I think that might be your problem.
Confessions of a Simp
- Thread starter Cap. Scarlet
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I think that might be your problem.
Music Fiend
Superstar
IMO most of the time I simped, I really wasn't that NICE of a guy. I was putting on a show my damn self trying to appear perfect. These were in my younger years, I've been single for like 4 years now just playing the field and it made me grow a pair.
The most mindblowing thing I've find amongst some of my simp peers is that they ALL allow something or someone else to have reign of their decisions. They are not in control of their own fate. Thus everything they do is to prove themselves as worthy. Thats why that nikka in your circle takes women out on nice dates, overthinking and overanalyzing everything, because they truly believe that deep down, they have to be perfect to be of value. As if perfection in their minds would lead to a woman falling head over heels when in actuality all it earns you is a spot on their roster, which you will not be the star player. Just a 6th man coming off the bench, getting less and less play time until a new free agent opens up, and they gotta cut you from the team.
You get out of life who you are, not what you do. Once I developed an identity of who I was, and worked on that. I no longer cared about appearance. Matter of fact, I take women one first dates to play putt putt golf for 10 bucks. And half of the time end up getting the draws on the first night. Im no longr into showing my worth, just showing that I know my worth.
That is what women respect nowadays. I know that with or wihtout them, Ima be gucci and I'm capable of replacing them fairly quickly. I ha a chick call me tonight and tell me shes upset with me (I recently cut her off last month) because I never told her how I felt about her. And thats the key, stop talking about it and be about it. I did care about her and she was of quality to take out and I did. Women will ony respect a man in control of himself. If you show that you will inconvience yourself or do whatever to please them you will lose everytime.
The most mindblowing thing I've find amongst some of my simp peers is that they ALL allow something or someone else to have reign of their decisions. They are not in control of their own fate. Thus everything they do is to prove themselves as worthy. Thats why that nikka in your circle takes women out on nice dates, overthinking and overanalyzing everything, because they truly believe that deep down, they have to be perfect to be of value. As if perfection in their minds would lead to a woman falling head over heels when in actuality all it earns you is a spot on their roster, which you will not be the star player. Just a 6th man coming off the bench, getting less and less play time until a new free agent opens up, and they gotta cut you from the team.
You get out of life who you are, not what you do. Once I developed an identity of who I was, and worked on that. I no longer cared about appearance. Matter of fact, I take women one first dates to play putt putt golf for 10 bucks. And half of the time end up getting the draws on the first night. Im no longr into showing my worth, just showing that I know my worth.
That is what women respect nowadays. I know that with or wihtout them, Ima be gucci and I'm capable of replacing them fairly quickly. I ha a chick call me tonight and tell me shes upset with me (I recently cut her off last month) because I never told her how I felt about her. And thats the key, stop talking about it and be about it. I did care about her and she was of quality to take out and I did. Women will ony respect a man in control of himself. If you show that you will inconvience yourself or do whatever to please them you will lose everytime.
Find a girl that is into you
Sk3ptical
alhamdulillah
I ain't shyt when it comes to relationship advice but all I gotta say is take your time when you get into a relationship and don't put all of yourself out there at once. Get to know the girl and find out if she shares an equal amount of feelings towards you that your share with her.
Young brehette PREACH!!!
I simped my wife before we got married.
I had remembered that she said she set her alarm for 5:15am to get up in the morning for work. I called her one morning at 5:15 and said, "I'll be your alarm".
This continued for months
I had remembered that she said she set her alarm for 5:15am to get up in the morning for work. I called her one morning at 5:15 and said, "I'll be your alarm".
This continued for months
Dr. Narcisse
Veteran
Aint nothing wrong with doing that a time or two for your girl.This continued for months
My 1st time seein' it and i think it should be an official smilie
Dr. Narcisse
Veteran
My 1st time seein' it and i think it should be an official smilie
That one might be too big for an official smilie. This one might might work though.
Cap. Scarlet
Pro
I struggle with texting. I text her every morning to say good morning and how she's doing. I also would text her throughout the day. She tells me that she likes it. Now when we're both at home after work, she barely answers my texts and when she does it's one word sentences.
She tells me that she's never been with a guy like me before and that she gets nervous with anticipation when she sees me. This is what's throwing me off. I told her that I was going to fall back a little after she dropped that committment line that I mentioned earlier in the thread. She didn't respond to it. I want to text her so bad. I guess that's the junkie in me that someone mentioned earlier lol.
She tells me that she's never been with a guy like me before and that she gets nervous with anticipation when she sees me. This is what's throwing me off. I told her that I was going to fall back a little after she dropped that committment line that I mentioned earlier in the thread. She didn't respond to it. I want to text her so bad. I guess that's the junkie in me that someone mentioned earlier lol.
I requestin it. It'd get a lot of use 'round hereThat one might be too big for an official smilie. This one might might work though.
If you get nothing else from this thread, drop that one post haste.