Dating as a 30+ yr old man

[⠀X ⠀]

As long as you look good, have a good personality, and are willing to put yourself out there, you shouldn't have many problems.

The fact that you should be more financially successful than you were before, as well as have more experience, should make it easier.

 

[Balla]

Do men really physically change as soon as they hit 30?

So far 30 sounds like hell, why even live til then?

 

[13473]

i think you should move.

i'm sure the reason there aren't many women your age around is because the young women go back home after graduating. even if you did snag a college student, then it'd only last until she graduated or went home for the summer.

if you only want temporary relationships, then that sounds fine. if you want something more long term and a wider age range, then you likely will have to move.

 

[10bandz]

31 isn’t even old bro

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

The ages of women I’ve dated are all across the board but I’m only 34 myself. Though recently a lot of older women have been coming at me. Not like older older, just like 2-4 years older than myself. That’s probably been the most recent development for me.

Normal dating doesn’t really apply to me because I’m a touring musician. Usually women show some interest in hanging out, either directly (ask me straight up) or indirectly (DMs, social media, etc) and it usually moves in the manner of sex on the first day.

Not bragging, it’s just how it is given my occupation

Funny thing is I usually don’t try for it like that either (sex on first date) But i believe the feelings are typically mutual across the board so that’s why my “dates” go in that manner. I mean, why waste time? Generally I have so little to spend with any particular person anyways.

Most those women know what they doing anyways when they message me and shyt, they just like to test the waters.

Dating in my 20s wasn’t nearly as eventful but I was in a relationship towards the end of my twenties so that made a difference...

 

[KillerB88]

A 30 year old man should eat from 21-45 bracket, easy.

OP is

Fax. Im 30 living in LA and my last piece was 23.

 

[Vilify]

I'm in my 30's and get plenty choosing signals way more than I can handle.

Spoiler

From sloppy bytches and single moms

 

[Da_Eggman]

Depressing ass thread

 

[ill_will82]

Depressing ass thread

Yup can't do it.

 

[Mowgli]

For my guys who are 30+ do you find it is easier to date women than it was in your 20s? I am 31 and it finally dawned on me that I am getting old. Most of the women I encounter on a daily basis are in their early to mid 20s ( I live in a college town) . I don't get as many smiles and flirting as I did when I was a younger man. And it makes sense. I am an old man in their eyes. Dont get me wrong I still get my fair share of play.

I dont really encounter too many woman in my age bracket. I feel like all of them have either moved out of state to ome of the major cities or are married (or single) with kids.

What has been your experience? Do you date women also in their 30s or do you date younger?

Met my wife at 29

Feel like it was right on time

All these single women at 35 seem like leftovers

But as the saying goes. One man's trash. Lot of guys throwing Superman issue number one in the trash Now's the time to clean up before all the women that like you are 35

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

I wish I could be 31 again

 

[the bossman]

Move to a major black city and eat (i.e. DC/ATL/HOU/CLT/etc)

 

[MoveForward]

I'm just getting back in the dating game. I had my first child at 14 and I got married at 20 so I spent my prime years working hard and holding sh1t down.

Last year I hit my stride and got my first corporate job and as my professional career excelled my marriage fell apart. To be quite honest, this dating sh1t in Atlanta is cool because we have alot of bad b1tches that don't expect much. The only downfall is the women from 28-34 are trying to get married and have kids quick and I have already done that.

 

[Balla]

I wish I could be 31 again

It seems all this older age shyt is bullshyt.

Didn’t you say this didn’t happen to you until your 40s?

Then other dudes saying exactly at 30 it’s over.

This all seems like nothing is concrete, maybe it’s all in the mind.

 

[idonttouchgrass]

Met my wife at 29

Feel like it was right on time

All these single women at 35 seem like leftovers

But as the saying goes. One man's trash. Lot of guys throwing Superman issue number one in the trash Now's the time to clean up before all the women that like you are 35

how old was your wife at the time?