Not all women are on bullshyt breh.I used to be a simp frfrole why they don't like me ole nikka
good times tho
Choose Better Men
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Basil Fawty
True but I ain't never met em
True but I ain't never met em
Black Sinatra
Raised Glass to the Squandered Potentials..
It's really not that complicated.
It's a matter of head and heart. How are you approaching mate selection? If you are too heavy with your heart and not enough with your head...then you are subject to deceit. Women are prone to leaning in with the heart, especially after physically giving up guts. It's her nature. Men can be decieved as well...look at Rob Kardashian. I tell my sister and many female cousins that if a man is showing more sexual interest towards you than intellectual, spiritual, or even social....then you should be wary. If the woman is seeking sexual comfort then...by all means select that man and get your nut, but don't expect more. So yes...women CAN choose better. Men can also...but at the end of the day.... A bad choice results in a different suffering for men/women respectively.
It's a matter of head and heart. How are you approaching mate selection? If you are too heavy with your heart and not enough with your head...then you are subject to deceit. Women are prone to leaning in with the heart, especially after physically giving up guts. It's her nature. Men can be decieved as well...look at Rob Kardashian. I tell my sister and many female cousins that if a man is showing more sexual interest towards you than intellectual, spiritual, or even social....then you should be wary. If the woman is seeking sexual comfort then...by all means select that man and get your nut, but don't expect more. So yes...women CAN choose better. Men can also...but at the end of the day.... A bad choice results in a different suffering for men/women respectively.
In this thread: skrong, independent, educated women feign being unable to determine which men are suitable to procreate with.
Biscayne
Ocean air
I can't lie. Imma hypocrite in this regard. The bro code is not to be broken.
And plus, my boy is a solid dude and he loves his girl espite his mistakes. Imma a hypocrite...
But AT least I admit it. Some of these dudes wanna play dumb and Juelz Santana their way out of calling themseleves scumbags.
So are women equal or not? Because you're making them sound like children that don't know any better. Women are hit on all the damn time...you don't think they'd be able to pick up some clues that a dude is shiesty? Get out of here @Meh you know not of what you speak of any way...you're a damned virgin.
BroolStories
All Star
This shyt is an absolute embarrassmentThere are a couple of issues with this. There are some women who legitimately need some help in this area. Like seriously.
Getting ur ass beat or getting called out ur name everyday ain't a sport
There are some chicks who put up with shyt that would've pushed me over the edge from day one.
But these women aren't as numerous as a lot of people would have u think.
Men and women's choices in mates is a complaint banner that has been raised by lames and rejects (OF BOTH GENDERS for anybody asshurt about me calling this out) mad b/c they not getting chose.
Not everybody is making toxic choices in mates. Relationships are far more complicated than somebody choosing "bad" people. Rejects will oversimplify relationships b/c they have no experience IN them.
You don't know how people change or grow apart or how insecurities and situations can strain a relationship how attraction wanes or grows over time, how things can change. All of this is a natural part of relationships. But these dynamics get ignored in favor of sensationalism like "she shouldn't have chosen him" or "he only deal wit hoes".
You can choose the perfect person and still crash and burn. People are fascinated with romantic failures being SUPER judgemental, mad b/c nobody is giving them a chance. Meanwhile u sitting here thinking u could have done better but those are oftentimes the WORST ones themselves.
Save me from people who like to focus on failure to make themselves feel better about their own issues.
It's like hoping the world will end to give legitimacy to u not accomplishing shyt. Relationships can be batty these days but chill out Chicken Little. The sky still in tact and u still gotta face why u not getting chose.
Getting ur ass beat or getting called out ur name everyday ain't a sport
There are some chicks who put up with shyt that would've pushed me over the edge from day one.
But these women aren't as numerous as a lot of people would have u think.
Men and women's choices in mates is a complaint banner that has been raised by lames and rejects (OF BOTH GENDERS for anybody asshurt about me calling this out) mad b/c they not getting chose.
Not everybody is making toxic choices in mates. Relationships are far more complicated than somebody choosing "bad" people. Rejects will oversimplify relationships b/c they have no experience IN them.
You don't know how people change or grow apart or how insecurities and situations can strain a relationship how attraction wanes or grows over time, how things can change. All of this is a natural part of relationships. But these dynamics get ignored in favor of sensationalism like "she shouldn't have chosen him" or "he only deal wit hoes".
