Coli, was I being a bytch to my date? Story/texts inside..

[KodeBlue]

" I decided it'd be okay if he took me out for a formal date"

That's what caught my attention. How do men let women think that they can "let" us do them a favor?

 

[number21]

My clock is ticking is the only true part of this post. Thanks for your contributions to the thread tho, I don’t know what to tell You apparently I’ve been going on dates with myself then since I have no options. Be blessed

And not a single one of them take you seriously. Which is my point about no options. Also, no problem and same to you.

 

[Yinny]

" I decided it'd be okay if he took me out for a formal date"

That's what caught my attention. How do men let women think that they can "let" us do them a favor?

Huh? We both met and chatted to see if we were cool with one another. You’re reading too much into it, he asked me out afterwards multiple times.

 

[Max.]

Let’s be real you were going to use him for dinner.

You were not even attracted to him

No diss to her but she probably woulda looked for any reason to not like bruh after dinner...

He coulda paid...been on time etc n got told hes a "nice guy"

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

He starts juelzing about how he was gonna pay but he's had experiences before where a woman was just using him for food blahblahblah I didn't gaf so I told him nah it wan't a date

You dated a fellow coli poster?

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Why go on a date with someone you are not interested in?

 

[Yinny]

Why go on a date with someone you are not interested in?

I was mildly interested before but now I’m not for the reasons I stated. As I said, I have a tendency to read too much into some things (hence the q) but my gut says nothing will come of this from my side. He claims it’s because I won’t talk on the phone with him but I told him I hate it unless they’re vips in my life.

 

[Balla]

@Yinny

Wait, so you went on a date with someone you weren’t attracted to and didn’t want to give him a hug because he didn’t pay?

Sounds like a L was coming his way no matter what.

What did y’all talk about on the date?

Where y’all meet at and how he get yo number?

 

[Yinny]

@Yinny

Wait, so you went on a date with someone you weren’t attracted to and didn’t want to give him a hug because he didn’t pay?

Sounds like a L was coming his way no matter what.

What did y’all talk about on the date?

My attraction is funky as in, it grows. I disregard initial thoughts because it’s so rare for a guy to physically just do it for me. And it wasn’t just him not paying, he was late with no notice, he had shyt eye contact, convo we talked sports, a nonprofit he’s starting, other pretty banal but typical topics. He looked so zoned out and I told him as much but he swears he likes me and wants another chance.


The worst part is that I told him about my experience at that same Chili’s a few weeks prior and he deadass asked me five mins later “So have you ever been here?”

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

So let me get this straight.

1. You are not attracted to this guy
2. He looks slow and dresses poorly
3. He talks like a child

You made the decision to go out and yet this bad experience was somehow his fault? You must be either foolish or a woman

 

[karim]

I noticed he dressed poorly on the date. And if I was looking for groceries I would’ve straight up asked him, how does a guy asking me out and me expecting him to pay turn into me trying to “finesse” are you retarded?

It turned into a finesse the moment you accepted the date with the intention of bushing him after he bought you a meal.

 

[Patrick Kane]

Bruh is ugly n knew u was gona use him for dinner

Lmao

shyt is obvious

Dude did the right thing not paying. It’s broads like OP why dudes be reluctant to take strangers out on 100 dollar dinner dates. Granted this was a much cheaper date but clearly you didn’t like him and he probably sensed that and said fukk it, I ain’t paying for this broad. Him reaching for your waist was his final Hail Mary on the night and you shut that down lose his number and keep it movin.

 

[Yinny]

It turned into a finesse the moment you accepted the date with the intention of bushing him after he bought you a meal.

Who said that was my intention? What posts are y’all reading? I expected him to pay but I decided to bush him after the dry night and I paid! I told him as much and he was tryna argue me down to reconsider.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

He’s not unattractive just not my cup of tea. When we first met it was a rainy day so I’m like whatever I didn’t expect him to go all out but during the date I was like oh, you look like that all the time. Lol, okay, I’m trifling even though I paid for my shyt.

Which makes him unattractive to YOU. (You said he looked damn near retarded, now you're tryna act like you just think he's not your cup of tea lmao)

What makes you trifling is even considering going out again with someone you have no interest in. "making it up to you" just means getting that free meal you missed out on...you're so transparent

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Yall both sound immature in this story