Choose Criminals Brehettes, then Complain About Being Unable to Find Good Men

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:jbhmm:so we're talking shyt about black women when the thug nikka is the issue in this situation

:jbhmm:how about we focus on getting our brothers help and getting them out the streets

But of course it's easier to blame black women for everything that's wrong in the community right:manny:

I can tell 95% of y'all not from the hood:russell:
 

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:jbhmm:so we're talking shyt about black women when the thug nikka is the issue in this situation

:jbhmm:how about we focus on getting our brothers help and getting them out the streets

But of course it's easier to blame black women for everything that's wrong in the community right:manny:

I can tell 95% of y'all not from the hood:russell:
How do you propose we help them? I'm asking seriously. I know jobs like the DOE fund here in NYC help but there are a lot of folks still not working.
 

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How do you propose we help them? I'm asking seriously. I know jobs like the DOE fund here in NYC help but there are a lot of folks still not working.
It starts in the household first

As far as the adult men in our community

We really need to start OWNING more businesses so we can employ our brothers, teach them job skills, we need to teach everybody in the community the importance of education and hold it to a much higher standard
 

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It starts in the household first

As far as the adult men in our community

We really need to start OWNING more businesses so we can employ our brothers, teach them job skills, we need to teach everybody in the community the importance of education and hold it to a much higher standard
I think that's a decent start but what about those who don't want to learn , set in their ways? I think there is some psych Evals that need to be done to address the ptsd our people suffer from in this north American wilderness.
 

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I think that's a decent start but what about those who don't want to learn , set in their ways? I think there is some psych Evals that need to be done to address the ptsd our people suffer from in this north American wilderness.
The toughest part is getting black folks to stop fearing "going to the doctor" the "I don't need help" mentality has to be changed

its been said plenty of times the black community has a lot of mental illnesses that are unadressed and being ignored

A lot of our people are sick. Due to the environment and they need HELP but we have to find intelligent talented blacks in the psych field that can make change

I'd like to see a boom in black psychologists, black students in the psych field period

Funny because my friend, a black girl in my psych class feels the same:jbhmm:
 
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How do you propose we help them? I'm asking seriously. I know jobs like the DOE fund here in NYC help but there are a lot of folks still not working.

I see a lot of dudes sweeping the trains at Hudson Yards. Some look grateful to have the job, others look like they got one of them broomsticks shoved so far up they ass.

This is the problem, no Father in the household teaching work ethic. I saw my grandfather go to work every weeknight.

It starts in the household first

As far as the adult men in our community

We really need to start OWNING more businesses so we can employ our brothers, teach them job skills, we need to teach everybody in the community the importance of education and hold it to a much higher standard

So the problem is a nikka on my FB owns a bakery in BK.

This nikka has had to fire 1/2 of the Black Men he's employed because they just refused to prioritize work.

He had to replace them with Pablo and Emanuel otherwise his biz was gonna go under from the loss of customers.

How do you propose we help Brothers in the situation who are attempting to help nikkas out and they being ungrateful, flaky and disrespectful?

It's work for a Black man and earn $10/hr or work for a White man and target earning the same money. nikkas will obey the White Man more than the Black small biz owner.

And let me not forget the biggest problem - A Black Woman will clown a nikka trying to go the straight and narrow and give p*ssy to nikkas who say "fukk it" and start running cons, scams and illegal activities. They view the Black man holding down a job as a "Soft" and "Weak" nikka and he can't "Protect her" but Tyrone Digga can "Protect" her ass from Rikers Island or Upstate right? :martin:

The toughest part is getting black folks to stop fearing "going to the doctor" the "I don't need help" mentality has to be changed

its been said plenty of times the black community has a lot of mental illnesses that are unadressed and being ignored

A lot of our people are sick. Due to the environment and they need HELP but we have to find intelligent talented blacks in the psych field that can make change

I'd like to see a boom in black psychologists, black students in the psych field period

Funny because my friend, a black girl in my psych class feels the same:jbhmm:

Psychology ain't gonna do it all - We need biochemists because a lot of these bi-polar nugget heads on these streets need HEAVY RX medication. :wow:
 

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I see a lot of dudes sweeping the trains at Hudson Yards. Some look grateful to have the job, others look like they got one of them broomsticks shoved so far up they ass.

This is the problem, no Father in the household teaching work ethic. I saw my grandfather go to work every weeknight.



So the problem is a nikka on my FB owns a bakery in BK.

This nikka has had to fire 1/2 of the Black Men he's employed because they just refused to prioritize work.

He had to replace them with Pablo and Emanuel otherwise his biz was gonna go under from the loss of customers.

How do you propose we help Brothers in the situation who are attempting to help nikkas out and they being ungrateful, flaky and disrespectful?

It's work for a Black man and earn $10/hr or work for a White man and target earning the same money. nikkas will obey the White Man more than the Black small biz owner.

And let me not forget the biggest problem - A Black Woman will clown a nikka trying to go the straight and narrow and give p*ssy to nikkas who say "fukk it" and start running cons, scams and illegal activities. They view the Black man holding down a job as a "Soft" and "Weak" nikka and he can't "Protect her" but Tyrone Digga can "Protect" her ass from Rikers Island or Upstate right? :martin:



Psychology ain't gonna do it all - We need biochemists because a lot of these bi-polar nugget heads on these streets need HEAVY RX medication. :wow:
its a big clusterfukk breh

it would take GENERATIONS for a significant change

we need a culture shift, an attitude shift, in our community,
 

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Please expand on this. Because there are a lot of young nikkas on my FB that are having problems.

This one dude is a skater and he keeps getting attracted to these fake hotep afrique hipster sisters. And of course after they fukk a few times they toss him to the curb for the next new shiny toy.

I can't guide them because I just went with Women who were attracted to me and saw my value as is when I was their age. As you can probably guess none of them were Black.

But how can these young nikkas start selecting better or attracting better quality sisters without compromising their individuality and trying to conform?
Luckily black culture is so broad now being black is enough. Things they need to work on: A)raising their standard of hygiene. B)consistency C)stfu&listen/read
D)being a good partner.

Being a beautiful black woman takes hella time and care. If they can take the time to do all that and look that fukking good consistently you should too.

Any woman I'm with is the most beautiful woman in the room. And as her partner I'm obligated to compliment her. Stfu and let her talk about anything. If she's talking you're getting to know her. Read her body language. Look her in the fukking eyes. Black women got body and they glow. Men stare. They notice. If you do those things she'll trust you. From there anything is possible.

Be direct about what your intentions are. Go places there are lots of black women. Be open. I know I want kids and a wife. I meet girls at work, school, and the park because that's where I can find the kind of girl I'm looking for. I moved to a predominantly black town too.

Everyone is different. But being honest about who you are and what you want is step one. Anything is hard to find when you will not open your eyes. Be proud and black. I skate and listen to a lot indie music. Most people think I'm bizarre.

Lol I really throw my people for a loop. I put black before anything and I'm not shy about discussing race anywhere. I think my fearlessness and fukk white people attitude does it. I know rock was invented by black people. Black people been skating since the 60s. We've always worn fitting clothes and valued education and politics. I stopped being friends with white people. That was a good move because it forced me to surround myself with minorities. Short answer knowledge of self is key. Black women will love you if love them.
 
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