read my post above about american soldiers. tldr: not all people agree with wars even though they or their country participate in it. based on this reality and knowing human nature in general (that not everybody thinks the same) it's perfectly plausible that some dahomey werent with the shyt, and that this movie is an embellishment of that POV
Soldiers can quit if they don’t agree with their country or leaders
with that said - you still pose a bad analogy because even though Dahomey tribe was a female army they was never at war with other tribes
they invaded weaker villages only to slaughter & enslave them - there’s nothing plausible of any of them trying to separate themselves from these heinous acts committed …
Seems like you’re trying to make an excuse for the inexcusable
let’s keep it real these people were completely evil