Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice

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Bro can’t be here clowning yourself to females, fukk that shyt.

What do you mean by friend? Why u tryna be her friend?
I wasnt trying to be her friend. That's what she said.

I was being honest with her when I said that about myself. Females in the past would just tell me to my face I was short and ugly. This chick decided to tap dance around it which is why she reacted the way she did when I called her out on it. Cause she put her head down after her eyes lit up like someone who was exposed.
 

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Aight so I haven’t been eating on tinder anymore, so I had to finally delete it and get back to my old ways instead of being lazy. I hit up footlocker after work since I wanted some new runners. Theres a few decent looking ones that work there, but there’s a light skin Puerto Rican that kept looking she type cute with a slight hood Spanish accent( if you know, you know) . I grab a few pair of shoes head to the register me and her start talking, I got her laughing yada yada doing my thing at the end I hit her with the “if I asked for your number would you say no? :usure:

Her: yeah cause I got a man

Me: so what that mean? :pachaha:

Her: cause y’all be texting at the wrong time and she continue talking while trying to catch up to me walking

Me: I look back at her like, We can friends :myman:

Then left the store.

I could’ve got the digits if I pressed the issue, since she was choosing but my 3 rules are to never look thirsty, never ask more than once and always leave em wondering.

Im a flirtatious nikka my nature, Ima start updating this shyt with my fukkery since I’m incredibly direct and give no fukks :ld:
 

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Aight so I haven’t been eating on tinder anymore, so I had to finally delete it and get back to my old ways instead of being lazy. I hit up footlocker after work since I wanted some new runners. Theres a few decent looking ones that work there, but there’s a light skin Puerto Rican that kept looking she type cute with a slight hood Spanish accent( if you know, you know) . I grab a few pair of shoes head to the register me and her start talking, I got her laughing yada yada doing my thing at the end I hit her with the “if I asked for your number would you say no? :usure:

Her: yeah cause I got a man

Me: so what that mean? :pachaha:

Her: cause y’all be texting at the wrong time and she continue talking while trying to catch up to me walking

Me: I look back at her like, We can friends :myman:

Then left the store.

I could’ve got the digits if I pressed the issue, since she was choosing but my 3 rules are to never look thirsty, never ask more than once and always leave em wondering.

Im a flirtatious nikka my nature, Ima start updating this shyt with my fukkery since I’m incredibly direct and give no fukks :ld:
By saying she had a man (whether she did or did not) she was basically telling you no and
yeah she was gonna give you the digits to leave her alone if you pressed the issue...
She was at work and she works at Footlocker them nikkas get paid commission so they act nice as hell
You might be confusing choosing signals with good customer service and her tryna make a sale
 

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Aight so I haven’t been eating on tinder anymore, so I had to finally delete it and get back to my old ways instead of being lazy. I hit up footlocker after work since I wanted some new runners. Theres a few decent looking ones that work there, but there’s a light skin Puerto Rican that kept looking she type cute with a slight hood Spanish accent( if you know, you know) . I grab a few pair of shoes head to the register me and her start talking, I got her laughing yada yada doing my thing at the end I hit her with the “if I asked for your number would you say no? :usure:

Her: yeah cause I got a man

Me: so what that mean? :pachaha:

Her: cause y’all be texting at the wrong time and she continue talking while trying to catch up to me walking

Me: I look back at her like, We can friends :myman:

Then left the store.

I could’ve got the digits if I pressed the issue, since she was choosing but my 3 rules are to never look thirsty, never ask more than once and always leave em wondering.

Im a flirtatious nikka my nature, Ima start updating this shyt with my fukkery since I’m incredibly direct and give no fukks :ld:

Never take any type of attention from females, working in sales, personally. They're like strippers. Giving you attention to make that money.
 

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What's cracking with you these days, you been pulling any skirts lately?

Yeah, same old song & dance when it comes to that. Havent been postin to much on here in general just lurking & a lil post here & there because theres a lot going on in my life right now. Ill try to post more in here again because I generally like writing about this topic tho :ehh:



What about you ?
 

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By saying she had a man (whether she did or did not) she was basically telling you no and
yeah she was gonna give you the digits to leave her alone if you pressed the issue...
She was at work and she works at Footlocker them nikkas get paid commission so they act nice as hell
You might be confusing choosing signals with good customer service and her tryna make a sale

Bruhs need father figures:mjcry:
 

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Yeah, same old song & dance when it comes to that. Havent been postin to much on here in general just lurking & a lil post here & there because theres a lot going on in my life right now. Ill try to post more in here again because I generally like writing about this topic tho :ehh:



What about you ?

To be honest not much been going been working hella, I tried to set a date with this Jamaican chick that I met while she was doing charity work, but she's currently on holiday, I am also speaking with two others trying to set shyt up. LOL Last week I was strolling through this tiny ass mall in this backward ass village town, I saw a chick that struck my attention I approached her and complimented her she got all happy but as soon as I asked for her name the bytch switches up and say's "YOU DON'T HAVE TO KNOW MY NAME" :russ: shyt made me laugh, these weirdo stuck to phone ass Millenials be on some weirdo anti-social shyt unless drunk or in groups.
 
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