Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice

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We need to start a real discussion on the matters of approaching how to get women attention etc. me and my homies we talk about it a lot

Let's talk about it fam I usually get attention by starting with either an "Excuse me" or "How you doin?" which then leads to me complimenting(Looks or attire) them or engaging in brief small talk. The things I don't bother doing is pressing them if they show no interest by ignoring/walking away or just being a weird bytch.
 

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Let's talk about it fam I usually get attention by starting with either an "Excuse me" or "How you doin?" which then leads to me complimenting(Looks or attire) them or engaging in brief small talk. The things I don't bother doing is pressing them if they show no interest by ignoring/walking away or just being a weird bytch.
I mean like the overall game, some guys think what works for them works for everyone I’ll be back around 7 my time im bout to clock in
 

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Let's talk about it fam I usually get attention by starting with either an "Excuse me" or "How you doin?" which then leads to me complimenting(Looks or attire) them or engaging in brief small talk. The things I don't bother doing is pressing them if they show no interest by ignoring/walking away or just being a weird bytch.
Some guys just can’t do the cold approach and I understand why, you gotta have something that makes a chick wanna chop it up with you just randomly
 

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Some guys just can’t do the cold approach and I understand why, you gotta have something that makes a chick wanna chop it up with you just randomly
True, if you ain't got something you got to have at least have the gift to gab to compensate. I think it's vital for guys to go out more often to functions or even talking to random strangers on the streets, in my opinion doing the former and the latter will help you hold a conversation with anyone especially with the woman that you are trying to court.
 

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True, if you ain't got something you got to have at least have the gift to gab to compensate. I think it's vital for guys to go out more often to functions or even talking to random strangers on the streets, in my opinion doing the former and the latter will help you hold a conversation with anyone especially with the woman that you are trying to court.
My homie always likes to say he got sauce and all that but I told him if that chick likes you from just a physical perspective it’s up to you not to fukk up all the other shyt is secondary at that point
 

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My homie always likes to say he got sauce and all that but I told him if that chick likes you from just a physical perspective it’s up to you not to fukk up all the other shyt is secondary at that point

You ain't lying him fukking up one time can make a chick not feel him in the space of seconds.
 

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I actually prefer to approach women in person as opposed to online, if you're confident you can't lose gotta treat it like a game basketball if you put 10 shots and hit 5 that's 50% you winning.

It works for me just be confident, give a quick compliment and be funny make her laugh you're in there.
 

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I actually prefer to approach women in person as opposed to online, if you're confident you can't lose gotta treat it like a game basketball if you put 10 shots and hit 5 that's 50% you winning.

It works for me just be confident, give a quick compliment and be funny make her laugh you're in there.
Nah I gotta disagree, confidence only gets you so far, it works for you because they think you look good enough as well. Some guys might come off as goofy or something to them
 

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Nah I gotta disagree, confidence only gets you so far, it works for you because they think you look good enough as well. Some guys might come off as goofy or something to them

The guys that come off goofy or foolish is because they don't know what they are doing even if they are confident.
 
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Man this shyt is so exciting :ahh:

So much fun. I been cold approaching every day this week. They all say they have boyfriends, but I ain't trippin.

You'll eventually catch something, indeed the feeling is good compared to seeing a chick that catches your eye but not doing anything about it, dudes end up having regrets and creating hypothetical scenarios of how the situation would have turned if they approached.
 

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I work in sales

In my experience this is just like it so you gotta memorize a basic script and then just go for the numbers

This works better if you live in a big city tho
 
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