Amor fati
Superstar
I'll post mine tomorrow, I'll take on my own challenge lol
Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice
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I'll post mine tomorrow, I'll take on my own challenge lol
1-8-7-Skillz
Superstar
Which one is your challenge ? I assume you are also one of the more advanced people in the game/ also been doing this ?
If so
to a fellow experienced breh
Amor fati
Superstar
Which one is your challenge ? I assume you are also one of the more advanced people in the game/ also been doing this ?
If so
Yeah I'm taking on the latter challenge(Experienced/Pro) as I'm going to another town tomorrow I might as well do my thing while I'm there.
Bigblackted4
Superstar
What do we consider successes because I do this to stay sharp but I’m not following through because I got a girl
Amor fati
Superstar
Date:16/042019
Challenge: Pro/Experience
Challenge Results:0
I headed to a town a few miles away from my town, to do some stuff, with the time left I had decided to do the challenge. I Didn't have success the weather was bad, shyt was grey and windy with small raindrops, also there were too many damn kids, white trash and old women(40)
Date:17/04/2019
Challenge Results: 1 Rejection, : 0
Similar situation as before, I made some time to head to my local town on the prowl, I approached some cute chick wearing a yellow tank top, with a vintage style blue high waist denim jeans revealing her ankles, she seemed to be either some type of mix or south-central Asian. I attempted to engage in convo with her but she acted as if she didn't hear me by pretending to listen to music on her earphones.
I approached some white chick with green eyes sitting at the bus stop, LOL As I'm having dialogue with the girl at the bus stop, she begins to giggle and then she proceeds to ask me of my age, which I then ask her of her age and it turns out the girl is 15
I walked off and told her "You have a good day".
Conclusion: In my situation, I realised that there are certain times to be out to approach and I'm better off going to a population centre(City) as there is more options compared to a small town or village. Lastly I noticed that it feels different when approaching someone randomly compared to intentionally approaching a certain amount of females. LOL this feels like a science test.
My man @1-8-7-Skillz how did it go for you?
Challenge: Pro/Experience
Challenge Results:0
I headed to a town a few miles away from my town, to do some stuff, with the time left I had decided to do the challenge. I Didn't have success the weather was bad, shyt was grey and windy with small raindrops, also there were too many damn kids, white trash and old women(40)
Date:17/04/2019
Challenge Results: 1 Rejection, : 0
Similar situation as before, I made some time to head to my local town on the prowl, I approached some cute chick wearing a yellow tank top, with a vintage style blue high waist denim jeans revealing her ankles, she seemed to be either some type of mix or south-central Asian. I attempted to engage in convo with her but she acted as if she didn't hear me by pretending to listen to music on her earphones.
I approached some white chick with green eyes sitting at the bus stop, LOL As I'm having dialogue with the girl at the bus stop, she begins to giggle and then she proceeds to ask me of my age, which I then ask her of her age and it turns out the girl is 15
I walked off and told her "You have a good day".Conclusion: In my situation, I realised that there are certain times to be out to approach and I'm better off going to a population centre(City) as there is more options compared to a small town or village. Lastly I noticed that it feels different when approaching someone randomly compared to intentionally approaching a certain amount of females. LOL this feels like a science test.
My man @1-8-7-Skillz how did it go for you?
Is this thread even real? 
I am looking through this thread like
Mofos making challenges like get 5 numbers in 30mins?
What kind of shyt is this?
Do you mofos even talk to women in real life? Not with the objective of getting numbers, just regular conversations?
It is not this hard brehs.
I am looking through this thread like
Mofos making challenges like get 5 numbers in 30mins?
What kind of shyt is this?
Do you mofos even talk to women in real life? Not with the objective of getting numbers, just regular conversations?
It is not this hard brehs.
1-8-7-Skillz
Superstar
The whole „get x numbers in x amount of time“ isnt the right way imo. Sometimes you just meet more women you vobe with, sometimes its less. Cant force anything.
@Amor fati
Set up 2 dates on tuesday & 1 wednesday. Did about 7 approaches on tuesday & 5 wednesday. So yeah its also a numbers game. But dont go for „give me your number
„, just set up a date & use the number just for logistics. Just seems so unpersonal & more like you are hunting for trophies & not show genuine interest. (Of course it helps if you ARE actually interested in meeting/getting to know her & dont have to fake it.)
