Dreamzeedream
Banned
Trye. That limit your options
Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice
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1-8-7-Skillz
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Might as well commit to that hermit life.With that type of mindset,you are either going to end up being alone in your prime years or be forced to drop your standards and wife up any desperate woman.
How can brehs talk about smashing and getting p*ssy when they have a crippling fear of rejection?
Motherfukkers want to win the race but are afraid of competing. Ig and porn has mentally fukked up brehs understanding of having game and building rapport.
A random attractive woman is not going to go out of her way to build your ego and give you the p*ssy.Even if she aproaches you,you will still have to put in work and spit game.
This.
I cant believe people wanna call actually approaching a woman lame
What the hell has this world come to ?
Dudes rather stare at an attractive woman from afar, freeze up, go home & beat their meat..
Word to my dad nowdays people are so fukking lame & anti social its sad
Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
That's how i'd imagine most people have met traditionally so it's a bit wrong to shame brehs who are against it if were honest most women just want to go about their day rather than be bothered
Edit: There seems to be differing views on what cold approaching is, my understanding of it is approaching a women completely at random in a non social spot i.e grocery store, commuting to work e.t.c not at a club or bar.
LiveFromLondon
Superstar
Wouldnt really call a cold approach as i felt she was choosing but here it go:
Yours truly was on his way to the gym
but i felt kinda hungry so i was contemplating whether or not to get summin light to eat to give me energy for my workout. So i decided fukk it, lemme get a snack, so i park up and walk to the supermarket to get summin.
So the suns out and has me thinking I might see a chick i wanna move to
.
Now When Yours truly walks into the store he proceeds to walk around aimlessly acting as if he looking for summin but really I'm
but eventually didnt see any chick that tickled his fancy so he goes to grab some Lucozade and then some Scotch Eggs.
So mind you, Ive been eating these shyts everyday at work so im kinda not really feelin em so when i get to the till i decide fukk it lemme get summin else.
But Now At this point i was outta approach mode but as im walking i see this slim thick white chick who had just come from the gym in the next aisle who i see follow me into the next aisle when i slyly check back.
So me and this chick proceed to mull around lookin at the food like
but you could sense the tension that either one of us gonna have to make the approach. So after like damn near 5min of her orbiting around the nikka she stands right in front of me and i go
Me: You alright
Her: looks at me briefly "I'm Good", Then proceeds to walk away and i stand there with a mix of
totally perplexed thinking she wanted me to make the move but when i do she flakes.
I just ended up keeping the scotch eggs and having to drive home to take a shyt where im typing this shyt. But ima put in work this week though
Yours truly was on his way to the gym
but i felt kinda hungry so i was contemplating whether or not to get summin light to eat to give me energy for my workout. So i decided fukk it, lemme get a snack, so i park up and walk to the supermarket to get summin.So the suns out and has me thinking I might see a chick i wanna move to
.Now When Yours truly walks into the store he proceeds to walk around aimlessly acting as if he looking for summin but really I'm
but eventually didnt see any chick that tickled his fancy so he goes to grab some Lucozade and then some Scotch Eggs.So mind you, Ive been eating these shyts everyday at work so im kinda not really feelin em so when i get to the till i decide fukk it lemme get summin else.
But Now At this point i was outta approach mode but as im walking i see this slim thick white chick who had just come from the gym in the next aisle who i see follow me into the next aisle when i slyly check back.
So me and this chick proceed to mull around lookin at the food like
but you could sense the tension that either one of us gonna have to make the approach. So after like damn near 5min of her orbiting around the nikka she stands right in front of me and i goMe: You alright
Her: looks at me briefly "I'm Good", Then proceeds to walk away and i stand there with a mix of
totally perplexed thinking she wanted me to make the move but when i do she flakes.I just ended up keeping the scotch eggs and having to drive home to take a shyt where im typing this shyt. But ima put in work this week though
Amor fati
Superstar
Yeah that's cold approaching Sherlock, lol.Cold approach is retarded.
Just first get her attention, then she'll signal that you can shoot your shot (or not).
A look and a smile or even just innocent banter will let you know.
Smart people do subtlety.
Amor fati
Superstar
Yep that's why these guys devastated when the bytch leaves them, cause they don't know what to do nex,t either they use online dating apps or just hope he finds a girl through work or again from a mutual friend, but they'll be waiting for a while.
Amor fati
Superstar
This.
I cant believe people wanna call actually approaching a woman lame
What the hell has this world come to ?
Dudes rather stare at an attractive woman from afar, freeze up, go home & beat their meat..
Word to my dad nowdays people are so fukking lame & anti social its sad
Yep there was always them weirdos that struggled to be social, but when social media became sophisticated dudes immersed themselves fully on their digital gadgets regressing losing their social skills and becoming animal-like. I see myself as an introvert but I don't have an issue communicating with others especially with strangers to the point where people ask me if I was friends with the stranger due to the flow of the dialogue. These new digital gadgets did a number on western men big time plus these new age ideologies and philosophies, guys are afraid to fail and get rejected when they can simply wipe the dirt from their clothes and continue doing what they were doing till they succeed. I think more people should drop their phones and join social groups online.
Amor fati
Superstar
That's how i'd imagine most people have met traditionally so it's a bit wrong to shame brehs who are against it if were honest most women just want to go about their day rather than be bothered
Edit: There seems to be differing views on what cold approaching is, my understanding of it is approaching a women completely at random in a non social spot i.e grocery store, commuting to work e.t.c not at a club or bar.
My old man cold approached my mom, back in the days, my old lady tells me all the time that she prefers getting approached rather than her approaching a man or giving signals that she's interested in. Though you can tell if I woman doesn't want to be approached based on body language, or she's in conversation or listening to music on the phone. I wasn't shaming but dude was shaming us for approaching the opposite sex.
Dreamzeedream
Banned
I was like that. B4. You will go on long droughts. Waiting like that
Dreamzeedream
Banned
I think it depends. My lil cousins grew with social media popping. And them lil nikkas always have a girlfriend or 2 so idk
Amor fati
Superstar
I guess it works for some but for the majority, it doesn't work.
Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
This is me.
There was this chick at my job I constantly stared at from afar.
One day she says hi to me and I'm legit mad at her like
"This ain't how this supposed to go
You go over there and I stare at you then go on pornhub tonight and find a woman that looks like you
"My mentality is "you're not gonna give me p*ssy so why are you wasting my time saying hi"
Amor fati
Superstar
This is me.
There was this chick at my job I constantly stared at from afar.
One day she says hi to me and I'm legit mad at her like
"This ain't how this supposed to go
You go over there and I stare at you then go on pornhub tonight and find a woman that looks like you
My mentality is "you're not gonna give me p*ssy so why are you wasting my time saying hi"
Is she your colleague? For the average guy, it's easier to chat to a coworker than approaching a random girl, it shouldn't be a problem if the former(Colleague) is the case.