Coli Brehette says “Marry The Nerd”

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nerds need to only marry nerds. leave these toxic women alone


these women dont realize nerds have standards too, and probably way more discernment than the "dirty sock" dudes
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They try to act like they’re the best these “nerds” can do..

Then be bitter af if he dates outside of his race.

Just have/show some fukking humility and appreciation/gratitude.

She basically sounds like she’s telling the world “he wasn’t my type, I was a bird doing bird shyt before I settled with my nikka nerd”.
 

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This lady is ok looking, but not attractive enough to be talking greasy like that. For a woman talking like her, she gotta be a dime. I doubt she's THAT much better looking than him.

He aimed too low and got an average-looking chick that got run through by handsome gang and thinks she did him a favor.

He needs a sidepiece
There is no looks threshold on being a part of humiliation ritual culture.. This is just her joining in while also having deniability..

Who needs podcasters when you got women like her confirming the red/black pills. Dont know whats worse that her nerd is in this situation or she truly thought there was nothing wrong with this.
Been saying with IG/Tiktok, they tell on themselves and reveal the plays :mjlol:Basically letting the gworls know she had her cake and ate it too

She's delusional. She looks just like him
Thats not the point, his looks is not what she tryna "flex".. Its the behavior and strategy she basically tryna say I ran the play and if you smart you can be like me..
 
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Basically

They try to act like they’re the best these “nerds” can do..

Then be bitter af if he dates outside of his race.

Just have/show some fukking humility and appreciation/gratitude.

She basically sounds like she’s telling the world “he wasn’t my type, I was a bird doing bird shyt before I settled with my nikka nerd”.

You won.

Just celebrate your win in peace and move on.

You basically want to show that “you’re running shyt” to the sisterhood & you aren’t held down by the “patriarchy”


:lolbron:
 

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Right idea, wrong delivery.

When you highlight the qualities of a "nerd" in terms of what he does for you and how he serves you.......it makes men recoil because you're basically saying "I want this geek because he will do everything for me."

You're not saying that you want him because he just inherently makes your toes curl.

It's smart for women to seek out higher quality, intelligent men....but the man has to feel like he's getting something out of the deal. An educated nerd with his shyt together is a High Value Man and he WILL look to upgrade if you're not holding up your end of the bargain.
She doesn't like him just what he does. The guys she truly wanted were in her 20s. If they liked her she wouldn't be sitting there
 

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She’s admitting she married that man for money, but yall ignore that. You also don’t know if this is a conventionally attractive man, who happens to be a nerd. This is why yall don’t understand Russell, and Ciara. He’s a conventionally attractive man who happens to be a millionaire quarterback. But y’all act like him not being a thug was going to prevent him from getting an attractive black woman. He could have chosen a black woman with no children, and who didn’t date a rapper. But he liked who he liked, and he got her.

All nerds don’t turn into 6 figure brehs. And this woman is average, light skinned, and probably settled for an average looking man with money. Your fantasy of the model type woman settling with the nerdy, average looking bus driver isn’t happening in large numbers.
I seen her guy in another thread about this. He looks like a fat average man. She was out of options with the guys smashing and dashing. She wanted comfort after hoing. She'd never date this guy in her prime. She'll divorce him after he catches her with her type in the next few years
 

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You won.

Just celebrate your win in peace and move on.

You basically want to show that “you’re running shyt” to the sisterhood & you aren’t held down by the “patriarchy”


:lolbron:
word as a said the other part that she doesn´t want to mention is her on her hands and knees cleaning and having his meal ready and some top right after he watches the game.

Tell it all or tell none of it. Everything has an upside and a downside.
 

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She’s admitting she married that man for money, but yall ignore that. You also don’t know if this is a conventionally attractive man, who happens to be a nerd. This is why yall don’t understand Russell, and Ciara. He’s a conventionally attractive man who happens to be a millionaire quarterback. But y’all act like him not being a thug was going to prevent him from getting an attractive black woman. He could have chosen a black woman with no children, and who didn’t date a rapper. But he liked who he liked, and he got her.

All nerds don’t turn into 6 figure brehs. And this woman is average, light skinned, and probably settled for an average looking man with money. Your fantasy of the model type woman settling with the nerdy, average looking bus driver isn’t happening in large numbers.

Basically. She sounds like she’s trying to justify being with the nerd. I get all this and all that, and I just gotta sleep with him sometimes :mjlol: Nothing about that sounds flattering from the nerd’s perspective. Doesn’t sound like you love and desire him. It’s funny how men and women can say the same thing but come across different. When men say we dated the floozy in high school but married the good girl, you know 1000% that we don’t secretly want the thot anymore. Nobody would ever want to be caught dead with that kinda woman at 30 but the way they talk about the Adidas Slides & Dirty Socks guy, it’s obvious that’s who she still wants sexually.
 
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