You can choose the perfect person and still crash and burn. People are fascinated with romantic failures being SUPER judgemental, mad b/c nobody is giving them a chance. Meanwhile u sitting here thinking u could have done better but those are oftentimes the WORST ones themselves.
Save me from people who like to focus on failure to make themselves feel better about their own issues.It's like hoping the world will end to give legitimacy to u not accomplishing shyt. Relationships can be batty these days but chill out Chicken Little. The sky still in tact and u still gotta face why u not getting chose.
Larry Lambo
Superstar
There's levels to this.
You got women choosing no good men because of flash/swag/style or whatever. Those women get what they deserve, no sympathy.
But then you have women that are not even trying to shoot that high, and are picking a dude that seemingly has good intentions. Only to get used as a temporary landing spot before he finds what he really wants. This is harder to detect, and I do feel some sympathy for that.
Women say they can see through it, but if a guy really likes you, wants monogamy, but just wants a temporary situation, how are you going to see through his lies. He can introduce you to his friends, he can take you nice places, he can tell you he loves you. He can even lie to himself and try to make believe that there is a chance at something long term. What action will show that he doesn't want to be with you 2-3 years from now?
That's why I laugh when women say a man is doing too much. That's his way of communicating that he's really in it for the long haul. Without "doing too much" he's not different than the guy that wants to be your dude for 6 months - 1 year. That's cool for HS/college kids, but if a 30 year old woman is still responding negatively to men going all out to impress her, she's a fool.
You got women choosing no good men because of flash/swag/style or whatever. Those women get what they deserve, no sympathy.
But then you have women that are not even trying to shoot that high, and are picking a dude that seemingly has good intentions. Only to get used as a temporary landing spot before he finds what he really wants. This is harder to detect, and I do feel some sympathy for that.
Women say they can see through it, but if a guy really likes you, wants monogamy, but just wants a temporary situation, how are you going to see through his lies. He can introduce you to his friends, he can take you nice places, he can tell you he loves you. He can even lie to himself and try to make believe that there is a chance at something long term. What action will show that he doesn't want to be with you 2-3 years from now?
That's why I laugh when women say a man is doing too much. That's his way of communicating that he's really in it for the long haul. Without "doing too much" he's not different than the guy that wants to be your dude for 6 months - 1 year. That's cool for HS/college kids, but if a 30 year old woman is still responding negatively to men going all out to impress her, she's a fool.
Biscayne
Ocean air
Sums it up.There are a couple of issues with this. There are some women who legitimately need some help in this area. Like seriously.
Getting ur ass beat or getting called out ur name everyday ain't a sport
There are some chicks who put up with shyt that would've pushed me over the edge from day one.
But these women aren't as numerous as a lot of people would have u think.
Men and women's choices in mates is a complaint banner that has been raised by lames and rejects (OF BOTH GENDERS for anybody asshurt about me calling this out) mad b/c they not getting chose.
Not everybody is making toxic choices in mates. Relationships are far more complicated than somebody choosing "bad" people. Rejects will oversimplify relationships b/c they have no experience IN them.
You don't know how people change or grow apart or how insecurities and situations can strain a relationship how attraction wanes or grows over time, how things can change. All of this is a natural part of relationships. But these dynamics get ignored in favor of sensationalism like "she shouldn't have chosen him" or "he only deal wit hoes".
You can choose the perfect person and still crash and burn. People are fascinated with romantic failures being SUPER judgemental, mad b/c nobody is giving them a chance. Meanwhile u sitting here thinking u could have done better but those are oftentimes the WORST ones themselves.
It's like hoping the world will end to give legitimacy to u not accomplishing shyt. Relationships can be batty these days but chill out Chicken Little. The sky still in tact and u still gotta face why u not getting chose.
Voice of Reason
Veteran
How can we tell women to "Choose Better" when so many men are masuerading as "Better Men" and "Selling Hoes the dream"?
I'm sure alot of these women choose men who they think are Better Men, but these men end up gaming her. Then we blame her for choosing Horrible Men. Why is that?
Would you have the same sentiment for someone like Rob Kardasian or would you tell him to choose better
Biscayne
Ocean air
Best post in here....
No BS, no gender bias, just truth for both genders. You made an especially good point about seemingly good dudes showing off his girl to his friends and family, but only wanting to be in a seemingly wholesome monogomous relationship for a short time and then dipping for whatever reason. I've seen this. Those types of dudes aren't even scumbags in my opinion. Like you said, they'll try to stay in the relationship and try to convince themselves that they're in love with the woman in question, but just fall out of love and find someone else a year later. Truth.