Coli, was I being a bytch to my date? Story/texts inside..

[Yinny]

Like someone said early on in this thread about water finding it's level. The OP obviously is no dime piece.

Lmao at me being slow now, I’m actually very pretty, many posters have met me irl and can attest to that.

 

[Yinny]

This sounds like it’s @willstyles @bmooregorrilaxxx_23

It’s not him, and he posted in this thread already.

 

[Mike Nasty]

Lmao at me being slow now, I’m actually very pretty, many posters have met me irl and can attest to that.

I didn't say you were slow, he asked why would you even entertain a slow nikka in the first place, which is kinda self answering

 

[old_timer]

if a woman agrees to meet me in person a second time..
I would 100% assume my visible physical appearance (face, height, weight, teeth, lol, whatever) was suitably attractive to her

That doesn't mean sex will happen.. Doesn't mean other incompatibilities won't surface..
Doesn't mean someone more desirable might sweep her away
No promises of anything or any timeline
But I would 100% assume I am above the threshold to be attractive/physically desirable

To learn otherwise, I would feel mild to moderate resentment

This is a note not just for o.p. but for all women
I am a happily married man and 90%-95% of my dealings with women have been at least "good"
So I am not part of the resident "women haters brigade'

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Lmao at me being slow now, I’m actually very pretty, many posters have met me irl and can attest to that.

 

[Balla]

Give him another chance if YOU feel like it, but if it was me I would ghost his ass. Hell, in fact I would have hung the phone up in his face when he mentioned Chili's. I am sorry but Chilis is a no go for me. Don't feel bad for sticking to your standards when it comes to dating

What restaurants/places do you like to go for a first date?

 

[sanityovar8ted]

Here i go.
Hit my PMs

Naw u hit mines lol..ion do no chasing lol

 

[Honey Bee]

What restaurants/places do you like to go for a first date?

Not Chili's that's for damn sure. I wouldn't even take my own self to Chili's.

Maybe a nice local restaurant and then a movie would be fine for a 1st date

 

[Balla]

Not Chili's that's for damn sure. I wouldn't even take my own self to Chili's.

Maybe a nice local restaurant and then a movie would be fine for a 1st date

Does it matter if it’s expensive or not? Or it’s cool as long as it’s not chili’s?

 

[pickles]

Did you want a free meal?

What was the point of going out with him? You think he is slow and not that attractive.

Apparently he isn't that slow to peep what your are doing?

 

[Yinny]

OP have you ever planned a date?

Yes, and the ones where I pick the place or agenda usually turn out nice. I’ve done free Gil Scott Heron concert, dinner, cooked, indoor rock climbing, bowling, archery, a shooting range a number of options- I’m actually a fun date.

 

[Yinny]

Did you want a free meal?

What was the point of going out with him? You think he is slow and not that attractive.

Apparently he isn't that slow to peep what your are doing?

How does a man inviting me out TO EAT TWICE turn me into looking for a free meal?

And I’m not gonna say it again, the first time we met was diff he looked rough but I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Now on the “date” is when all these things really shone through.

 

[GhettoTeK]

Hm. Well no, don’t waste your time hun. If he wanted to make effort he would’ve, all the signs are there boo.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Preach that shyt! I went out with a 'meal grabber' a few years ago. She showed up looking like a 5 and was a 9 from her pics. I'm in a suit cause I said i'm hitting up some grown folk spots later. She picked the dinner place. Very expensive. Think I spent almost $200 that night. What she didn't know was I had been there previously years ago. So i'm like hell yeah, lets eat. Fams, this had to be the most shallow mf I ever met. As she ordered I was smiling lol, hell I even ordered some food to go too. Afterwards she was like oh thx for the meal, you're very nice.

LMAO I was like hey, anytime you want to go out let me know. LOL She called me and texted my ass for 2 months trying to get another dinner like that but I was like bottom line, IDGAF about spending money on no food but be real about what you want. Hell, I just may want some company that day and yo ugly ass got lucky to sit and break bread. With me

You fukked up even lettin her choose where you gotta spend yo money at.

 

[GhettoTeK]

How does a man inviting me out TO EAT TWICE turn me into looking for a free meal?

And I’m not gonna say it again, the first time we met was diff he looked rough but I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Now on the “date” is when all these things really shone through.

Don’t explain yourself, I think he should’ve split or at least paid since he initiated the date