Child Support rant :wow:

[Be@t Bangerz Fan]

I always wonder what "taking care of" kids means. I always hear guys say this but they never really know what that means. It just seems like an ambiguous statement that actually means the opposite of what it's intended.

As a father of 3, let me attempt to answer this question for you on a personal level. For me, "taking care of" my kids involves me keeping a roof over their head (in a 2-parent home), providing stability, putting food in their mouth, spending quality time with them, teaching them morals, showing them support, being present at doctors appointments and raising them to become respectable individuals, etc... Their mom and I do all of this together. We share responsibility. We're not married (not yet), but we do share a home together. As I type this, 1 of my daughters is asleep on my chest right now. It's just a bonding thing. I like to bond with all of my kids.

 

[Be@t Bangerz Fan]

Same thing. Too board to be taken seriously. Plenty of deadbeat mom's too.

 

[Wild self]

Typical order is every 1st, 3rd, 5th weekend starting from friday and every other Wednesday from after school to 8pm.

Not sure how much more is wanted because time is already split between both parents

I don't want the court to tell me when and where I should raise my child. That is criminal.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Sorry I don't give that man views. I am sure it was quite amusing though.

 

[Be@t Bangerz Fan]

Sorry I don't give that man views. I am sure it was quite amusing though.

You know you watched.

 

[beenz]

my boss pays 18k a month per ex wife for child support
and they are some of the worst women ever, shyt they both sued him

at some 18K a month. I know he considered committing that

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

As a father of 3, let me attempt to answer this question for you on a personal level. For me, "taking care of" my kids involves me keeping a roof over their head (in a 2-parent home), providing stability, putting food in their mouth, spending quality time with them, teaching them morals, showing them support, being present at doctors appointments and raising them to become respectable individuals, etc... Their mom and I do all of this together. We share responsibility. We're not married (not yet), but we do share a home together. As I type this, 1 of my daughters is asleep on my chest right now. It's just a bonding thing. I like to bond with all of my kids.

And I am sure you don't run around worried about child support and telling everyone how you "take care of your kids." It's usually certain types of men in certain types of situations that use that phrase.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You know you watched.

I didn't. He's all yours.

 

[SouthernBelle]

I don't want the court to tell me when and where I should raise my child. That is criminal.

You do realize that those aren't only times you can see your child if you are and your baby mama are adult enough to actually coparent?

Men who strap up don't usually have these problems.

 

[Still Benefited]

So its the man fault the girl not on birth control?? fukk outta here.

What if the man doesn't want sympathy and just wants full custody because he's more fit to financially take care of the kid without the womans help,taking full responsibility.... or even 50/50 custody where yall split time and nobody pays the other child support? That takes care of the whole "men need to take responsibility" claim,and theres no sympathy necessary.

Sounds like somebody wants to continue to recieve the sympathy,the money and the power though

 

[Be@t Bangerz Fan]

And I am sure you don't run around worried about child support and telling everyone how you "take care of your kids." It's usually certain types of men in certain types of situations that use that phrase.

shyttin' me. Being a great father doesn't exclude me from being put on child support. It's unlikely, but there's always that possibility, no matter how you look at it. When my youngest daughter (she's 1) graduates college, then I'll stop worrying. I've seen stories about guys being put on child support, even after they were proven (by the courts) not to be the father of the child. Do I need to post clips?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

shyttin' me. Being a great father doesn't exclude me from being put on child support. It's unlikely, but there's always that possibility, no matter how you look at it. When my youngest daughter (she's 1) graduates college, then I'll stop worrying. I've seen stories about guys being put on child support, even after they were proven (by the courts) not to be the father of the child. Do I need to post clips?

So I guess that the answer is a no.

 

[Be@t Bangerz Fan]

So I guess that the answer is a no.

 

[Remote]

That dude look a bit unstable

 

[Mordith]

I pay about $700 a month in child support.....



My oldest graduation is next Thursday....the worst thing in the world is dropping off the check on Friday and then your son hitting you up on Saturday cause he needs new shoes.



I had to learn the hard way.....don't get stuck with BM breh

Only a sucka would allow himself to be extorted in said manner.