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Generalize black women like a cac, brehs

You are part of the problem. Don't you get it? :why: They want you to remain in denial and think this is not a big deal and is confined to a "small subset" of the population. In what other culture do you see successful Women cavorting with armed criminals at such a frequency? :dwillhuh: Can you please answer honestly and not with sarcasm or rhetoric?

It is like any attempt to critique and improve black culture is rebuked by brainwashed pro-hoteps that accuse you of being a sell out or White. I don't know any other culture on this planet that allows for this fukkery except for us. And you are aiding and abetting it right now with your defense of it under the grounds that "I'm generalizing". This shyt has been going on since the 70's nikka. Wake up. We are descending into the abyss and it's because we don't call out our Women on these bullshyt decisions they are making. Just because a handful of Coli Women don't choose nikkas like this do you think I'm generalizing?

You can believe whatever you want but almost every female member of my family has acknowledged that Black Women as a whole have been choosing the wrong types of Men, specifically of the CRIMINAL element for decades now and whenever a Man tries to call this fact out they are treated as a self-hater. Enough with the bullshyt.:sas1: My own Aunt admitted to being attracted to and cavorting with street bullies and thugs that carried blades in the 80's. Today obviously they carrying a lot more heat than back then and the consequences are shown in the article.
 

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Lol, wow. This is what you get for making an observation. It's wild. The Internet is wild. I could say you're bashing black women, because none of us have ever seen BM drama or nikkas dating hood rats and girls dating super thugs and having babies. It never happens. It's an urban legend.

Let's not forget what sub culture dominates black culture and the kind of men and women that culture promotes as viable for procreation and marriage. The recycling and glorification of gangsterism in hip hop is an urban legend. Music has no influence on the kind of partners we seek out. None at all. How dare you imply we're affected by our environment. And how dare you exercise free speech.

You know what I've noticed. Nothing. No visible improvement under a two term black president. It's embarrassing. Oakland had a Chinese mayor for a shorter amount of time and they run down town Oakland now. I used to go to the town hall meetings they'd have. Man, young and old Chinese came out and they discussed issues in their community.

PS: everybody generalizes. You can recognize you're doing it and explore it but to act enlightened to the point where you can't realize when people say all or most they mean in their experiences is ridiculous. Go write a book if you're logically and morally that consistent. The last nikka who talked that shyt got nailed to a cross.

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You are part of the problem. Don't you get it? :why: They want you to remain in denial and think this is not a big deal and is confined to a "small subset" of the population. In what other culture do you see successful Women cavorting with armed criminals at such a frequency? :dwillhuh: Can you please answer honestly and not with sarcasm or rhetoric?

It is like any attempt to critique and improve black culture is rebuked by brainwashed pro-hoteps that accuse you of being a sell out or White. I don't know any other culture on this planet that allows for this fukkery except for us. And you are aiding and abetting it right now with your defense of it under the grounds that "I'm generalizing". This shyt has been going on since the 70's nikka. Wake up. We are descending into the abyss and it's because we don't call out our Women on these bullshyt decisions they are making. Just because a handful of Coli Women don't choose nikkas like this do you think I'm generalizing?

You can believe whatever you want but almost every female member of my family has acknowledged that Black Women as a whole have been choosing the wrong types of Men, specifically of the CRIMINAL element for decades now and whenever a Man tries to call this fact out they are treated as a self-hater. Enough with the bullshyt.:sas1: My own Aunt admitted to being attracted to and cavorting with street bullies and thugs that carried blades in the 80's. Today obviously they carrying a lot more heat than back then and the consequences are shown in the article.
you're with an asain woman , so why do you care what black women do???

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Lol, wow. This is what you get for making an observation. It's wild. The Internet is wild. I could say you're bashing black women, because none of us have ever seen BM drama or nikkas dating hood rats and girls dating super thugs and having babies. It never happens. It's an urban legend.

