Confessions of a Simp

[Cap. Scarlet]

Trolling

No I'm serious. I've stopped texting and calling her so what do I do now? I guess it's just a waiting game from here right?

 

[iViva La Trouble!]

This is sad.

Not only are you a simp, you confess to being one. I can't even pray for you my nikka.

 

[bennett]

I want to start out by saying this is not a troll thread.

I've simped probably every woman that I've ever been with. Most of the relationships I've been in
I've had stronger feelings towards the woman than she had for me. I've tried but I seem to fall back into my same routine.
I don't have problems pulling women at all. The woman that I'm currently seeing told me that she's
ready for a committed relationship but doesn't know if she wants that with me.

How do I break this cycle and change from being this way?

I'm willing to answer, elaborate, and confess anything related within reason about this lifestyle that I want to change.

For the purpose of this discussion, what, exactly, do you consider "simping?"

 

[bennett]

i'm a guy who has sometimes juggled simpettes
so take my words with a grain of


now.. many times in life, where i looked around me
for whatever reason- there was no 4* (four stars) woman for me to date
i would just go with commodization mindset
so let's pretend i can't find a true 4* but there are multiple girls who rate at 3 stars
i would do a virtual bidding war (in my own mind)
meaning i would date the one who had a car (and let me use it)
or the one who would walk my dog for free
or would teach me stuff that enhanced me, builds me up
basically, the one who priced herself as the best bargain for me (+ my time)
in other words, the biggest simpette

i know this sounds cold and psychopathic
it's not like i would do this if a 4* was available
also, it's not like i would stoop as low as a 2star women

again, not to be psychopathic-
but there was nothing those 3star women could do to make me want to wife them
i would fukk them, listen to them (within reason), joke around with them
do lots of boyfriend activities with them (within reason)
but my loyalty was like a parking meter
if they stopped putting in quarters (or became problematic)
then i'd drive away and start over with the next simpette
it was never long term for me

SMH

Women, pay attention to this nikka behavior.

Damn user.

 

[BodeineBrazy]

I want to start out by saying this is not a troll thread.

I've simped probably every woman that I've ever been with. Most of the relationships I've been in
I've had stronger feelings towards the woman than she had for me. I've tried but I seem to fall back into my same routine.
I don't have problems pulling women at all. The woman that I'm currently seeing told me that she's
ready for a committed relationship but doesn't know if she wants that with me.

How do I break this cycle and change from being this way?

I'm willing to answer, elaborate, and confess anything related within reason about this lifestyle that I want to change.

u already know nikka. if u smart enough to know u a simp, then u know what ur doing wrong. do the opposite of what u been doing. have some discipline. its really that simple.

 

[BodeineBrazy]

i'm a guy who has sometimes juggled simpettes
so take my words with a grain of

"commoditization is defined as the process by which goods that have economic value and are distinguishable in terms of attributes end up becoming simple commodities in the eyes of the market or consumers"

what that means..
is when there is no difference between two products
or differences are so minor no one cares
basically the products become indistinguishable to the consumer's eyes
like what is the difference between crest and colgate??
or chevron vs. shell?? or cases of bottled water??
so the shopper simply picks the cheapest price
or which one offers more convenience, etc.

now.. many times in life, where i looked around me
for whatever reason- there was no 4* (four stars) woman for me to date
i would just go with commodization mindset
so let's pretend i can't find a true 4* but there are multiple girls who rate at 3 stars
i would do a virtual bidding war (in my own mind)
meaning i would date the one who had a car (and let me use it)
or the one who would walk my dog for free
or would teach me stuff that enhanced me, builds me up
basically, the one who priced herself as the best bargain for me (+ my time)
in other words, the biggest simpette

i know this sounds cold and psychopathic
it's not like i would do this if a 4* was available
also, it's not like i would stoop as low as a 2star women
but i preferred to do it this way rather than be alone waitng for a 4* opportunity

