Coli, was I being a bytch to my date? Story/texts inside..

[Family Man]

So I went out Sat evening to dinner. Mind you, the guy asked me out, the first time we met we went to Starbucks and chatted. It was whatever, I decided it'd be okay if he took me out for a formal date. So here's strike .5 (See text messages):




So I passed, and then he hits me up again this Saturday to go out TO DINNER. He picked Chili's in *** at 7, so I'm like okay cool, I'm confirming with him to make sure that still works as I was less than 10 mins away by car.

I get to Chili's at 7:02, he's nowhere in sight - I text him I'm here and then call as it was crowded so I wanted to know where he was (figured he was already there). He calls me back and says he was there earlier but ran an errand and would be back in 15 mins. I order a drink and wait at a table, he strolls in at 7:30.

I told him he should've just said something instead of me having to contact him for his whereabouts for a time HE picked.

Anyway, we order, and I'm noticing that he makes shyt eye contact, literally looking everywhere as he talks like a child.

Finally after finishing our food I pull out my wallet and ask "So how do you want to do this? Are we splitting it?"

He pretty much didn't say anything. Bear in mind my salad was 11.99 and my drink was $9.

So I paid my part and he gets up to walk me to my car, tried to put his hand around my waist and I smacked it away like

Then I told him in the parking lot that he could get a handshake instead of a hug and that wasn't a date because I paid my own way, he starts juelzing about how he was gonna pay but he's had experiences before where a woman was just using him for food blahblahblah I didn't gaf so I told him nah it wan't a date.

He wants another chance. Should I let him make it up or am I being a bytch for deading him?

That nikka broke and a bum. Don't waste your time with him. You weren't being a bytch either. That nikka on some bullshyt inviting you to go out to eat but then saying he's on a diet. That nikka prolly got one foot and nine toes into that MGTOW bullshyt too.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Is that the same dude who put his thumb in your ass?

 

[Yinny]

This bytch trying to eat free all week

Gobble gobble but that wasn’t even funny

And shes overweight trying to play fat nikkas who are at her level. Man these bytches delusional

Damn you need to step your joke/clowning game up son.

 

[Cynic]

I'm in my early 30s and he's a supervisor of security sites and is a personal trainer, offered for us to "work out" together. The thing is I def don't find him attractive but I assumed maybe he just looked rough the first time we met. He actually looks slow and dresses very poorly, so I'm pretty sure I have my answer as far as whether I can see myself with him (issa no.) But it was just a weird experience and I wanted too know if I was just tripping or is something off about him like I thought?

Tick tock:hitunes:

 

[number21]

I was reading that thinking you was gonna walk out on the bill, leaving it with her or have her pay for her food.. but nope, you dropped 200 dollars on a dinner for a bird just so she could “break bread” wit you. you played yourself bruh.

Dude really thought he was nice for throwing away money.

 

[Phantum]

OP have you ever planned a date?

 

[Phantum]

Dude really thought he was nice for throwing away money.

He was trying to find the positive in a negative situation which isn't bad. But with that said, I would have kept that story to myself lol

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I'm in my early 30s and he's a supervisor of security sites and is a personal trainer, offered for us to "work out" together. The thing is I def don't find him attractive but I assumed maybe he just looked rough the first time we met. He actually looks slow and dresses very poorly, so I'm pretty sure I have my answer as far as whether I can see myself with him (issa no.) But it was just a weird experience and I wanted too know if I was just tripping or is something off about him like I thought?

So you went on a "supposed to be" date with a dude you weren't attracted to and pressed the issue about dinner. Sounds like you was tryna get a free dinner date.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Sounds like your trifling ass was trying to finesse a free meal. Turned down the wallk and talk, but accept that EBT date from a man you don't find attracitve who dresses very poorly? And, it's not a date if he don't pay huh?

If I was him I'd take you to a vending machine and give you a Piggly Wiggly coupon since you're looking for groceries

Breh shoulda charged her when she didnt wanna go to the waterfront but dinner.
Breh needs to come and let thecoli bless him with game

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I actually do sweetheart but thanks for your concern! I have several dates lined up this week. Lmao at @Nicole0416 jealous ass in my thread go raise your seeds bytch.

I was wondering if I was being too harsh to the breh, I don’t feel guilty about brushing him.

These "dates" you have lined up; unless dudes already told you that they was gon pay, you possibly have no dates.

 

[dontreadthis]

These "dates" you have lined up; unless dudes already told you that they was gon pay, you possibly have no dates.

right since apparently the determination is made after the fact lol

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

right since apparently the determination is made after the fact lol

Even if dude did pay, it woulda been considered a date but she still doesn't even like him anyway. Breh pretty much dodged a bullet.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I don't know why dudes be acting like paying a woman's bill is some simp shyt. You don't have to take her anywhere expensive. Applebee's is about as cheap as you can get. If all it takes $20 to get rid of a broad I say good riddance.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

I can tell you wasn’t feeling breh from the texts too bad he couldn’t see it either..your vibes at dinner probably the reason he didn’t keep eye contact and didn’t want to pay..you probably thought you were hiding your disgust but he most likely Picked up on it..he will keep trying tho because we like new p*ssy you should just shut it down

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I actually do sweetheart but thanks for your concern! I have several dates lined up this week. Lmao at @Nicole0416 jealous ass in my thread go raise your seeds bytch.

I was wondering if I was being too harsh to the breh, I don’t feel guilty about brushing him.

If ole dude #uglygang, slow, and dusty he's not worth your time. A real man takes care of his appearance