MischievousMonkey
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Coli, was I being a bytch to my date? Story/texts inside..
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this@Yinny he sound like a retard but yes you still come off as a bytch
desperation. this is what happens to 30+ year old womenYou don't find him attractive
The date was trash
He seems to have no redeeming qualities
What are you hesitating for again?
Pass on him.
You don't respect him. A relationship will never last without respect. Save both yourselves some time and move on.
You were a little bytchy in the text though. In the future I would chill on that. That type of thing will flip a guy's intentions with you real quick and maybe the reason he wasn't trying to pay for your food.
You don't respect him. A relationship will never last without respect. Save both yourselves some time and move on.
You were a little bytchy in the text though. In the future I would chill on that. That type of thing will flip a guy's intentions with you real quick and maybe the reason he wasn't trying to pay for your food.
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R.E.N. Spells Ren
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You're trifling as fukk.
You've already admitted you think he's unattractive and can't dress...you have no interest in him. But you're in here asking if you should "let him make it up"?
...i wouldn't say you were being a b***h at all. i'll say this to you like i would say this to my little sister...son asked you out, then had you pay for your own food. unbeknownst to him, he friend zoned himself with that s**t.
on all of my dates, i stayed my true self but i always stayed tried to put myself in the best light possible when selling myself. my paying for food or drinks wasn't an ego trip, or me trying to prove a point or anything other than it being my way of saying "thank you luv for spending this time with ya boy--you could have been anywhere in the world, but you are here with me."
90 percent of the time for us, the endgame is clapping them cheeks, so the least we can do when we ask y'all out is pay. by paying we're literally saying thanks for listening to our sales pitch.
on all of my dates, i stayed my true self but i always stayed tried to put myself in the best light possible when selling myself. my paying for food or drinks wasn't an ego trip, or me trying to prove a point or anything other than it being my way of saying "thank you luv for spending this time with ya boy--you could have been anywhere in the world, but you are here with me."
90 percent of the time for us, the endgame is clapping them cheeks, so the least we can do when we ask y'all out is pay. by paying we're literally saying thanks for listening to our sales pitch.
Yinny
Sweet and Sour Patch Mom
Fair enough and that was my assessment too but he was literally begging for another chance in the parking lot, I’m like wtf all the signs indicate otherwise. I think he doesn’t know dating etiquette but it ain’t my job to teach him.
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
If that was truly the case, dude would be a total afterthought and you would be onto the next. You can keep fronting though. That clock is still ticking.
Yinny
Sweet and Sour Patch Mom
You're trifling as fukk.
You've already admitted you think he's unattractive and can't dress...you have no interest in him. But you're in here asking if you should "let him make it up"?
He’s not unattractive just not my cup of tea. When we first met it was a rainy day so I’m like whatever I didn’t expect him to go all out but during the date I was like
oh, you look like that all the time. Lol, okay, I’m trifling even though I paid for my shyt.
NaijaProdigy Redux
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Let’s be real you were going to use him for dinner.
You were not even attracted to him
You were not even attracted to him
Yinny
Sweet and Sour Patch Mom
Got it, thanks for an actual answer.
Yinny
Sweet and Sour Patch Mom
Let’s be real you were going to use him for dinner.
You were not even attracted to him
It’s rare I’m “attracted” off rip to a guy, I have to get to know them for a bit but no he wasn’t my physical type.
And yes, I was going to use him for Chili’s lord knows I can’t afford it
Yinny
Sweet and Sour Patch Mom
He’s still around I’m just making sure I see what’s out there before I dig my claws in one guy.
Yinny
Sweet and Sour Patch Mom
My clock is ticking is the only true part of this post. Thanks for your contributions to the thread tho, I don’t know what to tell You apparently I’ve been going on dates with myself then since I have no options.
Be blessed
Mountain
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Man save that brother the hassle of fckin with you and just move on please.
