Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice

[Redguard]

THIS IS WHAT I WANNA HEAR

More people need to get their shyt together and actually become Men again, sometimes I feel like an anomaly in this anti social generation.

I did get rejected a few times but the women weren't rude about it. I have three women so far I'm talking to.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

but the women weren't rude about it.

Im always @ some horror scenarios people are describing which stops them from approaching women. The vast majority of rejections gonna be polite & cool, and not her screaming "EEEEEHHHHHHHH you weirdo, GET AWAY FROM ME!!!!" or her pointing a finger at you, screaming out "THIS LOSER TRIED TO TALK TO ME LMAOOOOOO", all the people around you start laughing too and then out of the shadows her 6 5 football player boyfriend appears to punch you into a coma...

If you arent straight up harassing women out there you are good.

 

[Bumblebreh]

@topic: you also on your cold approach grind breh ?

Before I turned flabby I was the ice man when it came to the approach.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Continuing here tomorrow

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

How y‘all approaches been going brehs ?

 

[Amor fati]

How y‘all approaches been going brehs ?

Done none as of lately been having some tunnel vision in financial life, and shyt. How's your approaches going? I've got an approach challenge idea for us brehs to participate in. Are you game?

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Done none as of lately been having some tunnel vision in financial life, and shyt. How's your approaches going? I've got an approach challenge idea for us brehs to participate in. Are you game?

Im still doing my thing, as always
Whats yo idea ? I already considered just checking in everday of all the approaches you done during the day, but maybe we can get some more specific stuff going ? I think that was also you who said something like that

 

[tuckgod]

I've never really cold approached a woman unless she gave me a subtle hint that she was approachable.

Once I felt shyt was cool, I just acted naturally, smiled, led with humor, wit, or a compliment on something she was wearing (ie. shoes, an accessory, something subtle that a keen eye would notice).

I also practiced a lot on chicks who I really didn't care if I bagged or not in my middle school years, at the advice of the older homies.

But to be all the way real, the two baddest janks I ever bagged, I didn't use none of that, I was just Hella confident and very direct in my approach, and that shyt worked.

I bagged this super fine broad named Denise who was working at this super busy sub shop back in the day.

It was during the afternoon rush, I had just placed my order and was standing in the pick up area full of nikkas staring at her.

I walked up to the counter, told her come here, said "what time you get off?" she smiled kinda confused and was like "7:30..."

I said "I'll be back at 7:40, don't go nowhere", and she smiled even brighter like "OK..."

Didn't ask her name, for her number, nothing. That was literally the entire conversation.

I got my food and walked out and saw a couple nikkas in line like

I felt like a muthafukkin king walkin out that bytch and sure enough, she was sitting in a booth waiting for the kid when I got there at 7:45.

 

[Amor fati]

Im still doing my thing, as always
Whats yo idea ? I already considered just checking in everday of all the approaches you done during the day, but maybe we can get some more specific stuff going ? I think that was also you who said something like that

Yeah that was me I got two challenges I got the Novice/Baby Steps one where the brehs approach maximum 5 chicks, though bearing in mind each poster must successfully get 5 Numbers under 30 Minutes and then there is the Pro/Experienced challenge where each poster must approach 10 chicks within 45 minutes, though they must get 10 numbers to beat the challenge. The challenges can be done any day of the week till next Wednesday(17th Apr 2019) also all posters should take brief notes of how their approach went on the day sharing your exprience by posting them here. Lastly posters can share recjection exprences if they want to.

Skillz Add some ideas if you want to.


You guys up for a challenge?
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[Ezekiel 25:17]

As a guy with no social and not working with people my age, I want to start cold approaching.

Op I haven't really read your thread too much. What's the best way to start? I understand looking clean.

 

[GreenGhxst]

You have to kind of look at it as a game of numbers, don't get so caught up on the individual person

In order to do that, you kind of have to dumb down what it is, you out here throwing darts trying to hit the bullseye

If you haven't approached in a while it will be hard those first few times, but once you gain momentum, you can't stop it

gotta keep approaching, just my two cents

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

You have to kind of look at it as a game of numbers, don't get so caught up on the individual person

In order to do that, you kind of have to dumb down what it is, you out here throwing darts trying to hit the bullseye

If you haven't approached in a while it will be hard those first few times, but once you gain momentum, you can't stop it

gotta keep approaching, just my two cents

Good looking. I need to find see spots.

My mouth piece fell off after college

 

[Youseenmywork]

Props to OP good thread. It helps to get nikkas on the same wave if more did this we wouldn’t have to worry too much about the hating bytch ass nikkas. Got help each other out and respectfully correct each with engaging dialogue and or constructive criticism.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

what u know about brehs in relationships still approaching women? I believe every man should still approach chics, even if you don't have the intention to cheat or anything. Just keep your mouthpiece sharp.

if you stop approaching and get in a relationship for several years and things go bad and u find yourself single again, sometimes it will mess you up and you'll find that you lost your nerve to approach

happened to one of my brehs... it was a sad sight watching this man try to regain his mojo after having been married for several years.... my dude legit forgot how to talk to chics

I'm one of those guys to not flirt in relationships, not even give them a thought, but after reading this.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]