Let's not forget what sub culture dominates black culture and the kind of men and women that culture promotes as viable for procreation and marriage. The recycling and glorification of gangsterism in hip hop is an urban legend. Music has no influence on the kind of partners we seek out. None at all. How dare you imply we're affected by our environment. And how dare you exercise free speech.

You know what I've noticed. Nothing. No visible improvement under a two term black president. It's embarrassing. Oakland had a Chinese mayor for a shorter amount of time and they run down town Oakland now. I used to go to the town hall meetings they'd have. Man, young and old Chinese came out and they discussed issues in their community.

PS: everybody generalizes. You can recognize you're doing it and explore it but to act enlightened to the point where you can't realize when people say all or most they mean in their experiences is ridiculous. Go write a book if you're logically and morally that consistent. The last nikka who talked that shyt got nailed to a cross.

- I Need To Chill Out

:russ: A lot of nikkas literally be on here like " I have never seen the type of Woman you are talking about". And in the next breath say I am from Brownsville (Brooklyn) NY. :troll:

The funny thing is that free speech is what protects rappers talking about fukking bytches in the back of the club raw dog in their anus but as soon as you demand for people to be responsible with their life choices it's no longer free speech :dwillhuh:

That is another thing that gets me going. Barack Obama has done literally almost NOTHING AT ALL for us as a whole - There has been more racism openly and more incidents like the article I posted happening under Obama than even George Bush. Only Reagan has him beat in that aspect. :beli:

And don't get me started on the Chinese - This is why they stick together they get a congressional leader in that district and basically they become untouchable. In Flushing, NY the rates for felony accusations or arrests for Chinese or Korean individuals is practically non-existent. There are no arrests for domestic violence either and many of the alleged crimes a Black man would be beaten with a baton for go unchecked and Chinese are allowed to freely break minor infraction laws as well that Blacks would be prosecuted for. This is what these nikkas don't understand. :dame: They own that little space of a 5 mile radius and it is Little Shanghai and there's nothing that anyone can do about it because they bought the land, bought the politicians. They have too much leveraged and will govern it as they please.

Tell me what city in Amerikkka with a Black majority has obtained this kind of power? None.


The thing is in order for something to be considered a generalization it has to be categorically untrue in at least 50% of circumstances. Now the problem is every single got damn Black male over the age of 12 I have spoken to in the past 10 years has informed me that 6-7 out of 10 of the sisters they encounter are on some bullshyt. So this is my reality and who am I supposed to believe? Some nikkas on the internet living in a mythical Black Utopia or my Black ass real life encounters and associations?:patrice: There is zero cognitive dissonance here because I know there is a large agenda propelled by undercover Whites to encourage blind empty words of encouragement to Black Women to boost their ego and NEVER hold them accountable for their actions no matter HOW MANY news exposes occur because "it's all the liberal white media just lying their asses off":ld: And I say this with as much sarcasm as possible.

I strongly believe when you look at the single motherhood stats and the number of young nikkas who die before they can even speak their first words that this topic is really at the heart of the issue. And there's simply no way around it no matter how the Fake Hoteps try and spin it to be solely the Black Man's fault. Particularly that square nikka that got his engineering degree that many sisters don't even so much as look at. :sas2: That nikka is called upon to "Man Up" and "Take Care of Responsibilities" without the benefits of even getting into some p*ssy. And it's just a preposterous notion and I have to call this shyt out every time I see it.:manny:
 
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But not all sisters(single mothers, etc) are like this..

Agreed but can we find a stronger argument than "Not All" for once???

I would be happy to see some more examples of single mothers actually not cavorting with criminals, being truly strong and independent and truly holding it down for their child(ren).

I would certainly praise these Women but I'm just not seeing them breh. Like nowhere.

Not on Social Media, not in person, not in the news.

