Coli How do you feel about this (especially Coli Parents)

[cleanface coney]

I had an openly gay(dike) teacher, that dressed as a dude.

It didn't make me a lesbian


If anything I would like to teach my son about equality. People have the right to be who they want to be.

And if they're transgender, why WOULDNT they dress for that gender?

im sorry but you trippin ma

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I dont know if this is part of the protection being given by the school board, but I know in some places transgenders are allowed to use the bathroom/locker rooms of the sex they identify with

now I wouldn't be cool with this. If they are gonna let the he/she's work there, they should have a bathroom for them, or they should have to use the bathroom of their original sex. Same goes for sports. My daughter shouldnt have to compete with a big burly dude/chick for a spot on the vollybal team. For things like that the genders should be kept separate.

 

[DrunkenNovice]

And if they're transgender, why WOULDNT they dress for that gender?

Pre-op.

I'm referring to those "im a man trapped in a womans body types" who dont want to/havent got an operation.

Ya'll are acting like teachers will be dressing up like Dennis Rodman for fun. It would still need to be professional and appropriate. Universities already support it, I had female coaches/teachers in middle school who had bald fades and dressed like a man. It was no big deal.

You don't think that transgendered folks would feel awkward going into a single gender bathroom and getting stares either? I doubt many closeted transgendered people would have the guts to do this anyway, despite the changes.

true.

 

[HoustonHeat]

Ya'll are acting like teachers will be dressing up like Dennis Rodman for fun. It would still need to be professional and appropriate. Universities already support it, I had female coaches/teachers in middle school who had bald fades and dressed like a man. It was no big deal.

You don't think that transgendered folks would feel awkward going into a single gender bathroom and getting stares either? I doubt many closeted transgendered people would have the guts to do this anyway, despite the changes.

If they outlaw prayer in school they shouldn't have this in the schools something is wrong with this picture

I don't see what religion has to do with this, they are unrelated to me.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

im sorry but you trippin ma

In no way am I trying to compare gay rights to civil rights.

But my son will be openly judged and looked down upon his whole life, just for being black.

So who would I be to look down on someone else

 

[cleanface coney]

In no way am I trying to compare gay rights to civil rights.

But my son will be openly judged and looked down upon his whole life, just for being black.

So who would I be to look down on someone else

naw i aint saying that i most def feel you on that
im just sayin its hard enough for kids to go to school
and see somebody that actually care about them and look like them
understand what they going through

its prolly always been gays teaching in school but when shyt like this get publicized and brought attention to

they gone feel more comfortable about expressing they beliefs on your child

i rather they keep that shyt to theyself

and as far as dressing
thats completely a fetish imo

keep that crossdressing shyt at home

 

[posterchild336]

Ya'll are acting like teachers will be dressing up like Dennis Rodman for fun. It would still need to be professional and appropriate. Universities already support it, I had female coaches/teachers in middle school who had bald fades and dressed like a man. It was no big deal.

You don't think that transgendered folks would feel awkward going into a single gender bathroom and getting stares either? I doubt many closeted transgendered people would have the guts to do this anyway, despite the changes.



I don't see what religion has to do with this, they are unrelated to me.

I am not comparing religion I am speaking of morals.. What kind of message are we sending kids.. Especially at a very important stage in their developmental processes

 

[KingDanz]

so your male teacher could possibly wear a dress and heels..

i'd let the teacher sag his pants and wear a hoodie before that sh1t.

 

[HoustonHeat]

I am not comparing religion I am speaking of morals.. What kind of message are we sending kids.. Especially at a very important stage in their developmental processes

I don't get how it is immoral.

 

[Mountain]

You throwin me off @MeachTheMonster; not to long ago you where talking about men dont do this men dont do that, men are leaders, women are meant to follow, basically promoting gender roles (Which i agree with by the way), but now gender roles are actually being blurred in pre schools, you're ok with it.

 

[concise]

Are they going to keep their sexual preferences to themselves like they're supposed to keep their religious preferences to themselves?

