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I would encourage him to pursue the young lady, just because I'm not attracted to him, doesn't mean that someone else can't be.
 

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Friendship is like getting a blue ribbon. It ain't the first place trophy. "No guts, no glory" takes on another meaning.

If you didn't want her as a friend when you first approached, 9/10 you lost. The only good female friends I ever had I met by chance and we clicked. The girls I tried to pursue and took the consolation prize...was never worth it. Thread coming soon:mjcry:
 

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I think nikkas take the friendzone treatment too hard. Ok so she wouldn't let you hit. That don't mean ya'll can't still be friends unless she played you. You never know what might happen in the future. Plus if you just up and leave after that, she'll just see you as every other dude that came her way. Women look for something different. Not the same lame ass dude that tried to hit, got mad and moved on because he didn't. You can still be her friend and try to take down other females at the same time.
 

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There was a guy I thoroughly friend-zoned and I know I would never ever consider him and then one day he says how there's these fly girls he's checking out, I couldn't help the :ohhh: what a disloyal prick feeling in my gut :wow:


But, still I would give honest advice and be very nice and gas him up. But still it would just be another strike, like you see makes sense you didn't even want this guy, he chances anything. Illogical but I can't help it :steviej:

I appreciate your honesty

"breaking kayfabe" - @Art Barr
 

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I think nikkas take the friendzone treatment too hard. Ok so she wouldn't let you hit. That don't mean ya'll can't still be friends unless she played you. You never know what might happen in the future. Plus if you just up and leave after that, she'll just see you as every other dude that came her way. Women look for something different. Not the same lame ass dude that tried to hit, got mad and moved on because he didn't. You can still be her friend and try to take down other females at the same time.
It ain't as simple as not hitting. There were few situations where there wasn't a comparable or better girl willing to throw me some. When I wanted a girls heart, her saying no was like losing a piece of myself. Guys don't get hit in the heart as hard, but our ego?!??!? That gets hit hard."I don't want to be romantic, but I will let you hear about the guys I do get romantic with, and when they do things I don't like. You are the opposite in a lot of ways, so you would be the perfect girlfriend to talk to!!!:queen:"





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It ain't as simple as not hitting. There were few situations where there wasn't a comparable or better girl willing to throw me some. When I wanted a girls heart, her saying no was like losing a piece of myself. Guys don't get hit in the heart as hard, but our ego?!??!? That gets hit hard."I don't want to be romantic, but I will let you hear about the guys I do get romantic with, and when they do things I don't like. You are the opposite in a lot of ways, so you would be the perfect girlfriend to talk to!!!:queen:"





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That's different and understandable.
 

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That's different and understandable.
It is what it is, especially when you are a man who doesn't pursue anything with a skirt.hose guys who say anything and do anything to get ass go through mounds of girls, sometimes(often) the good girl you wanted. I can't believe how many girls I hung with back in the day where the first signs of foolishness wasn't enough for her to back off dude. It wouldn't feel so bad if girls didn't hang around guys after they proved to be pieces of shyt.


However, there are also mr. Nice guys out there who get mad at every woman for having a man, yet can't find the character within himself to improve himself and quit bytching. Mr " I want p*ssy but these women are all bytches who choose a$$holes." There are fewer of those guys overall, but the irritation they inflict with their fukkery gives a bad name to anyone who held out too much hope for a particular girl.
 

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But...if the guy gives up on chasing the "fly" girl(s) he told you about and then keeps simping then you do kinda feel bad for him/lose respect for him so next time there are girls you genuinely want him to just get to it and stop making you uncomfortable and delivering L's to himself.

It's one of those things I think most girls admire in men; going after what you want and not letting stuff get in your way :banderas:

But some just do not understand that where there is no flame you cannot build a fire, if she's not attracted, simping is the last thing you should be doing. Unless she's never in her life gotten that kind of attention (unlikely) your attractiveness will only decline further
 

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But...if the guy gives up on chasing the "fly" girl(s) he told you about and then keeps simping then you do kinda feel bad for him/lose respect for him so next time there are girls you genuinely want him to just get to it and stop making you uncomfortable and delivering L's to himself.

It's one of those things I think most girls admire in men; going after what you want and not letting stuff get in your way :banderas:

But some just do not understand that where there is no flame you cannot build a fire, if she's not attracted, simping is the last thing you should be doing. Unless she's never in her life gotten that kind of attention (unlikely) your attractiveness will only decline further


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female friends?
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I don't see what's wrong with it. I've had this before. I'm not saying dudes should keep texting girls after they get friendzoned but if the girl decides to keep texting you for friendly conversation, I don't see why dudes can't engage.
 

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But some just do not understand that where there is no flame you cannot build a fire, if she's not attracted, simping is the last thing you should be doing. Unless she's never in her life gotten that kind of attention (unlikely) your attractiveness will only decline further
Quoted & bolded for all the brehs. Women don't respect simps. Don't be one :ufdup:
 
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