Could u marry a woman dat doesnt fully satisfy u sexually?

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nah b. Everybody can be trained. You gotta put your coaching visor on and make her run laps. Whats the worst parts folk?

Sorry, but you can't train every female to fulfill your sexual needs! Some women just don't have good p*ssy or aren't freaks in the sheets, because they're not really into sex physically, mentally or both. Also in some cases there are women you may not be sexually compatible with chemistry wise or their sex drive is totally different than yours.
 

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Marriage is supposed to be about being completely happy with one individual for your entire life folk...if that person is lacking in ANY part of a relationship (Sex, Communication, Honesty, Etc.) thats not a good look. With the way shyt is now in terms of chances for divorce, you shouldnt hop in no marriage knowing you missing an essential part of what makes you happy. You supposed to only get married once, so when you do, it should be as close to perfect (if not perfect by at least your standards) as you could possibly want to prevent you from looking elsewhere.

Honestly, if she aint bothering you about getting married soon, dont stress it G. Express your feelings, maybe she dont even know there is an issue. If she do, and she aint willing to change, you may need to look in the mirror and see how much longer you could accept anything less than exactly what you looking for....
 

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Marriage is supposed to be about being completely happy with one individual for your entire life folk...if that person is lacking in ANY part of a relationship (Sex, Communication, Honesty, Etc.) thats not a good look. With the way shyt is now in terms of chances for divorce, you shouldnt hop in no marriage knowing you missing an essential part of what makes you happy. You supposed to only get married once, so when you do, it should be as close to perfect (if not perfect by at least your standards) as you could possibly want to prevent you from looking elsewhere.

Honestly, if she aint bothering you about getting married soon, dont stress it G. Express your feelings, maybe she dont even know there is an issue. If she do, and she aint willing to change, you may need to look in the mirror and see how much longer you could accept anything less than exactly what you looking for....

This is the type of attitude that leads people to have unrealistic expectations. In turn, these expectations lead to divorce. People go into marriage with these fairy tale ideas, and then when it doesn't work out that way they are quick to give up.

Marriage is about building a life together. Mutual respect, love, shared values, and common goals trump being "happy" all of the time. You are not going to be "happy" all of the time, life makes sure of that. This is not to say that one should not have standards - everyone has deal breakers. But promoting this "happiness over everything" fantasy is irresponsible.
 

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This is the type of attitude that leads people to have unrealistic expectations. In turn, these expectations lead to divorce. People go into marriage with these fairy tale ideas, and then when it doesn't work out that way they are quick to give up.

Marriage is about building a life together. Mutual respect, love, shared values, and common goals trump being "happy" all of the time. You are not going to be "happy" all of the time, life makes sure of that. This is not to say that one should not have standards - everyone has deal breakers. But promoting this "happiness over everything" fantasy is irresponsible.

And I feel like its irresponsible to get into a situation where someone isnt fulfilling a majority of the things you're looking for...Its supposed to be a lifelong commitment, you better be certain that it makes you happy a majority of the time. Yea, its impossible for a marriage not to have ups and downs, but those are usually magnified when there are other things lacking...I dont know where you got the part about giving up quick (unless you've experienced that yourself) because as I stated, you dont necessarily have to rush into marriage if everything aint there.

You shouldnt get married (in my opinion) to someone who isnt giving you everything youre looking for/or cant give you everything. It doesn't benefit anyone (men or women) to get into that situation only to find out that missing an element of a relationship along with other issues all couples face amplifies the issue. You took a portion of my comment and made that your entire argument as opposed to putting it all in the perspective it was meant to be.
 

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And I feel like its irresponsible to get into a situation where someone isnt fulfilling a majority of the things you're looking for...Its supposed to be a lifelong commitment, you better be certain that it makes you happy a majority of the time. Yea, its impossible for a marriage not to have ups and downs, but those are usually magnified when there are other things lacking...I dont know where you got the part about giving up quick (unless you've experienced that yourself) because as I stated, you dont necessarily have to rush into marriage if everything aint there.

You shouldnt get married (in my opinion) to someone who isnt giving you everything youre looking for/or cant give you everything. It doesn't benefit anyone (men or women) to get into that situation only to find out that missing an element of a relationship along with other issues all couples face amplifies the issue. You took a portion of my comment and made that your entire argument as opposed to putting it all in the perspective it was meant to be.

My objection was to the statement:

Marriage is supposed to be about being completely happy with one individual for your entire life folk

My response was, no, it is not.
 

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Yes, because marriage is NOT JUST about sex. It's about love, companionship, and similar people marrying to become ONE/ A UNIT. Most of y'all coli nikkas aren't ready for marriage.
 

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I couldn't deal with poor sex.
Average sex with everything else being stellar would be fine, though.
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lmao... yeah pancakes from scratch, eggs, fruit, all types of shyt. whatever i want really. Shes a good girl.
Have you told her you're not sexually satisfied :ld:

If not she may be thinking she's satisfying you and if she knew she wasn't she'd probably try harder or turn up.
 
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