CHILD SUPPORT ? PARENTS SPENDING IT ON THEM SELVES..

[Wondah_Woman]

I wonder kind of women some of these dudes with these child support concerns are? If she's spending money for a child on her personal beautification that behavior and attitude didn't start when she had he child she's been trife.

And then I wonder about dudes limited understanding of the concept of child support. If the mother is the custodial parent and something happens if the rent is short the car breaks down all that impacts the child.

 

[CashmereThoughts]

WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY PERSONAL?

THEY CAN TECHNICALLY SPEND IT ON ANYTHING RELATED TO THE CHILD. CARS, HOUSING, FURNITURE, AND BILLS ALL COUNT.

they can spend it on whatever they want. bytch could blow it in vegas courts only get involved if the child is not taken care of.

 

[CrimsonTider]

Eliminate child support and alimony...watch and see who's still quick to have kids...

You are a dumb ass.

Paying child support is much cheaper than actually raising child 24/7


And what does having children have to do with alimony?

 

[Harry Sax]

Right. Then got a nerve to have an attitude. Don't worry about where your measly $300 went, because I paid $600 for daycare in a month alone. sir.

2 things....if u paid 600 for daycare...and he gave u 300...in reality yall split daycare 50/50

second.....if tha 300 is so measly....then why put the nikka on child support in the first place?

 

[CrimsonTider]

2 things....if u paid 600 for daycare...and he gave u 300...in reality yall split daycare 50/50

second.....if tha 300 is so measly....then why put the nikka on child support in the first place?

Whether the woman think the CS is adequate has nothing to do with a man fulfilling his responsibility and providing for his child

 

[Ronnie Lott]

some of y'all fail to realize that byytches do in fact misuse the money they get from child support. I PERSONALLY kno chix that gt that child support check and go splurge on that shytt. They be buyin all kinds of gear for themselves, new handbags, trips, goin 2 the club, buyin weed and all kinds of other fuccery. And some of these same byytches be gettin section 8,food stamps and byytches be workin jobs too and claimin the kid on their income taxes and get a fat return at the end of the year. Some of y'all. Got it fucced up. So many chicks use the child support system to come up.

And to the people that say that child support is less than raisin a kid full time, that's totall bullshyt. One of my nyggaz pays like 2600 a month and his on is 3 yrs old. U mean to tell me a 3 yr old needs 3 gz a month for food, clothes, diapers etc? U think that money is goin all to the 3 yr old? Hell nah it ain't!

 

[Amy Traphouse]

2 things....if u paid 600 for daycare...and he gave u 300...in reality yall split daycare 50/50

second.....if tha 300 is so measly....then why put the nikka on child support in the first place?

He gave $300 total for the month breh and I'm sure that $300 is hardly enough to cover the expense of raising a child for the month.

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

I've long thought that that if you receive a sizable amount in child support, you should have to prove how you use it. A case manager so to speak.

 

[Amy Traphouse]

some of y'all fail to realize that byytches do in fact misuse the money they get from child support. I PERSONALLY kno chix that gt that child support check and go splurge on that shytt. They be buyin all kinds of gear for themselves, new handbags, trips, goin 2 the club, buyin weed and all kinds of other fuccery. And some of these same byytches be gettin section 8,food stamps and byytches be workin jobs too and claimin the kid on their income taxes and get a fat return at the end of the year. Some of y'all. Got it fucced up. So many chicks use the child support system to come up.

And to the people that say that child support is less than raisin a kid full time, that's totall bullshyt. One of my nyggaz pays like 2600 a month and his on is 3 yrs old. U mean to tell me a 3 yr old needs 3 gz a month for food, clothes, diapers etc? U think that money is goin all to the 3 yr old? Hell nah it ain't!

$2600 a month in child support? What state is he in, duckberg .

And nikkas are quick to point out how fly a broad is living but makes no mention of the kid, obviously lil jaquavious is well taken care of too. Like I said before I hear more nikkas cry foul about how the child support is spent and their first solution is "take me off of child support" or "have it reduced, if the daddy cared so much about the welfare of his child he'd stop taking the easy way out and all the bytching about where the money is going or how trife his baby momma is and go for custody.

 

[Rawtid]

2 things....if u paid 600 for daycare...and he gave u 300...in reality yall split daycare 50/50

second.....if tha 300 is so measly....then why put the nikka on child support in the first place?

1. Daycare is paid on a weekly and/or bi-weekly basis where I live. Some parents even pay by the day.

2. Children have many other expenses aside from daycare. So if the father's portion of child support is ONLY $300 per month (in this example), which was only half of daycare, then no, it was not 50/50 for the total care of the child.

3. In cases where father's think they should delegate where their child support money goes when they aren't even paying close to 50% of the total financial cost of the child, then yes the $300 is measly and he should STFU about what the mother does with the money.


