Coli Brehette says “Marry The Nerd”

[Rekkapryde]

whoever her man is needs to eject immediately.

let clout chasing ruin your relationship brehettes.

 

[null]

Wrong idea. Nerds are no different than the rest of dating world. They have the same amount of baggage and justify why they date non-black people due to unresolved trauma from high school.

the world thanks you for resolving that

 

[CopiousX]

Right idea, wrong delivery.

When you highlight the qualities of a "nerd" in terms of what he does for you and how he serves you.......it makes men recoil because you're basically saying "I want this geek because he will do everything for me."

You're not saying that you want him because he just inherently makes your toes curl.

It's smart for women to seek out higher quality, intelligent men....but the man has to feel like he's getting something out of the deal. An educated nerd with his shyt together is a High Value Man and he WILL look to upgrade if you're not holding up your end of the bargain.

Not this particular dude. It's too late . She has him by the balls as a doctor with both child support and alimony if he starts looking for an escape hatch. This is her victory lap


That freedom to upgrade is only something the valuable guy has before the kid and the marriage. After that he's just another bonded prisoner in the probate court assembly line


In fact, him revolting would be a golden parachute for her life so that she can go back to chasing dudes with dusty socks and slides.

 

[Chrishaune]

Mannnnnnnnnnn

 

[Geordi]

I blew yo bytch back out and she still talking about me on the innanets

 

[ThatTruth777]

These broads can't help themselves they have to emasculate black men like its some feminist tradition.

 

[BangBike]

Not a dime.. That was his first mistake..

 

[Mugenight]

It's simple really...don't give monogamy to a whore like this everything else will work itself out.

 

[desjardins]

She mid with a pushed back hairline
So fukk the bums and marry the nerd when the bums inevitably toss you into the bushes?
This is basically the equivalent of when men say "don't make a ho into a housewife", thing is men don't characterize the women they do settle down with in a negative light. How about "marry a REAL man" or something along those lines

 

[FTBS]

Right idea, wrong delivery.

When you highlight the qualities of a "nerd" in terms of what he does for you and how he serves you.......it makes men recoil because you're basically saying "I want this geek because he will do everything for me."

You're not saying that you want him because he just inherently makes your toes curl.

It's smart for women to seek out higher quality, intelligent men....but the man has to feel like he's getting something out of the deal. An educated nerd with his shyt together is a High Value Man and he WILL look to upgrade if you're not holding up your end of the bargain.

This applies to very few men though. Most women are with a dude because of what he does for them and/or has. Thats the basis of this HVM stuff...the man got money, resources, connections, status etc and the women want to reap the benefits of those things.

 

[Mordith]

All OP posts on here is bird babble like this. Time to add him to the list....

 

[#1 pick]

society is not longer dictated by brawn, you must have some brain power

They still ain't happy no matter what

 

[#1 pick]

She’s admitting she married that man for money, but yall ignore that. You also don’t know if this is a conventionally attractive man, who happens to be a nerd. This is why yall don’t understand Russell, and Ciara. He’s a conventionally attractive man who happens to be a millionaire quarterback. But y’all act like him not being a thug was going to prevent him from getting an attractive black woman. He could have chosen a black woman with no children, and who didn’t date a rapper. But he liked who he liked, and he got her.

All nerds don’t turn into 6 figure brehs. And this woman is average, light skinned, and probably settled for an average looking man with money. Your fantasy of the model type woman settling with the nerdy, average looking bus driver isn’t happening in large numbers.

Instagram and TikTok is the death of all women

 

[desjardins]

This is pretty much implicit in all these types of discussions
Why else would they ever been dealing with or currently thinking about these dudes. They literally letting the audience know these dudes didn't bring shyt to the table. It ain't hard to figure out what the connection was about. That's why it's so disrespectful to even have the shyt on her mind. She miss the thug sex and the comfortable life is means of cope

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

She should've kept this to herself. But she unknowingly put Brehs on game.