Same thing with dudes using all kinds of pre learned openers & manipulation techniques. Just be authentic & honest, thats how you‘re not only confident, but you also have fun & dont become a bitter/manipulative a$$hole.
Ive seen people start from a place where they didnt have any success with women & a mindset of „ man fukk why they dont want me, these stupid bytches fukking all the time but I cant get none blablabla“. Basically those dudes were bitter af (sometimes from bad experiences in the past, sometimes just a distorted image of reality without any real experience to balance those thoughts out. Those dudes end up trying to put on a facade with learning all kinda of „routines, openers & a whole lexicon of some obscure PUA vocabulary. That way maybe you‘ll have some success with emotionally vulnerable women who will fall for this bullshyt, but in the end those people never make real personal progress because theres no „real“ self confidence. Those people dont really like thenselves & dont operate from a place of inner confidence & happiness. Instead they rely on maintaining a fabricated, fake persona 24/7 which drains one even more emotionally, mentally and makes you even more bitter. If you are doing it right you interact with women without putting on a fake persona, which no confident man needs, being honest about your intentions and see whos along for the ride. The cool thing is that will help you with whatever you are looking for, could be a long term relationship, maybe even „the one“, a fwb situation, or simply one night stands, whatever floats your boat.
@Amor fati
Set up 2 dates on tuesday & 1 wednesday. Did about 7 approaches on tuesday & 5 wednesday. So yeah its also a numbers game. But dont go for „give me your number
„, just set up a date & use the number just for logistics. Just seems so unpersonal & more like you are hunting for trophies & not show genuine interest. (Of course it helps if you ARE actually interested in meeting/getting to know her & dont have to fake it.)
Same thing with dudes using all kinds of pre learned openers & manipulation techniques. Just be authentic & honest, thats how you‘re not only confident, but you also have fun & dont become a bitter/manipulative a$$hole.
Ive seen people start from a place where they didnt have any success with women & a mindset of „ man fukk why they dont want me, these stupid bytches fukking all the time but I cant get none blablabla“. Basically those dudes were bitter af (sometimes from bad experiences in the past, sometimes just a distorted image of reality without any real experience to balance those thoughts out. Those dudes end up trying to put on a facade with learning all kinda of „routines, openers & a whole lexicon of some obscure PUA vocabulary. That way maybe you‘ll have some success with emotionally vulnerable women who will fall for this bullshyt, but in the end those people never make real personal progress because theres no „real“ self confidence. Those people dont really like thenselves & dont operate from a place of inner confidence & happiness. Instead they rely on maintaining a fabricated, fake persona 24/7 which drains one even more emotionally, mentally and makes you even more bitter. If you are doing it right you interact with women without putting on a fake persona, which no confident man needs, being honest about your intentions and see whos along for the ride. The cool thing is that will help you with whatever you are looking for, could be a long term relationship, maybe even „the one“, a fwb situation, or simply one night stands, whatever floats your boat.
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This thread makes me thank god for my height everyday 
1-8-7-Skillz
Superstar
1-8-7-Skillz
Superstar
Gotta bring this up again, seen to many posts & threads that have me like 
Men need to get on this shyt & start becoming self confident again, talking to & attracting women & having confidence shouldnt be such an issue
Men need to get on this shyt & start becoming self confident again, talking to & attracting women & having confidence shouldnt be such an issue
Worthless Loser
Blackpilled
I approached a girl, light skin couldn't tell if she was hispanic or just redbone two weeks ago for the first time in 3 years. She told me some BS story about how she's not adding any male friends cause she works 2 jobs and just want to focus on money. She claimed she only had like 3 total friends. She claimed she tells all men this same thing when they approach her and she wasnt lying.
When I left, I literally told her you could have been honest with me and told me it's because I'm short and ugly. It wouldn't have bothered me. Her eyes lit up in shock like she knew I seen through her bullshyt.
When I left, I literally told her you could have been honest with me and told me it's because I'm short and ugly. It wouldn't have bothered me. Her eyes lit up in shock like she knew I seen through her bullshyt.
Bro can’t be here clowning yourself to females, fukk that shyt.
What do you mean by friend? Why u tryna be her friend?
Cold approach in 2019 brehs