I know a lot of good Black Women, but 9 out of 10 times they aren't a single baby mother shacked up with another man who wasn't the father of the child. And most of them are at least 10 years older than the victim in the article. There is an undeniable generational difference and it's rather disturbing. These young Women are not only picking thugs, but the most lethal criminals available in the community. There is a big difference between messing with a do-nothing pot smoking XBOX captain commando couch potato ass nikka and Deltron the Assassin.:francis:
 

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A lot of people will be mad at you for saying that. But for the most part I agree. For those of us that have a brain we realize you aren't talking about every single black woman but a lot of them are like that.

I've met WAY too many black women who claim they can't find a good BM but when you start asking questions and getting deeper in the conversation a totally different picture is painted for you.

For instance I met a BW a few weeks ago who claim there aren't any decent BM in Atlanta. I'm like really? I know all type of decent black men in Atlanta with multiple degrees and I'm not even a woman out here looking to date them. A BM I know just got married to Asian chick, he is a director of sales , has an MBA and he make over 200K. So are you telling me BM like this refuse to date BW? I don't buy it. And I told the BW I was talking to that. More likely BW overlooked him because he is just an average looking dude, doesn't have the hood look(tattoos everywhere), is a bit chubby, etc. Doesn't have an over the top personality. I'm not trying to clown dude looks at all. After all he is a very successful brother. It's just that he isn't a nikka who is trying to get by on his looks or swag so probably for many BW he wasn't even on their radar yet they claim to be looking for decent, successful BM.

So anyway I asked this chick who said she can't find a decent BM what she did last weekend because I suspected she didn't even hang out in spots with decent BM. Sure enough I was right. She said she went to some hood club. So asked what about the weekend before that(another hood club). Basically all of her hang out spots were hood spots where the chances you would find decent, successful BM would be between slim and zero.

Then I asked her about all the dudes she dated in past. Every dude she had dated basically either never went to college, had a criminal record, did drugs, had several baby mommas, etc. It's like it's a surprise to no one that you haven't had any success. So I'm like is that the only type of BM that like you or is that the only type of BM you like? Either way it's a problem and until you figure out what's going on there you are going to continue to have the same problems.

In my opinion the biggest problem BW have is usually the BM they like and the places they hang out at usually run counter to finding the other things they say they are looking for. I mean it's the same old story we've been hearing constantly for the last 15 years. Incredibly women are struggling to put 2 and 2 together. It really isn't that hard.

To the OP point. I think we all remember how many BW loved Tookie Williams, lol, (for anyone that don't know he was a convicted killer and gang founder/leader).
 
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So this is my reality and who am I supposed to believe? Some nikkas on the internet living in a mythical Black Utopia or my Black ass real life encounters and associations?:patrice:
Lol, yep. Exactly.
Particularly that square nikka that got his engineering degree that many sisters don't even so much as look at. :sas2: That nikka is called upon to "Man Up" and "Take Care of Responsibilities" without the benefits of even getting into some p*ssy. And it's just a preposterous notion and I have to call this shyt out every time I see it.:manny:
I'm a nanny. I've built a business around servicing kids and families. Anyway, the amount of single moms that try to holler who didn't want to holler pre baby cracks me up. I had the same qualities I had five years ago. I still listen to the same music.

The grimey girls hit me up while they're pregnant just to plant a seed. It's dirty man. But it goes down in the DM. I save everything. Im not above blackmail.

I think Black women are absolutely responsible for the condition of Black America. It's equally the fault of us black men. From here its important to identify the issues and make improvements. People are going to have to hear some things they don't like.

For one, I can accept I used put non black p*ssy on pedistol. I made it a point to not do that. Light skin doesnt equal beauty. Neither does someone being skinny. I don't need a girl with green eyes or blonde hair. Of course I'm free to love whoever, but I think I should reserve the spot next to me for a black woman.

My options with black women have expanded. I think that's because they see me really trying out here. I stumble here and there. But I'm trying and I care a lot.

Agreed but can we find a stronger argument than "Not All" for once???
This is why I stopped studying science. The argument that 1 out 25 doesn't do what's claimed doesn't negate the argument. Yes it requires modification, but the heart of the theory remains true.
 