As far as why a mother would take a man downtown for child support, the situation varies for each person. There are mothers that do it out of spite and ones that believe the father should share in the financial responsibility when it comes to raising a child and the father refuses to do so for whatever reason.

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

I wonder kind of women some of these dudes with these child support concerns are? If she's spending money for a child on her personal beautification that behavior and attitude didn't start when she had he child she's been trife.

And then I wonder about dudes limited understanding of the concept of child support. If the mother is the custodial parent and something happens if the rent is short the car breaks down all that impacts the child.

why would the rent be short?

if a bytch cant pay rent on time..doesnt earn and save enough money to fix her car as soon as it breaks down...why the fukk aint she giving up custody?

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

1. Daycare is paid on a weekly and/or bi-weekly basis where I live. Some parents even pay by the day.

2. Children have many other expenses aside from daycare. So if the father's portion of child support is ONLY $300 per month (in this example), which was only half of daycare, then no, it was not 50/50 for the total care of the child.

3. In cases where father's think they should delegate where their child support money goes when they aren't even paying close to 50% of the total financial cost of the child, then yes the $300 is measly and he should STFU about what the mother does with the money.


As far as why a mother would take a man downtown for child support, the situation varies for each person. There are mothers that do it out of spite and ones that believe the father should share in the financial responsibility when it comes to raising a child and the father refuses to do so for whatever reason.

You're one of the dumbest hoes on here

Anyway bytch answer this

If a man covers the child's healthcare,daycare and buys him all the clothes,school supplies etc and still shelling out 300$ to the child's bytch of a mother..is that considered 50/50? can the ho spend the 300$ on whatever the fukk she wants as long as baby as the roof over his head and food to eat?

 

[Rawtid]

You're one of the dumbest hoes on here

Anyway bytch answer this

If a man covers the child's healthcare,daycare and buys him all the clothes,school supplies etc and still shelling out 300$ to the child's bytch of a mother..is that considered 50/50? can the ho spend the 300$ on whatever the fukk she wants as long as baby as the roof over his head and food to eat?

I think you're a fakkit. I guess we are even.

Any who, IF the father is doing all of those things AND paying additional money the mother, then yes he has a right to question where his money goes but more often than not, the custodial parent takes on the brunt of the finances.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

$2600 a month in child support? What state is he in, duckberg .

And nikkas are quick to point out how fly a broad is living but makes no mention of the kid, obviously lil jaquavious is well taken care of too. Like I said before I hear more nikkas cry foul about how the child support is spent and their first solution is "take me off of child support" or "have it reduced, if the daddy cared so much about the welfare of his child he'd stop taking the easy way out and all the bytching about where the money is going or how trife his baby momma is and go for custody.

U got it all wrong bruh. My nygga is in texas and he does in fact pay 2600. They take a certain percentage of his total income. Stop it with sayin I'm tellin ducktales nygga. There is no reason 4 me to mae up some shhyt like that.. and what the fucc are u talkin about when u say "the easy way out". Goin for custody is not the answer or solution to the issue of a nygga payin too much in child support and the baby mama blowin it on herself. U got the game fucced up bruh. I am willin to bet that if it was you in the situation and u were gettin bent over by the department of child support then u would think different. I don't blame u. I just blame ur ignorance

 

[CrimsonTider]

some of y'all fail to realize that byytches do in fact misuse the money they get from child support. I PERSONALLY kno chix that gt that child support check and go splurge on that shytt. They be buyin all kinds of gear for themselves, new handbags, trips, goin 2 the club, buyin weed and all kinds of other fuccery. And some of these same byytches be gettin section 8,food stamps and byytches be workin jobs too and claimin the kid on their income taxes and get a fat return at the end of the year. Some of y'all. Got it fucced up. So many chicks use the child support system to come up.

And to the people that say that child support is less than raisin a kid full time, that's totall bullshyt. One of my nyggaz pays like 2600 a month and his on is 3 yrs old. U mean to tell me a 3 yr old needs 3 gz a month for food, clothes, diapers etc? U think that money is goin all to the 3 yr old? Hell nah it ain't!

1st bolded. You are objecting to a parent claiming a dependent on there tax return?

How does your "friend" paying 2600 a month CS disprove the fact that CS is more than raising a kid full time.

Plus, if dude is paying that type of money he is surely making a 6 figure income so why would he be complaining?

Also, was your friend married to his Baby mom?

You're one of the dumbest hoes on here

Anyway bytch answer this

If a man covers the child's healthcare,daycare and buys him all the clothes,school supplies etc and still shelling out 300$ to the child's bytch of a mother..is that considered 50/50? can the ho spend the 300$ on whatever the fukk she wants as long as baby as the roof over his head and food to eat?

Straw man...