Coli, was I being a bytch to my date? Story/texts inside..

Ezekiel 25:17

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Closure/update (I know y’all were dying for it): Back then, I let him know that we at theColi wouldn’t be going forward in the process and to be well and he hit me back like “just got out of jail too”

and

IG DM Christmastime “I know we didn’t work out but Merry Xmas.”

Why are you worried about this one ugly bum dressing dude? Christmas was 3 months ago and you just now bringing it up?
 

Ezekiel 25:17

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I forgot about it then, was busy and now I’m confined. This is my thread, no?

That uneventful day that happened 3 months ago is so important you had to update this thread? I'm just genuinely curious.

What advice are you looking for? If you like him, give him another chance. If not, move on. Surely you have other men that's talking to you that's easily above his pay grade?
 

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Imagine being butthurt enough to come into my thread out of genuine curiosity. Nerves are struck, I like it :wow:
 

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If someone like Trey Songz or a breh she found attractive asked her out... do you think she’d really be fussy about where they go? I bet a park bench would be amazing to them.

Watch a woman’s actions, not her tongue. They’re full of shyt 90% of the time. bytches only make men they aren’t feeling or on the fence about work for the p*ssy. (I mean look at this bird ass OP’s thread for example)

If I told you stories of “high class” women that let me fukk them in my car after a first date, but made a breh they’re not into take them out 5 times without even a kiss, you wouldn’t give a shyt about what she says.

Trust me.
Repped
 

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You know if it was the social norm for people to go dutch the first two dates this situation wouldn’t even had happened.
 

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OP..

The attitude was unnecessary. I understand that dude was not on top of his shyt and I also understand that his actions turned you off. That is understandable.

But, just because he wasn’t on time or paid for your drink, that did not warrant an attitude. You could have politely declined another date.

If he wasn’t rude towards you, then you should not be rude towards him. Being tactful is just as important as being punctual on his end.

Seems like you and this dude are not compatible. So, cut your losses and charge him to the game.

Next time you go out with a guy, make sure your attitude is right and only call someone to the floor if their actions and/or attitude warrants an equal response.
 

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If someone like Trey Songz or a breh she found attractive asked her out... do you think she’d really be fussy about where they go? I bet a park bench would be amazing to them.

Watch a woman’s actions, not her tongue. They’re full of shyt 90% of the time. bytches only make men they aren’t feeling or on the fence about work for the p*ssy. (I mean look at this bird ass OP’s thread for example)

If I told you stories of “high class” women that let me fukk them in my car after a first date, but made a breh they’re not into take them out 5 times without even a kiss, you wouldn’t give a shyt about what she says.

Trust me.

Truest shyt you ever spoke. When a woman is feeling you she just wants you, she’ll make excuses to be with you. Any bytch who does the opposite is full of shyt. Every sorry bytch that tried to add me to Facebook or hit me up out of the blue with the “you crossed my mind” garbage after a year or so remained in the bushes. Don’t fall for that shyt. I date a woman (Doctor) with three demanding jobs and we make time for one another. Even flew me out a few times to her field job. Don’t cheat yourself to mediocrity! Foh

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