Corporate black folk(Men in particular)

[onthereal]

Do you sometimes have a feeling that every white chick in the work place or in your business interactions believes that you are attracted to them? And thus they put up a wall to counter that even though a wall was not needed in the first place(Given the false belief). How do you combat that?

Anyone experienced this?

Corporate women in general tend to think of a kind man as a flirty man. I typically try to keep all conversations light and avoid talking about anything overly personal.

They know I have a dog and that's the extent of it. I'm not trying to send the wrong messages to these Cacs and get fired for it.

 

[badtguy]

NEVER noticed where I work there are just as many black women as white the only main white women are in director vp roles. and no one really interacts with them.

but black women at work think I want them till i start curvin they asses lol knowing damn well im like inside. I just started working and gettin to know people give it bout 6 months Imma fukk everything in this office

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

as a black men, you need to fix that, so when shyt goes down, you have allies

The only one I even talk to is the old lady.
She's the only one that makes any logical sense on the daily.
The other two are just...fukked in the head....
The thot is always up in cacs faces cackling like a witch and doing the usual fukkery...singing and dancing around and groveling to cacs.
The Neo-Soul one is just...like a shadow...never talks to anyone and only waves hi when you see her. Real strange. Our work paths don't cross so I literally have no reason to contact her for anything.

Born alone, die alone.

 

[jackson35]

The only one I even talk to is the old lady.
She's the only one that makes any logical sense on the daily.
The other two are just...fukked in the head....
The thot is always up in cacs faces cackling like a witch and doing the usual fukkery...singing and dancing around and groveling to cacs.
The Neo-Soul one is just...like a shadow...never talks to anyone and only waves hi when you see her. Real strange. Our work paths don't cross so I literally have no reason to contact her for anything.

Born alone, die alone.

it could be front, as a black you need to investigate that whole thing to see if they putting a front or are they really c00ns

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I matched with a few daughters and nieces on tinder.....majority of the people I work with are well into their 50's

Yup, same here.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

it could be front, as a black you need to investigate that whole thing to see if they putting a front or are they really c00ns

I know for SURE the thot is definitely a c00n. She straight proposed to a cac we have on staff in a meeting. Laughing and giggling like that shyt is funny and calling him her future husband. Meanwhile, the whole time cac in question is looking like...

Cac curves her on a daily basis in front of the office workers and she still chases his ass like a lost puppy.

The Neo-Soul chick is just too damn strange/weird for me to approach.
Something bad happened to that chick and I ain't up for tryna fix anyone.

The old lady and I vibe and she's cool...just older. You can tell she has been around the block and been involved in some progressive stuff. She's no c00n...just in a bad situation with a lazy ass daughter. If anyone, I'd team with her if shyt went down.

 

[jackson35]

I know for SURE the thot is definitely a c00n. She straight proposed to a cac we have on staff in a meeting. Laughing and giggling like that shyt is funny and calling him her future husband. Meanwhile, the whole time cac in question is looking like...

Cac curves her on a daily basis in front of the office workers and she still chases his ass like a lost puppy.

The Neo-Soul chick is just too damn strange/weird for me to approach.
Something bad happened to that chick and I ain't up for tryna fix anyone.

The old lady and I vibe and she's cool...just older. You can tell she has been around the block and been involved in some progressive stuff. She's no c00n...just in a bad situation with a lazy ass daughter. If anyone, I'd team with her if shyt went down.

I guess we have charge it to the game

 

[se1f_made]

it could be front, as a black you need to investigate that whole thing to see if they putting a front or are they really c00ns

fukk that, it's a few blacks in the office and I speak to them on the reg but only really communicate with the brother on my team. I used to care about who's a c00n or who real, until I learned that it's not my responsibility. They can maneuver however it is they feel, doesn't affect me..everything is straight as long as that direct deposit is there on the 1st and 15th


Edit: some folks too far gone to save, not risking my livelihood over somebody else's fukked up (c00n) train of thought

 

[jackson35]

fukk that, it's a few blacks in the office and I speak to them on the reg but only really communicate with the brother on my team. I used to care about who's a c00n or who real, until I learned that it's not my responsibility. They can maneuver however it is they feel, doesn't affect me..everything is straight as long as that direct deposit is there on the 1st and 15th[/QUOTE if certain sisters feel you are a hindrance at the job, they will set you up where you are no longer neede or welcome]

 

[se1f_made]

Ive got my weight up and continually advancing my skills, being worried about anyone getting you fired is the least of your concerns. Matter fact, if I were to get fired Id probably have something that pays higher within 30 days

 

[twhatever]

I know for SURE the thot is definitely a c00n. She straight proposed to a cac we have on staff in a meeting. Laughing and giggling like that shyt is funny and calling him her future husband. Meanwhile, the whole time cac in question is looking like...

Cac curves her on a daily basis in front of the office workers and she still chases his ass like a lost puppy.

The Neo-Soul chick is just too damn strange/weird for me to approach.
Something bad happened to that chick and I ain't up for tryna fix anyone.

The old lady and I vibe and she's cool...just older. You can tell she has been around the block and been involved in some progressive stuff. She's no c00n...just in a bad situation with a lazy ass daughter. If anyone, I'd team with her if shyt went down.

So her being quiet is what makes you think she's strange/something bad happened to her? Or is it more to it than her just being quiet?

 

[se1f_made]

So her being quiet is what makes you think she's strange/something bad happened to her? Or is it more to it than her just being quiet?

Looks like she's got it figured out and the cat that made this post is still trying to figure out how to move in a room full of sharks

 

[Heafcliffe]

Do you sometimes have a feeling that every white chick in the work place or in your business interactions believes that you are attracted to them? And thus they put up a wall to counter that even though a wall was not needed in the first place(Given the false belief). How do you combat that?

Anyone experienced this?

Quite honestly, I don't trust cac women (nor men for that matter) and choose the following method of avoidance:

When they give me that uncomfortable

face, I simply look pass them, ignoring the everlasting shyt out them and destroying any remnants of what's supposed to be a soul. To a cac bish (esp attractive), that's the equivalent to calling them ugly and dying. They are pawns so don't come at me with that shyt.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

So her being quiet is what makes you think she's strange/something bad happened to her? Or is it more to it than her just being quiet?

Nah, it's her look too...like one of them anime black chicks that fukk cacs.

Looks like she's got it figured out and the cat that made this post is still trying to figure out how to move in a room full of sharks

What?
Please...I don't chase or talk to any of these chicks...I just speak on what I notice.

 

[se1f_made]

Quite honestly, I don't trust ha-white women (nor men for that matter) and choose the following method of avoidance:

When they give me that uncomfortable

face, I simply look pass them, ignoring the everlasting shyt out them and destroying any remnants of what's supposed to be a soul. They are pawns so don't come at me with that shyt.

I actually always give them this look. Flip that shyt around on they ass salute to jb smooth