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@UltraKombo

A lot of people will be mad at you for saying that. But for the most part I agree. For those of us that have a brain we realize you aren't talking about every single black woman but a lot of them are like that.

I've met WAY too many black women who claim they can't find a good BM but when you start asking questions and getting deeper in the conversation a totally different picture is painted for you.

For instance I met a BW a few weeks ago who claim there aren't any decent BM in Atlanta. I'm like really? I know all type of decent black men in Atlanta with multiple degrees and I'm not even a woman out here looking to date them. A BM I know just got married to Asian chick, he is a director of sales , has an MBA and he make over 200K. So are you telling me BM like this refuse to date BW? I don't buy it. And I told the BW I was talking to that. More likely BW overlooked him because he is just an average looking dude, doesn't have the hood look(tattoos everywhere), is a bit chubby, etc. Doesn't have an over the top personality. I'm not trying to clown dude looks at all. After all he is a very successful brother. It's just that he isn't a nikka who is trying to get by on his looks or swag so probably for many BW he wasn't even on their radar yet they claim to be looking for decent, successful BM.

So anyway I asked this chick who said she can't find a decent BM what she did last weekend because I suspected she didn't even hang out in spots with decent BM. Sure enough I was right. She said she went to some hood club. So asked what about the weekend before that(another hood club). Basically all of her hang out spots were hood spots where the chances you would find decent, successful BM would be between slim and zero.

Then I asked her about all the dudes she dated in past. Every dude she had dated basically either never went to college, had a criminal record, did drugs, had several baby mommas, etc. It's like it's a surprise to no one that you haven't had any success. So I'm like is that the only type of BM that like you or is that the only type of BM you like? Either way it's a problem and until you figure out what's going on there you are going to continue to have the same problems.

In my opinion the biggest problem BW have is usually the BM they like and the places the hang out at usually run counter to finding the other things they say they are looking for. I mean it's the same old story we've been hearing constantly for the last 15 years. Incredibly women are struggling to put 2 and 2 together. It really isn't that hard.

To the OP point. I think we all remember how many BW loved Tookie Williams, lol, (for anyone that don't know he was a convicted killer and gang founder/leader).

The fact that the nikka is in ATL and married an Asian chick just speaks volumes so much a lot of brothers it will fly right over their head. :beli:

Like that to me signals really the beginning of the end. How the fukk is any Black nikka making 200k with an MBA in ATL and can't find a Black Wife? :why:

That shyt is just unfathomable. I swear to god these nikkas in denial so bad about what is happening around them. :francis:

They too busy listening to Trent Shelton and don't realize Actions speak louder than words. If that nikka held a Reality TV show where he offered to sponsor and love 10 broke baby mommas and their children for the rest of his life I'd actually understand why Women buy the bullshyt he sells. Turns out that nikka apparently just married a white woman with - you guessed it - NO KIDS :martin:
 

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you're with an asain woman , so why do you care what black women do???

@bcrusaderw why are the dog flied lice lovers so obsessed with us even after they've found their perfect feminine asian queens?
These are the same dudes who will whine and cry if you dare stereotype them as thugs, but have no problem turning around doing the same thing to black women. :laff: They're completely illogical. If Kirishima is making you so happy why are you still obsessed with black women? And of course the usual suspects are nowhere to be found. :jbhmm:
 
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My options with black women have expanded. I think that's because they see me really trying out here. I stumble here and there. But I'm trying and I care a lot.

Please expand on this. Because there are a lot of young nikkas on my FB that are having problems.

This one dude is a skater and he keeps getting attracted to these fake hotep afrique hipster sisters. And of course after they fukk a few times they toss him to the curb for the next new shiny toy.

I can't guide them because I just went with Women who were attracted to me and saw my value as is when I was their age. As you can probably guess none of them were Black.

But how can these young nikkas start selecting better or attracting better quality sisters without compromising their individuality and trying to conform?
 
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