Clubbing Is A Fool’s Game

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90% of my rotation came from clubs :yeshrug:

I always say you are playing the game wrong if you can't get women from clubs. Forget about what the majority of people are doing in the clubs.

People always complain that no one is dancing no more and everyone is on their phones all the time. Here's what you do...You be the one who's dancing and not on your phone, people (Females) will follow suit. It's all about the energy your giving off.
 

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Why go to the club when you can go to Tinder???
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Actual Human interaction>>>>Tinder

I deleted my tinder account. Too much flaking occurs when it's time to meet.I just figured it wasn't for me

When I pull a women on a night out, there's a much much smaller chance of her flaking on me. We have already met so she knows I'm not just a weirdo on the net, and they are less inclined to be nervous to meet up again.
 

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Breh's that go out with the sole purpose of picking up chicks move with a different mindset not even realizing it. Spending all that money and doing all that extra shyt just to smash a chick that he don't even know (she could have any disease, crazy ass bf, she might be crazy).

I don't know where I got this from but it always stuck with me. Basically someone once told me, if you go out by yourself or with the guys with the purpose of picking up women; you won't have a good time, especially if you didn't bring someone home. You should only go out if you are 100 percent positive no matter what happens, you will enjoy your night.

And the ironic part of it all is that you and your home boys start bringing chicks back to the crib. They decide they want to hang with you because you are the party with or without them.

You having a good time should be the number 1 priority.
 

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Clubbing is not dying some of you nikkas are bugging but to the OP I agree with what you said. You have to go out to club with the intention of taking a women home that same night because club numbers tend to be flaky once they sober up
 

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Actual Human interaction>>>>Tinder

I deleted my tinder account. Too much flaking occurs when it's time to meet.I just figured it wasn't for me

When I pull a women on a night out, there's a much much smaller chance of her flaking on me. We have already met so she knows I'm not just a weirdo on the net, and they are less inclined to be nervous to meet up again.
Skype or facetime asap with these women......

It cuts down on a lot of bs. If she's unwilling to videochat then bushes. She's busted and catfishing.

A lot more can be established through a conversation than texting.
 

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If you go solely to meet women

I've taken down some club snatch before but compared to the actual times I've gone out, the ratio is realllyyyy bad. And almost all my club one night stands were white girls (which is risky)

Not only that but it's a waste of money, the uber, the drinks (8$-10 a drink even worse some clubs) etc

Imagine saving up your UPS check for the last month just to blow it on a table & some bottles to impress bytches with cheap Fashion Nova outfits that don't total past 50$:Fatmanlol: and then they leave the table to fukk with the local rapper or even better a big name rapper.

Not to mention a lot of clubs especially "urban clubs" :MJSuspicious: are a bit boring. White or mixed spots tend to be a lil bit more loose but they not much better. Everyone is on their phones, you gotta talk loud asf over music, bytches dancing w each other or acting stuck up.

And in a lot of spots there's more men than women.

Like the homie @baby hair said dive bars are lowkey, less ADHD triggering, and less stunting plus you don't have music blaring to the point hoes can barely hear you talk. I've had way more success in dive bars. And if ur not going out just to meet women it's more lowkey to drink and enjoy your company/friends. I've always liked bars/pool halls since I was old enough to club (the club scene wore off kinda quick)

Not only that but it's time wasting, waste of money, & you don't get much out of it unless you go just for special occasions or your a celebrity/event host/soundcloud rapper

If you the type to go to clubs every weekend in hopes of getting lucky, your wasting time and money.

I'ma still club every once in a while for the fun of it but it's almost pointless if you wanna end the night with a lil somethin something on a consistent basis:Natsmash: in 2018. There are way better avenues





I've had success at any place with performing arts too. Like wherever in your city that they hold plays and shyt like that
 

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This is coming from and 86 baby. The clubs ain't what it use to be and you should never go to them on the terms in picking up chicks. Now mind you most the time I go out to a club i'm getting approached by some chick but the return on investment in that aspect is not worth it. You spend 10 dollars for cover and atleast 50 dollars for drinks you best be going there for music. Now mind you I've had a few one night stands from clubs but they are rare in occasion. Tinder is ok but you have to escalate things quickly otherwise you get lost in the shuffle of swipes. I still say nothing beats cold approaching when your out about if you have the balls to do it.

Cold approaching is like having a skilled trade outchea it's a dying breed and most dudes aren't doing it or doing it right. Online dating is oversaturated you have too many online applications gassing these chicks up. But if your resume is on point in the online dating game you can eat.
 
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I dnt want to know a nikka going to a club to do anything besides finding p*ssy.
And its the worse place to actually obtain p*ssy...
I got the exact same shirt that you have in your avy. One of my faves.. :obama:

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Club scene died with bottle service, trap music, stripclubs becoming clubs, startenders, social media, celebrity DJ’s that played pre mixed music.


I used to promote and been to some of the best clubs NYC ever had.

Now you have to pay me to go to a club.
Real DJs, loose dress codes, and all you can drink specials ftw
 
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