Corporate black folk(Men in particular)

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What happens when one wants to and does grab lunch with you on your first day at the gig :lupe:
 
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When I used to work in the corporate environment they would be blatant with the sexual innuendos, but you can't respond in any way other than silence and a stern look. No answer, no response, no conversation, just:martin:. The real slick ones will try to pull that "he's an angry black man" nonsense to to your superiors, so the next level is to just laugh, not just any laugh, that "i'm laughing at you" laugh. Thats their kryptonite, you hit em with one good




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I guarantee they wont speak to you again in life.
 

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I go do my job and leave... nothing more

My bills are more important in life at my age than thinking about what broads think of me
This is at any age lmao
When I stopped thinking bout what women think of me is the day I started getting women. Not every woman is gonna be attracted to you and that's ok. Who would want every woman anyway bothering the fukk outta them? Lol
Focus on stacking paper, having fun, and women will come. :banderas:
 

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Some of these hoes have the nerve to try to talk over me. I just keep talking louder til they shut up.

Brad and Chuck have clearly never checked their women :beli:
Lol, a lot of the ignorant misogynistic shyt that you see black men spilling are actually learned from white men, even if it doesn't and never applied to them(eg. The housewife stereotype, complaints about "American women", education and jobs of today are " biased" towards women, women can't *insert thing here* ect.
 

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I purposedly ignore the pretty chicks in general at work unless they spark a convo and give off vibes that the pipe game is needed. I dont want no HR person hitting me up, defaming my character.

And maybe its me, but i have learned the art of smashing co-workers without a hitch. Its all about what you attract and how you confront the situation.
 

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Lol, a lot of the ignorant misogynistic shyt that you see black men spilling are actually learned from white men, even if it doesn't and never applied to them(eg. The housewife stereotype, complaints about "American women", education and jobs of today are " biased" towards women, women can't *insert thing here* ect.
There are a lot of sites about this.
 

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I've been in the corporate arena for 12 years and am in a managerial position now, I had a long response typed out but I deleted it. All il say is just say "hello" to the women in a polite manner and then promptly keep it moving dont even think about them, that goes for all colors, races, religions, whatever.

Don't even exert brain power to think about them, please dont do it to yourself. :mjlol:
You'l learn to not try to understand intricacies of females as you get older because its like trying to solve a defective rubix cube that keeps changing dimensions. :heh:

Everything that this wise sage of a logically perfect man has stated!
:salute::salute::salute::salute:
 

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I've got a bad case of ADD and not good with eye contact so they probably think I'm checking them out...I just avoid talking with them to an extent outside of hey, a fake smile and keep it moving
 

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Do you sometimes have a feeling that every white chick in the work place or in your business interactions believes that you are attracted to them? And thus they put up a wall to counter that even though a wall was not needed in the first place(Given the false belief). How do you combat that?

Anyone experienced this?

Yup & I ignore them & keep it moving like @BaggerofTea said. After a while these same females now go out of their way to speak to me now & I'm cordial/professional but brief & still keep it moving. I've been invited out for drinks by them many times which I've declined every single time.
 

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as a black man, it is your duty to ignore the cave beast and pay a hell of a lot of attention to the Nubian queen on deck.

I pay attention to none.
3 "sistas" at my job.

1 is a cac-ratchet(bedwench) corn-chip and cheap perfume smelling thot.
1 is a neo-soul type...always lookin dour and depressed and won't speak to anyone.
1 is an old lady raising her grandson while her daughter goes out getting smashed.

No interaction with females at my job outside of my team.
 

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I pay attention to none.
3 "sistas" at my job.

1 is a cac-ratchet(bedwench) corn-chip and cheap perfume smelling thot.
1 is a neo-soul type...always lookin dour and depressed and won't speak to anyone.
1 is an old lady raising her grandson while her daughter goes out getting smashed.

No interaction with females at my job outside of my team.
as a black men, you need to fix that, so when shyt goes down, you have allies
 
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