Could u marry a woman dat doesnt fully satisfy u sexually?

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Yeah I made a thread about this ahwile back. I been with my chick off and on 5 years. Everything is dope, she's afrocentric, good credit, thick nice body, works out, makes me breakfast and bed every morning, my family loves her. Sex is awful... shyt is the most conflicting feeling. I hear all these nikkas with they train her and all that, but i'm tell you, if a chick is trash, u can try and try and try and she just wont get it.

Then it boils down to leaving, cheating, or dealing with it.

The sex will make you resent her for the smallest shyt, because your needs aren't being met. No my dikk isn't small or wack, most women from my past, i still have a pass to come to their house anytime. Ive fukked alot of women, and she's only been with like 6 guys in her life. So it's kinda crazy. It sounds simple, but it's not simple at all. Its to the point I can't even get hard now. Just feels like a waste of time, so i'll pretend to be sleep or something. shyts the worst.

breakfast in bed every morning? shiieeeeeet
 

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I wouldn't mind. I've seen too many people end up in ruin because they made sex the focal point of their lives. Not my style. Not saying I don't love sex, that would be crazy. I just realize there's much more to life than just that. If this woman has the qualities I'm looking for and that's our only area that could use some improvement, I would say we're doing well. I would marry her without much thought to the contrary. Just a humble man's opinion.
 

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Yeah I would. I wouldn't marry a chick just because she got good p*ssy. That is just setting up yourself for failure and I would be cool with a chick a low sex drive too.
 

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What I have learned in life

Is women that so called know how to "fukk"

Got that way because they been giving that lil puzzy up to a ton of people

Which is someone you don't want to settle down with anyway, they too emotionally disconnected to ever really love you. They had to get that way to cope with getting skeeted In the face and spinned after sex on the regular.

If she all those other things, and she really love you, great sex is only a good conversation and a open mind away. It's only men who can't come with the equipment women have the goods already. And I have never seen a women cum and not release some kind of freak after that.

And good girls just come with avg head. Women who great at head again, normally got that way from giving head, a lot, to a lot of dudes. Who settles down with that?

My wife is avg at head, but I appreciate that she tries. If you want that best sex shyt, get it out your system with the bust downs before you settle down like I did. I make the best love with my girl tho, because she offers all the other things.

Rel shyt, breh.

If I was to marry at say 25 then bomb sex would be a requirement. As I have matured, I have grown to appreciate the entire package and not just one facet.:yeshrug:
 

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This isn't true, Women in long term relationships are having much more sex than a single women hooking up once a week or so.

Some people are just better at sex.
Again, this is just my personal experience

When I got with a women who commonly slept around, she was just better and I concluded that she was more in tune with what to do and how to do it because of how many partners she has had.again just my personal experience

When I have been with a women who only had a few partners, I enjoyed that experience more because she seemed to only be adjusted to what she did with whoever she was with for a long period of time. That women seemed more connected to a new experience. Whereas the women who just got around normally treated the sex afterwards like it was business as usual.

But as I stated, I have never been with a good girl, who felt a cum, and was not open to experimenting with more. So either the dude is showing too much of his frustration and don't really love the woman enough to have the patience to teach her more, or he himself is not that great and is putting it all on the woman.
 

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Again, this is just my personal experience

When I got with a women who commonly slept around, she was just better and I concluded that she was more in tune with what to do and how to do it because of how many partners she has had.again just my personal experience

When I have been with a women who only had a few partners, I enjoyed that experience more because she seemed to only be adjusted to what she did with whoever she was with for a long period of time. That women seemed more connected to a new experience. Whereas the women who just got around normally treated the sex afterwards like it was business as usual.

But as I stated, I have never been with a good girl, who felt a cum, and was not open to experimenting with more. So either the dude is showing too much of his frustration and don't really love the woman enough to have the patience to teach her more, or he himself is not that great and is putting it all on the woman.


I agree with this
 

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Imma keep it real with you unlike most posters in here...

Dont do it.. if yall aint sexually compatable then you're not compatable.. its simple but folks wanna make it complex. Its human nature to want to be sexually satisfied. And thats what your partner is supposed to do for you. If they cant you will either end up cheating or be miserable and unhappy which will destroy your relationship over time.

That desire to be sexually satisfied will never go away.. over half of marraiges end in divorce. This is because most people had no business getting married to begin with. They ignored the obvious compatability problems like you are considering until it was too late. Dont do it to yourself.
 

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Yeah I made a thread about this ahwile back. I been with my chick off and on 5 years. Everything is dope, she's afrocentric, good credit, thick nice body, works out, makes me breakfast and bed every morning, my family loves her. Sex is awful... shyt is the most conflicting feeling. I hear all these nikkas with they train her and all that, but i'm tell you, if a chick is trash, u can try and try and try and she just wont get it.

Then it boils down to leaving, cheating, or dealing with it.

The sex will make you resent her for the smallest shyt, because your needs aren't being met. No my dikk isn't small or wack, most women from my past, i still have a pass to come to their house anytime. Ive fukked alot of women, and she's only been with like 6 guys in her life. So it's kinda crazy. It sounds simple, but it's not simple at all. Its to the point I can't even get hard now. Just feels like a waste of time, so i'll pretend to be sleep or something. shyts the worst.
Yo I swear to GOD I'm in the exact same situation right now I mean exact.. I just had a talk to her like yo this relationship shyt getting wack I need to do me.. It's crazy cud I love the shyt out of her but when it's time to fukk that chemistry gone..

She loyal as shyt though so I really don't want to do her dirty, but something got to give..Every lil thing she do be getting me mad:lolbron:

Man I don't be knowing what to do.
 
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