Cap. Scarlet
Pro
What do you mean?
Confessions of a Simp
- Thread starter Cap. Scarlet
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Dead the chick. Nothing worth working towards there.
Cap. Scarlet
Pro
I've been seeing her for a couple of months. Is that enough time to give a person to make a commitment? I was going to at least give her another month.
Everything you think you should do..........do the opposite
Before you do anything ask yourself would you do this if she was 300lb with one tooth?
She likes the attention you give her, you texting her throughout the day keeps her entertained, when she's home she has other stuff to do, you just aren't a priority.
Whenever a woman tells you she never been with a guy like you before = eject.
She's just telling what you want to hear to stroke your ego, remember actions>>>>>words.
ala your in the friendzone, your not a priority, your an option.
Maybe after all the bad boys break her heart and se gets cheated on or pumps out a b*stard maybe you will get a chance.
When a woman wants you YOU ARE NUMBER 1 not number 2 etc.
Eject now
you haven't been seeing her, you are being strung along
its the expectation v reality scene from 500 days of summer
its the way to stop you from simping
yo uwant to text do the opposite
you want to pour out your heart do the opposite
you want to show up at her doorstep with flowers and chocolate do the opposite
That's just not natural for a woman to say in my opinion. I'm not saying she has to all about marrying you but to say she isn't sure if it's what she wants that with you is a big red flag. Women don't talk like that unless you are treating them badly, out just playing the field or they really don't want that with you. It's one thing for her to say she's not sure if see wants to get married. It's another for her to out right say she doesn't see it with you.
I'm not saying it make her a bad person but you seem to be looking for something stable. I can't see you getting there with you.
Never give a woman your commitment, she has to WORK FOR IT, commitment is the male vagina and you are virgin. Never be forced to give it away, never think you have to give it away to secure her or something.
If a woman likes YOU ALOT, she will bring up so what are we talk, where is this going terminology phrases like that and then its up to you decide.
If a woman likes YOU ALOT, she will bring up so what are we talk, where is this going terminology phrases like that and then its up to you decide.
Didn't read through this entire thread, but just wanted to say, there's nothing wrong with liking a woman. There IS something wrong with simping, contrary to what some have said. A simp does something he/she doesn't really want to do simply because they're trying to gain the object of their affection's favor. For example:
Paying on a date isn't simping if the cost is reasonable and you enjoy her company/food/event/etc. However, it would be simping if you're doing it simply because she likes it, you're breaking the bank and barely even know her.
Giving her a ride home isn't simping if you're not going out of your way and her place is in route. However, it would be simping if she calls you out of your sleep, and you drive somewhere to pick her up, drop her off, then go back home.
One rule of thumb is reciprocation. I'm not saying you should do something because you expect something in return, but if you know in your heart she wouldn't do the same for you, you're doing too much.
Paying on a date isn't simping if the cost is reasonable and you enjoy her company/food/event/etc. However, it would be simping if you're doing it simply because she likes it, you're breaking the bank and barely even know her.
Giving her a ride home isn't simping if you're not going out of your way and her place is in route. However, it would be simping if she calls you out of your sleep, and you drive somewhere to pick her up, drop her off, then go back home.
One rule of thumb is reciprocation. I'm not saying you should do something because you expect something in return, but if you know in your heart she wouldn't do the same for you, you're doing too much.
you may be too far gone to help but there is still hopeWhats your success rate in sleeping with women? all these women you talk to "one at a time" have slept with all of them? how long does it take for you to get in there pants ?
You ever been mean to a girl?
Elle Driver
Veteran
Nothing wrong with simping if you know that you're at least getting the same in return otherwise you just get more and more jaded because this girl has clearly said she doesn't want a relationship. She probably will not change her mind. Best to just get out and learn from your mistakes when you find another girl.
