if she has custody. I hope this shyt takes off. Maybe people will take more responsibility instead of laying around like landwhales with their hands out.

 

[jwonder]

This would never pass. It makes too much sense. Amerikkka loves to make zero sense. It would be real beneficial to the men that pay child support. The broad can't buy beauty goods and go to the club every weekend.

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I pay about 600 in child support every month. If my kid ain't wearing fresh Jordan's every month I get tight

That's hoodrat logic.

nope don't agree (of course).
in regards to the housing (rent and utilities) the mother could probably afford a one bedroom apt or whatever, but now needs a 2 bedroom being that the child lives with them. what about groceries? and don't come in here talking about wic and foodstamps because not all single parents are on assistance. and the focus is solely on dispersing child support.

additionally, my parents divorced when i was young. he paid child support, but she didn't 'need' it and it all went into a savings account for me, which i used to help with tuition for my masters. this question is based on the idea that the mother is untrustworthy and it has to be dictated what she is allowed to spend the money on. ten people in here can't even agree on whether it should help to cover utilities or not.
at the same time, i don't know many business that track the size of clothing or shoes when you go to purchase them.

Well, in some stores every size has a different barcode, so technically it probably could be tracked. (It would be a lot of time & effort.)

Eh...its a good idea...the system needs checks and balances....know too many horror stories of good dudes trying to be there for their child and the mother using the system out of spite..... random dudes be living with their bm on some Melvin shyt...selling stamps to buy weed and liquor.... Most dudes that want to be in their child's life will be... Its the women that make it difficult... One of my homies bm always trying to drop his daughter off every weekend leaving him with no social life or even an opportunity to entertain a new woman...when he checks her on it she quick to say he in contempt just because he told her no...then a week later she quick to apologize and she keep trying to fukk to get pregnant by him again cuz she know he a good dude and handle his biz as far as his daughter concerned....if he so good why don't she want to be with him....female logic in a nutshell...

he should have chosen better.
And he better learn how to make plans during the week.

are y....

*thinks: Women can troll too breh*

Being as though you're a female user (or pretending to be) I'll spare you the easy barrage of retorts and disrespect, have a nice life bed wench.

what makes her bed wench?
Is her husband white? Or did you just feel like calling her that because you guys don't agree?

 

[jwonder]

Does the one person who voted no want to come forward and say why?....

Because their funky ass wants the extra money for themselves. Oh raggedy ass c*nts. Child support, not bytch support.

 

[Raava]

There was a huge FB thread in this Natural Hair group I'm in. They were going off. I agreed with the pic. I will probably be kicked out

 

[Spade]

They'll find a way around this. They will buy the shoes, the clothes, and whatnot. And then they will sell it.

 

[unit321]

great post. Let's take it further...what if the mother. Has a husband, do y'all still feel a card would not be justified? @PeridotPuss @LadySimone.

I don't know about what-if's, but that example I put was my sister-in-law. She got divorced, they had one kid, she got child support, she lived at home with her parents who didn't charge her rent.
Now, she has filed for bankruptcy years ago, moved out of her apartment and has moved back in with her parents. Surprise, surprise... she isn't paying rent and doesn't have any motivation to get a real job and move out on her own. Oh, you might say, "why be HOH? She doesn't have opportunities others have been given." Oh, she has a college degree. Doesn't care to use and hasn't used it to her advantage for over a decade. You might say "The economy has been tough. Give it some time." Oh, she quit her last full time job and has not bothered getting another full-time job... in four years. She just works part-time from a work-at-home job. The bare minimum.