---> what this means to you <---
know that by simping you are entering a bidding war to get with the opposite sex
it is very easy to be undersold
walmart was the low price leader
dollar stores started selling stuff for a dollar
so walmart started selling it for 88cents
...now what??
price wars.. that's how airlines have gone out of business

again, not to be psychopathic-
but there was nothing those 3star women could do to make me want to wife them
i would fukk them, listen to them (within reason), joke around with them
do lots of boyfriend activities with them (within reason)
but my loyalty was like a parking meter
if they stopped putting in quarters (or became problematic)
then i'd drive away and start over with the next simpette
it was never long term for me

---> break the cycle?? <---
my best advice is to try to discover what is unique about you
think of everything that is true about you
then compare yourself to four other guys
eliminate anything that could equally apply to them
keep going until you got a list of your true distinctions
this process might be very painful, perhaps leading to depression or insanity
but find stuff that is only true about you (or you rank 90th percentile)
then go get women based on those unique qualities

otherwise you will keep bidding on situations
putting yourself into an untenable long-term position

these are just my midnight thoughts

5* Post

SMH

Women, pay attention to this nikka behavior.

Damn user.

Nah not really. That honestly is the game. He's just real enough to say it. We use people, they use us... thats relationships. Refining and Refining until you find that perfect fit or just settle out of insecurity and fear.

 

[bennett]

Everything you think you should do..........do the opposite

Before you do anything ask yourself would you do this if she was 300lb with one tooth?

She likes the attention you give her, you texting her throughout the day keeps her entertained, when she's home she has other stuff to do, you just aren't a priority.


Whenever a woman tells you she never been with a guy like you before = eject.

She's just telling what you want to hear to stroke your ego, remember actions>>>>>words.

I agree with this.

On another note, you sound like you have low self-esteem. If you know you're treating a woman right and she doesn't express mutual interest, 86 her ass. Period. Sometimes you have to give a person you ass to kiss.

 

[bennett]

Man, i cant even confess my worst simping act. You mofos would never let me hear the end of it
It was bad... As i was doing it i couldnt believe i was doing it and had these voices in my head going
Maybe someday i'll come clean. Not ready for this one brehs. I need some tissue just thinking about it

I wanna know. lol

Just inbox me. I'm new here and have no one on here that I'm cool with. I won't tell.

 

[Cap. Scarlet]

For the purpose of this discussion, what, exactly, do you consider "simping?"

I overextend myself. I got a lot going for me but I always fall back in the routine of going above and beyond. I've been told multiple times that I'm a nice guy and sometimes can be too nice. I guess I'm throwing 'em off because they're not use to it.

 

[bennett]

I overextend myself. I got a lot going for me but I always fall back in the routine of going above and beyond. I've been told multiple times that I'm a nice guy and sometimes can be too nice. I guess I'm throwing 'em off because they're not use to it.

Have you even had sex with her?

 

[Cap. Scarlet]

Have you even had sex with her?

Not yet. She's one of those 90 days types.

 

[iViva La Trouble!]

Bruh the secret to women is don't do nice shyt for them until AFTER you knock them up.

That's the only time you gotta be nice. Outside of going to jail and being homeless, Child support is my biggest fear.

 

[Nah]

I overextend myself. I got a lot going for me but I always fall back in the routine of going above and beyond. I've been told multiple times that I'm a nice guy and sometimes can be too nice. I guess I'm throwing 'em off because they're not use to it.

Nah.

That ain't it.

That ain't it at all Homes...

 

[bennett]

Not yet. She's one of those 90 days types.

Oh, okay. I was thinking that maybe it was because you had a little dikk. But anyway, she's not into you. Period. Stop wasting your time. Don't initiate ANY communication with her. NONE! Do you hear me?! If she reaches out to you, give her VERY SHORT, preferably one word responses. No capitalization, no punctuation. Just be dry as fukk. If she asks you what's up, just tell her you are no longer interested in her. fukk her. I can't stand when bytches play dudes. Makes it hard on the rest of us.

But on another note, pay attention to the women who show SINCERE interest in you. Don't bother with the rest.

 

[bennett]

Bruh the secret to women is don't do nice shyt for them until AFTER you knock them up.

That's the only time you gotta be nice. Outside of going to jail and being homeless, Child support is my biggest fear.