Child Support card that can only be spent on the child; Women are against it

[MarloStanTrill]

"LaQuanna Snipe"

see the thread earlier about cacs posing as blaccs

 

[MarloStanTrill]

surp

My Brother, why the assumption that if someone is living with a relative that there are no bills to pay? A woman(or man) living with a parent, especially with kids in tow, should be, and usually is, helping out by paying a portion of mortgage/rent, utilities, and food. Child support provides money so that the child can be raised in the standard of living that reflects the earnings of BOTH parents.

Another question related to this. Why is it always assumed that a woman receiving child support also is getting food stamps, WIC, govt assistance, etc? Many women getting child support work full time jobs and do not qualify for or receive child support. Child support helps, but usually can never equal the amount of funds that would support a child if both parents were living together. This perception that single mothers are out here with money to burn on caviar and red-bottom shoes is from people who follow the lives of millionaires and billionaires paying thousands of dollars of support and these same people flossing on social media. I doubt that most people in the real work are living like that.

surprise a woman trying to justify being against this-- they done had it wayy too good for way too long with chsup-- if you live with someone your bills are not the same as they would be if they were your bills

you really need help like that think about it before you have kids-- we all know bytches do not spend chiold support money on kids-- even when they get food its because the thots gotta eat.

from what i see alimony and child support are earlier retirement for lazy ass thots

 

[MarloStanTrill]

I pay about 600 in child support every month. If my kid ain't wearing fresh Jordan's every month I get tight

its all good for now, just hope you dont get a raise and start making like 100k a year- because your payments will go into the 10k's per month-- dont nop bytch rich or poor need 10 or 15k per MONTH in child supoport- when average single parent family surviving off less than 3k per month (for the whole family) not 3k per month for 1 JIT

 

[LadySimone]

Think that men hate their kids because you hate men, brehettes.

Don't you have some greasy hole in the wall to stick your dikk in mr " men will have sex with anything"??

 

[Killer Instinct]

They really should though. Lights water rent and mortgage isn't the responsibility of the father, child support is just that... Support for the Child!

If the mother can't pay rent or keep on lights then guess who should have custody and who shouldn't

(Edited to add: shout out to the dappers for making this post do crazy numbers and a major shout out to the bed wenches, lame hoes and otherwise worthless mother's mad cause I'm hipping breh's to the money milking game )

 

[GarnetGem]

so....is the new argument that child support should be based on the mother's situation, and not how much the father makes?

surp


surprise a woman trying to justify being against this-- they done had it wayy too good for way too long with chsup-- if you live with someone your bills are not the same as they would be if they were your bills

you really need help like that think about it before you have kids-- we all know bytches do not spend chiold support money on kids-- even when they get food its because the thots gotta eat.

from what i see alimony and child support are earlier retirement for lazy ass thots

its all good for now, just hope you dont get a raise and start making like 100k a year- because your payments will go into the 10k's per month-- dont nop bytch rich or poor need 10 or 15k per MONTH in child supoport- when average single parent family surviving off less than 3k per month (for the whole family) not 3k per month for 1 JIT

check your math please

 

[I AM WE ARE]

lemme break it down for y'all how it goes it tn
the cost to put a man on child support-----0000 all she has to do is put your name on the file and you get served
by the time you go to court youre already $2500 in the hole to the state for "fees and aid"
you want visitation--$150
a good lawyer --$2500
does she need a lawyer-- nope she's represented by the state and guess who is paying for that
average child support payment a month in tn-$350 a month 12 months in a year 4200 18 years 75600
not to mention you handing over your tax return every month
oh you want a dna test $350-$600
so lets see a father has to pay damn near 10 grand in a year and these mfs wanna complain bytch live in your car or work 2 jobs just so someone takes half your check while you still keep all your money (if she works) or your live with another man so now the father is paying YA'LL bills
child support is extortion not to mention if you have to pay for day care and insurance

and someone please explain to me how stevie wonder has to pay 25k a month for child support? wtf they eating dinosaur eggs

 

[GilSho]

see the thread earlier about cacs posing as blaccs

I got negged by some angry dude because of that post so I'm not so sure breh.

 

[feelosofer]

Most mother's do not abuse child support, but it's the vocal minority who have problems with this. This would be a good thing if implemented, it keeps everyone honest. I will add rent, utilities and copays (for medical expenses), that seems pretty fair.

 

[The God Poster]

Listen whoever has the kid most deserves to have their job respected especially by the person who contributed half to the work but have less than half of the duties. I use mother because in most cases it is the mother. If it's the father with sole custody the shame shyt would apply.

Why can't a mother have fun? She is human. She wants to relax, be with friends, go on vacation, sleep in, wake up one day and not have anything to do but get her hair done That's a luxury.

Being a good parent and having fun is not mutually exclusive.

Thats all i asked. You were coming off before as if it wouldn't be the same for the father.

I still don't agree a parent should be using money intended for a child to have personal "fun" . You use YOUR own funds for that. That money should be put up so nobody can cry po mouth when these cacs aint tryna give financial aid or a scholarship.

 

[LadySimone]

I agree with you but the fun should not at he child's expense. Mothers who abuse the system do exist. Mothers who care nothing for their children do exist. However, some of these guys are trying to throw the baby with the bath water. In their attempt in beung vindictive...they can severely penalize the child. Before, anything changes can be made to the child support system there needs to bw a thorough investigation on how the chikd support is utilized.

I notice that this moral obligation not to have fun at the child's expense is always laid at the feet of the mother. The mother is told to go home and raise her kids by a bunch of men who are out having fun who got kids themselves.

So the father can post up on Instagram thrown money at strippers but a mother can't post up on Instagram having drinks at the club?

See it's scenarios like that that will tell you how full of shyt men are.

On the one hand fatherhood is so important, it shouldn't be marginalised, and every child needs their dad but how often are men guilted into restricting their leisure activities to raise kids like mothers are?

 

[LadySimone]

Thats all i asked. You were coming off before as if it wouldn't be the same for the father.

I still don't agree a parent should be using money intended for a child to have personal "fun" . You use YOUR own funds for that. That money should be put up so nobody can cry po mouth when these cacs aint tryna give financial aid or a scholarship.

I never said that but carry on.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

check your math please

I think it's perfectly reasonable to ask a guy making $100/year to pay $120k/year in child support.

Baby need pampers!

 

[The God Poster]

I never said that but carry on.

Naw you right...that's how you were coming off

 

[YeLovesBoston]

noodles, music, and gender war threads. Good way to spend my lonely Thursday night. Pornhub and granola bars at 8:00 pm. Then Netflix and cookies at 10:00pm to finish the night.