Could u marry a woman dat doesnt fully satisfy u sexually?

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A relationship built off sex, or staying "healthy" because of the sex isn't a real relationship. Point Blank, No matter how bomb the sex is its not enough, same for most vices and vanities.


Its great to be in an amazing sexually healthy relationship, but when ish hits the fan and you can barely talk things out and the only common ground you really have is sex.... eventually sex isn't going to be enough to keep it together.


If your in a relationship just to have someone around and to have someone to exclusively have sex with then I guess it doesn't matter as long as you don't catch feelings. But when you actually care for someone sex while important isn't make or break unless they are totally against it or a complete freak.


There are somethings you'll have to take a L on in a serious relationship Sex is somewhat mid tier for me, years ago it would have been high tier. But the older I've gotten and the more I've traveled and experienced new things... sex has drop down a few spots. I'd rather have a loyal, cute, easy going woman that can communicate how she feels instead of a big booty, gym rat sexual deviant that doesn't really know how she'll feel about life or the person she's with the next week.
 

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Yo I swear to GOD I'm in the exact same situation right now I mean exact.. I just had a talk to her like yo this relationship shyt getting wack I need to do me.. It's crazy cud I love the shyt out of her but when it's time to fukk that chemistry gone..

She loyal as shyt though so I really don't want to do her dirty, but something got to give..Every lil thing she do be getting me mad:lolbron:

Man I don't be knowing what to do.

I did this Saturday morning. I dont really want to leave tho. But I do at the same time. shyt is the worst. I ended up going to an old flames crib in Flatbush after a party, i'm drunk as shyt, her ass was phat as shyt, but I wasn't even with it, just ended up sleeping on the couch. Woke up she made me breakfast and we talked all day. :pachaha:

:mjcry::mjcry::mjcry:
 

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i wouldn't even date a female if we weren't sexually compatible. Not everyone is meant to be with everyone. Some people just fit together better.
 

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A relationship built off sex, or staying "healthy" because of the sex isn't a real relationship. Point Blank, No matter how bomb the sex is its not enough, same for most vices and vanities.


Its great to be in an amazing sexually healthy relationship, but when ish hits the fan and you can barely talk things out and the only common ground you really have is sex.... eventually sex isn't going to be enough to keep it together.


If your in a relationship just to have someone around and to have someone to exclusively have sex with then I guess it doesn't matter as long as you don't catch feelings. But when you actually care for someone sex while important isn't make or break unless they are totally against it or a complete freak.


There are somethings you'll have to take a L on in a serious relationship Sex is somewhat mid tier for me, years ago it would have been high tier. But the older I've gotten and the more I've traveled and experienced new things... sex has drop down a few spots. I'd rather have a loyal, cute, easy going woman that can communicate how she feels instead of a big booty, gym rat sexual deviant that doesn't really know how she'll feel about life or the person she's with the next week.

You just wrote a whole bunch of nothing. What you did is just tilt the entire convo so you could be right

Because you can be In a relationship with bad sex and have bad communication which is more normal than the gibberish you typed because bad sex usually the result of a lack of communication
 

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You just wrote a whole bunch of nothing. What you did is just tilt the entire convo so you could be right

Because you can be In a relationship with bad sex and have bad communication which is more normal than the gibberish you typed because bad sex usually the result of a lack of communication
:usure: But I wrote gibberish...ok





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"Bad sex is usually the result of a lack of communication":dwillhuh:



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Everything else is A1 :ahh:

Shes a dime, educated, comes from a good family, her credit score is good, shes funny like @Rawtid

But when it comes to sexual stuff, well shes not bad, but its jus iite :patrice:. She dont ever make u bust nuts that got u :dead: :deadrose: lyin on the bed afterwards. Average box, average head.

:ld: shes also adamant about not lettin u eat the booty

My only advice is that being bad in bed isn't a permenant class. You need to teach her, make her comfortable. I used to be standard in bed.
 

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Yea.

Mostly 95% of bytches ain't down for threesomes so at the end of the day whether in a relationship or out of one I ain't getting what I want so if I'm in one and my bytch don't give head or something I'll just deal with it. Cheat if the opportunity arises but if not oh well.
 

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Yea, sex is important, but it's only 10% of a relationship. Lots of couples stay together even though they can no longer have sex for one reason or another.
 

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Yeah

Sex ain't that big of a deal to me anymore

Me and my girl have fun just laying in bed together :ohlawd:
 
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