Coli Brehs who are in their 40's, how is it?

[MasterOfAllHeSurveyz]

I have less patience for bullshyt.
The people I call friend now for a fact are REAL friends.
I'm in better physical shape now than when I was younger but I do have to work harder. To maintain a pace I used to run for 8 miles at 30, without maximum effort, I have to add two extra miles of running to keep the 8 mile time.
In my mind, my mental image of myself is my 20s. The mirror gives you a honest reminder.

 

[HarlemHottie]

I'll be 41 in may. I live a profligate lifestyle, drinking and smoking and shyt, but I still look and feel good.

My advice: keep what you doing, just do it slightly slower.

 

[Man On Fire]

 

[Atlanta 80s baby]

Body starts feeling like pure shyt. Met a 50 year old cat hooping so that gives me hope it don't stop at 40, but it's beginning of the end for sure

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

bit extreme, just cut some meals in half and drink more water

Nah, if I fast 2 days I can eat ribs or steak at the end of the week if i want. Both those are easily 1200 calories

 

[King Poetic]

I’m 40

1. I never smoke or drink… which is a blessing because I loss 3 friends do to smoking and drinking which cause health problems for them

2. only debt I have is finishing up on my student loan.. I have 2 cars both paid off and I’m done with buying anymore

3. I have no kids, which I’m happy about.. even though some years ago I thought I might want to have a child, but the cost of having and raising a child was something I didn’t want to do.. I have nieces so that makes up for it

4. when comes to dating, somewhat difficult… I get approached by women but my luck have been with single moms, who I tell u will buy u anything, fukk u anyway u like it, just so u can be their man

5. women 35-40 with no kids, be too busy trying to have their own roster of men and want to put u on hold just in case another nikka who might have a couple hundred dollars more than u, to run to

all I have to say is when u get older is eliminate stress and anxiety and stay away from alcohol and smoking especially for a black man

 

[OfTheCross]

Starting to lose my hair. Starting to get grays. Wish my knees allowed me to play basketball but otherwise I’m fine.

What's wrong with your knees? Are you carrying too much weight?

 

[leoc]

turning 30 in two months

gonna miss being in my 20s

 

[Why-Fi]

im turning it in a few months so ill join in

its the most different ive felt since my early 20s. feel more patient, more at ease with things. at 30 you still want to keep up with the youth, and balance that with true adulthood. now? im good, going to do things how i want and let the youth have their own thing. its their time now

same. the days of trial and error wind down, settle on a nice feature set - certain brands, certain foods, certain places, doing certain things on certain days with certain people....

 

[IslandG]

What's wrong with your knees? Are you carrying too much weight?

Nah. ACL and meniscus tear that I did physio for but never surgically repaired.

 

[OfTheCross]

Nah. ACL and meniscus tear that I did physio for but never surgically repaired.

 

[Afrodroid]

They probably surprised they still up and breathing

Many won't reach that age



I feel blessed

 

[Software]

Starting to think that a lot of yall believe human life expectancy ends at 39.....

I think a lot of dudes think 30s is their prime just like women think 20s is their prime
So when they start approaching past that age range it brings anxiety

 

[ORDER_66]

Definitely more aches and pains when you wake up, but also you don't have that energy you used to have,..

 

[Software]

Definitely more aches and pains when you wake up, but also you don't have that energy you used to have,..

I hear older people learn to focus the energy they do have more. So it goes farther. Imagine that type of focus when you were young

I always think how crazy things could have been if I could restart my life at like age 5 or 6 with the knowledge i have now
Not that I'm not grateful for the life I have lived already but
That shyt would be entertaining as fukk.