I need to know that before I can say anything.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

You throwin me off @MeachTheMonster; not to long ago you where talking about men dont do this men dont do that, men are leaders, women are meant to follow, basically promoting gender roles (Which i agree with by the way), but now gender roles are actually being blurred in pre schools, you're ok with it.

I didn't say I condone it or agree with the lifestyle. I simply said that I'd rather teach my kids how to deal with it as opposed to fighting and/or running away from it. Outside of my home gender rolls are already being challenged, there is nothing I can do to change it or stop it. I could pull my kids out of one school district cause of transgendered teachers, only to send them to college where they will almost certainly have to deal with those types of people. My little man is going to be a man, those weirdos will not be his concern, as they shouldnt .Same as I gotta teach him how to deal with gangs, women or anything else.

 

[Binary]

It's not about turning people "gay" for me like I said I respect their right to live their lives.

I dont know if this is part of the protection being given by the school board, but I know in some places transgenders are allowed to use the bathroom/locker rooms of the sex they identify with.

A dude wearing a dress to go teach k-8...yall dont have a problem with this.

Lmao no because school is a place to learn. How he dresses doesnt affect his degree or qualifications.

Im pretty liberal so it has a lot to do with my opinion.

 

[Mountain]

I didn't say I condone it or agree with the lifestyle. I simply said that I'd rather teach my kids how to deal with it as opposed to fighting and/or running away from it. Outside of my home gender rolls are already being challenged, there is nothing I can do to change it or stop it. I could pull my kids out of one school district cause of transgendered teachers, only to send them to college where they will almost certainly have to deal with those types of people. My little man is going to be a man, those weirdos will not be his concern, as they shouldnt .Same as I gotta teach him how to deal with gangs, women or anything else.

I don't any problem with it. Kids see weirdos everyday, it's up to the parents to offer the proper guidance on how to deal with these people.

I said you said you're ok with it, and you did, im just wondering how you could be ok with your children in the presence of somthing you think is weird especially if its in the form of an influential figure.

True most kids will eventually run into weirdo sht, but shouldnt your job as a parent be to reduce the chance of that happening? Thats like a teacher wanting to take your boys class to a transgender pride parade for a scool trip and you saying "well hes gonna eventually see weird sht anyway, so he may as well go", see what im saying?

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I said you said you're ok with it, and you did, im just wondering how you could be ok with your children in the presence of somthing you think is weird especially if its in the form of an influential figure.

Because I've already given them sufficient guidance, and I've fostered an open and honest relationship between them and myself. I don't feel threatened by weirdos or their potential influence on my kids because I've given them the tools they need to deal with the weirdos. Kids look for answers and guidance, if the parents don't offer it, they get it from somewhere else.

True most kids will eventually run into weirdo sht, but shouldnt your job as a parent be to reduce the chance of that happening? Thats like a teacher wanting to take your boys class to a transgender pride parade for a scool trip and you saying "well hes gonna eventually see weird sht anyway, so he may as well go", see what im saying?

No my job as a parent is to teach them how to navigate the world around them. Parents fall victim of tying to protect their kids too much. That's why preachers daughters are freaks, because their dad keeps them away from any type of sexual images or conversations, so they don't know how to deal with their own sexuality and sexual urges. The parents didn't guide her on how to deal with sex so she lets some little knucklhead nikka guide her.

@ the bolded no it's not like that at all. Saying a teacher will be transgendered is not the same as saying a teacher will push the lifestyle on my kids. I wouldn't let a teacher take my kid to a hetero pride parade either, both are equally inappropriate, and not good subject mater for teachers to discuss with kids.

That's what I mean by giving them guidance. My kids would make their own decision that it would be a bad idea to accompany the teacher to the parade, or at least they would be confortable enough to talk to me about it. On the other hand if we just ran away from transgendered people every time we saw them my kid might be inclined to go check it out without talking to me about it

I don't shelter my kids one bit. I let them see the world for what it is. It's a fukked up place and the sooner they realize that the better.