Coli, was I being a bytch to my date? Story/texts inside..

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What restaurants/places do you like to go for a first date?
Breh this is the realest advice you’ll ever get on here. A woman that’s into you will value spending time with you more than the price of the venue.

Any woman who says otherwise is a bird or gold digger. If your game is tight and she’s feeling you, you don’t ever have to spend a penny.

I’m not saying be cheap, but if she wants you, you never have to constantly impress her with expensive dinners. Remember, you’re the prize, you’re allowing her to take up your time, taking her out is NOT a privilege... always remember that.
 

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Not Chili's that's for damn sure. I wouldn't even take my own self to Chili's.

Maybe a nice local restaurant and then a movie would be fine for a 1st date

I will never understand women want to do such things initially and I generally dont entertain them if they do..

What pray tell does a movie do to raise each others attraction? Its dark, you cant talk. Yall gonna be fondling each other during the movie :ld: could have hit the crib for that.
 

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Breh this is the realest advice you’ll ever get on here. A woman that’s into you will value spending time with you more than the price of the venue.

Any woman who says otherwise is a bird or gold digger. If your game is tight and she’s feeling you, you don’t ever have to spend a penny.

I’m not saying be cheap, but if she wants you, you never have to constantly impress her with expensive dinners. Remember, you’re the prize, you’re allowing her to take up your time, taking her out is NOT a privilege... always remember that.

:myman:
 

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I will never understand women want to do such things initially and I generally dont entertain them if they do..

What pray tell does a movie do to raise each others attraction? Its dark, you cant talk. Yall gonna be fondling each other during the movie :ld: could have hit the crib for that.

:lolbron:
 

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Trial and error breh. You don’t learn the game without making mistakes, but you can avoid those mistakes by learning from others.

Oh I know my nikka, I avoid paying shyt.

But I was curious because they was talking shyt about chili’s and I wanted to know what would be the better option?

She did say a bar and playing pool there, which sounds great to me.
 

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Im just saying cuh its such a obvious heat check experience. "Is this nikka that sprung to spend 60 dollars to sit with me in the dark doing nothing. Lol lets see"

Its a preposterous initial date idea and Im not surprised less savvy nikkas still fall for it.
 

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Oh I know my nikka, I avoid paying shyt.

But I was curious because they was talking shyt about chili’s and I wanted to know what would be the better option?

She did say a bar and playing pool there, which sounds great to me.
If someone like Trey Songz or a breh she found attractive asked her out... do you think she’d really be fussy about where they go? I bet a park bench would be amazing to them.

Watch a woman’s actions, not her tongue. They’re full of shyt 90% of the time. bytches only make men they aren’t feeling or on the fence about work for the p*ssy. (I mean look at this bird ass OP’s thread for example)

If I told you stories of “high class” women that let me fukk them in my car after a first date, but made a breh they’re not into take them out 5 times without even a kiss, you wouldn’t give a shyt about what she says.

Trust me.
 

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Oh I know my nikka, I avoid paying shyt.

But I was curious because they was talking shyt about chili’s and I wanted to know what would be the better option?

She did say a bar and playing pool there, which sounds great to me.

When I first start dating a lady I keep it light as fukk. Bars, distilleries etc. Ill always buy theyll lil ass drink but once they start ordering food "and Im not, they better be prepared to pay for that shyt lol"

Any women feeling you will have minimal issue aplitting. Some will even pay for you if your sauce is that powerful. Once shw wifey I pay mostly everything. But thats a huge gap to cross. 6 months minimum. And therein lies the prob with our birdbrain culture. Cant see the forest for the trees. Most nikkas with decent bread have no prob spoiling they main..but if you aint trying to act like a main piece you never gonna get there
 

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I will never understand women want to do such things initially and I generally dont entertain them if they do..

What pray tell does a movie do to raise each others attraction? Its dark, you cant talk. Yall gonna be fondling each other during the movie :ld: could have hit the crib for that.


If he tries to fondle me hen I will end the date. A movie and dinner date is betteer on the 1st date in my opinion. Maybe going to an art museum or gallery would be good for the second date
 

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Im just saying cuh its such a obvious heat check experience. "Is this nikka that sprung to spend 60 dollars to sit with me in the dark doing nothing. Lol lets see"

Its a preposterous initial date idea and Im not surprised less savvy nikkas still fall for it.

Imagine how mad a nikka would be if he heard her say that.

He would be livid!!


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If someone like Trey Songz or a breh she found attractive asked her out... do you think she’d really be fussy about where they go? I bet a park bench would be amazing to them.

Watch a woman’s actions, not her tongue. They’re full of shyt 90% of the time. bytches only make men they aren’t feeling or on the fence about work for the p*ssy. (I mean look at this bird ass OP’s thread for example)

If I told you stories of “high class” women that let me fukk them in my car after a first date, but made a breh they’re not into take them out 5 times without even a kiss, you wouldn’t give a shyt about what she says.

Trust me.


This verbatim what I tell my bros.

"You think Idris would have to deal with the hoops she making you/me go thru :jbhmm: "

And therein lies the great answer of how to deal with these women. Its someone shell let smash her on a dirty mattress and she wants you to take her to a proper date off jump :lol:

Please. You get a drink and some godly convo and we take it from there :yeshrug:
 

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When I first start dating a lady I keep it light as fukk. Bars, distilleries etc. Ill always buy theyll lil ass drink but once they start ordering food "and Im not, they better be prepared to pay for that shyt lol"

Any women feeling you will have minimal issue aplitting. Some will even pay for you if your sauce is that powerful. Once shw wifey I pay mostly everything. But thats a huge gap to cross. 6 months minimum. And therein lies the prob with our birdbrain culture. Cant see the forest for the trees. Most nikkas with decent bread have no prob spoiling they main..but if you aint trying to act like a main piece you never gonna get there
I agree with the whole post but this in bold is gospel. If you’re my main girl, I make sure she’s treated like a queen. But she had to earn that title. Believe that.

All these other hos only get a stiff dikk from me. :ufdup:
 

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If someone like Trey Songz or a breh she found attractive asked her out... do you think she’d really be fussy about where they go? I bet a park bench would be amazing to them.

Watch a woman’s actions, not her tongue. They’re full of shyt 90% of the time. bytches only make men they aren’t feeling or on the fence about work for the p*ssy. (I mean look at this bird ass OP’s thread for example)

If I told you stories of “high class” women that let me fukk them in my car after a first date, but made a breh they’re not into take them out 5 times without even a kiss, you wouldn’t give a shyt about what she says.

Trust me.

What would u say you do differently than those other brehs with the “high class” women?
 
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