lolz nice way to deflect with that attempt at sarcasm when I accurately summed up what your first paragraph said about ur viewpoints.you get a gold star for reading comprehension, yay
So like I said..
U another smartdumb unwise nikka

lolz nice way to deflect with that attempt at sarcasm when I accurately summed up what your first paragraph said about ur viewpoints.you get a gold star for reading comprehension, yay

fakkit era.

thats all he go keep doin is making up dumb ass points and dig himself in a bigger whole
now he saying lord finesse homeless cuz he be letting des cornball ass weirdos have it


DiabolicalI can see it in his eyes
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I'm pretty open minded...but WTF is masculinity then iif not this? I don't understand this sentence.

In another reality men clothes are what we call women clothes and vice versa. You've just conformed to the ideology of this world. At the end of the day it's just a piece of fabric really. Skirts, shirts, pants.....all just a piece of a fabric. Fabric isn't assigned to a specific gender. Americans are some of the biggest shyt stain loser confused conformed idiots that this planet has to offer I swear. You nikkas dont even know the reason why you feel like you do have the time.
lolz nice way to deflect with that attempt at sarcasm when I accurately summed up what your first paragraph said about ur viewpoints.
So like I said..
U another smartdumb unwise nikka
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You're a smart cat, I would think you would have caught what he was getting at even if you disagreed with it.
He's saying that the THEATER involved in propping up the social constructs of masculinity and how much you adhere to them shouldn't determine how much of a man you are, manhood is something you define and thus emulate (perform) based on whatever concept/ideals you've been exposed to.
Men in India hold hands when they walk down the street, that's not "manly" here in the states, then again the world is bigger than your (not you personally) particular reality box.
Funny shyt is, kid cudi can wear a baby shirt and all of a sudden he's not a man/masculine enough...let some transexual put on a dress, make up...even get surgery to present themselves as a woman and people will line up to tell them how much of a man they actually are
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....However we spin it there are standards for masculinity and femininity,some cultures know better than others
....Any man willing to not only stray from his societys standards,but jump over to the side of femininity doesn't care about his manhood and how he's perceived. Which is fine,but don't go writing articles when you or ya favorite rapper get clowned for wearing skirts,dresses,kissing nikkas in the mouth,dressing in drag aaaallll in his videos
When asked about it, the former Brand Nubian emcee flatly said, "I'm not feelin' him. The more feminine shyt that you do, the more you're going to have to do other shyt to try to prove your manhood."

Shoutout to my nikka Big Biz at COMPLEX
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not bizI know this is aScared Old Men, Modern Style, and the Perceived Feminization of Black Men via Fashion | Complex
They said "perceived" feminization of black men in HipHop. What's not to perceive they got us out here wearing skirts, handbags, lipstick, eyeliner, tight jeans, fingernail polish, low cut tops etc. But peep the article.
Whenever you pick the brain of someone like Lord Jamar about hip-hop’s ills, he’ll give you minutes-long rants about how the “feminization” of hip-hop is destroying both the culture and the Black men who contribute to it. His most recent display of this sad lil’ shtick was an interview he gave to Vlad TV earlier in the month about rapper Young Thug daring to wear something that looks an awful lot like a dress. When asked about it, the former Brand Nubian emcee flatly said, "I'm not feelin' him. The more feminine shyt that you do, the more you're going to have to do other shyt to try to prove your manhood."
I’ve always found homophobia (which is in a deeply committed relationship with misogyny) within the hip-hop community to be especially laughable. As Aaron McGruder used to routinely point out in the pre-TV days of The Boondocks, this is a genre of music in which its biggest stars are greased muscle men instructing other men to suck their dikks. On top of that, many of these guys are adorned in so much jewelry you’d think Liberace had a bunch of unidentified b*stard seeds. Meanwhile, a common narrative of rap is, was, and perhaps may always will be to drive home the point that women—excuse me, bytches—ain’t shyt.
We are collectively a very He-Man woman hating society, though, so I can’t dismiss Lord Jamar as some sort of outlier like a Five Percenter or one of those Black Israelites who every Sunday on 125th and Lenox disparage Islamic men for wearing “dresses” and, like Lord Jamar, act as if femininity is some terrorist organization hell bent on the annihilation of Black men.
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Yes, Lord Jamar may be one of the harsher and outspoken critics of the “feminization” of Black men, but he’s no less guilty than many of the other people who griped over Kid Cudi wearing a crop top at Coachella. The same goes for those who roasted Kanye West for wearing a kilt. Sure, you could sweep some of the critics aside as “jokes,” but it all ultimately plays into the sentiment that when you are a man—particularly a Black one—you are limited in your personal expression for the sake of preserving your manhood.
To Lord Jamar and others, manhood is a performance. One’s personal style is a part of that act and the minute you deviate from the collective acceptance of masculine ideals, you are worthy of ridicule, condemnation, or the very least, be questioned about your manhood, an all-too common occurrence that deserves re-examination.
In a piece entitled “metrosexuality is dead, thank god for that,” Anders Christian Madsen celebrates the end of the early 2000s trend and credits the likes of David Beckham, Jared Leto, and Zac Efron for showing (white) men that it’s okay to break from the mold. Similar pieces have been written in celebration of Kanye West, and perhaps over time, Kid Cudi, Young Thug, and others may receive similar accolades for doing the same for Black dudes.
This undoubtedly spooks the hell out of the Lord Jamars of the world, but what frightens me mostly is that ultimately, we’ve still yet to challenge how exactly we should judge one’s manhood.
If you are gay, you are used to the idea that some men may view you as less of a man for your attractions; however, we’ve reached the point where a straight guy could literally be swimming in a pool of vagina and he'd still be considered less of a man and boxed in because of a crop top or a kilt.
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These trends, like others in fashion, will end. And then what? Rappers and those who aspire to look like them may retreat to something viewed as more “masculine.” And then once that trend ends and, say, kilts are back in style, we may find ourselves having this same argument again.
I would like to think of Lord Jamar as a relic, but I often wrestle with the reality that while the culture has moved forward, the speed is a lot slower than many are willing to admit. It only takes one dumb interview from an insecure rapper or a stroll on a social media timeline to notice.
Ideally, we should get to the point where manhood isn’t based on whether or not you toss on a skirt for the hell of it or a crop top because you want to show off your six-pack—or fukk, just because it’s hot as shyt in the desert you’re performing at. It’s a rather juvenile display to cling to these archaic ideas of what makes a man. Manhood isn’t about performance. It ought to be about common decency, individuality, and yes, expressing yourself however you choose to.
But we’ll only reach that point if the people so busy grabbing their dikks all day learn to stop checking under other people’s skirts.
thread but its sickening that these cacs want to see low life faggits market hip hop music instead of strong black men. Lord Jamar speaks the truth...Keep that batty man shyt in techno and emo.